6/08/2022

[Infidelity Therapy] Happy about passionate love making with your husband in infidelity?


      A married couple's passionate love making must make both the husband and the wife happy. However, passionate love making between the husband in infidelity and the wife with post traumatic stress does more harm then good. 

     The wife who is happy about having a lot of sex with the husband in infidelity, usually even more frequently and passionately than before the husband infidelity has occurred, is considered to have developed the psychology of an adulteress. The wife is responding sexually to her own husband like an adulteress, destroying her own mind and psychology as well as her family and children. 

     <Example> “My husband truly regrets having an affair and he is so sweet to me. We are really happy these days and have sex more frequently and passionately than before. Actually, we used to be a sexless couple before I found out about his infidelity. I suffered from psychological pain at first, but having sex more seems to have brought us back together. My husband promises to me that he will never have an affair and I have recovered trust in him.” 

     Many women report that they have restored marriage relationship and happiness through restoring sexual relationship with the husband in infidelity and have solved all the problems. Many others try to restore sexual relationship with the husband in infidelity, or envy those who claim they have become happy since they have frequent and passionate sex with the husband in infidelity. All of them are convinced that husband infidelity has occurred due to the couple's sexual problems. 

     The husband in infidelity has developed relationship addiction, which makes him addicted to the adulteress's sexual responses. The wife who has discovered husband infidelity develops post traumatic stress accompanied by abnormally strong sexual desire. Then, the following 5 phenomena can be observed in the couple as they focus more on having sex. 

      1. The husband has strong sexual desire and enjoys having sex. 

The husband in relationship addiction is proud of himself for having an affair and the wife with post traumatic stress develops abnormal sexual desire. As they have more sex, the wife thinks that husband infidelity has led them to have more sex ad restore marriage relationship. The wife's condition progresses further by activating sexuality for intense pleasure and comfort and she mistakes sexual pleasure for happiness. Then, both the husband's relationship addiction and the wife's post traumatic stress deteriorates. 

     2. The husband identifies the wife with the adulteress and have sex more with the wife.

The husband thinks that something is better than nothing. The husband chooses to have sexual pleasure through the wife instead of the adulteress. The husband almost always imagines about having sex with other women when he is having sex with the wife. That is, the wife becomes a substitute for the adulteress. Of course, both the husband's relationship addiction and the wife's post traumatic stress deteriorates. 

     3. The husband has sex with both the adulteress and the wife frequently. 

The husband thinks that he can have the cake and eat it. The husband enjoys both the adulteress's sexual responses and the wife's sexual responses. He has sex with both the adulteress and the wife frequently. He has adulteresses both at home and outside home. Of course, both the husband's relationship addiction and the wife's post traumatic stress deteriorates. 

     4. The husband has sex with the wife frequently to make her feel comfortable. 

The husband cannot stand stress from the wife's anger and rage due to his infidelity. Having sex can be one of his strategies to make the wife feel comfortable and happy by relieving her abnormal sexual desire. Then, the wife's rage and anger seem to subside on the surface. Of course, both the husband's relationship addiction and the wife's post traumatic stress deteriorates. 

     5. The husband tries to make the wife enjoy perversive sex. 

The husband takes the wife's condition of post traumatic stress and abnormal sexual desire as an opportunity to introduce perversive sex to her such as threesome, group sex, or anal sex. He tries to have sex with the wife more frequently and passionately to lead her to sexual perversion. The wife may willingly participate in perversive sex thinking that they have restored sexual relationship and happiness. In such cases, both the husband and the wife are likely to develop more serious pathological conditions. 

     The wife may feel that she is happy when she has more frequent and passionate sex with the husband in infidelity. However, both the husband's and the wife's condition deteriorate, and they become to stop having sex sooner or later. Then, the husband will look for an adulteress with even stronger sexual responses, and the wife willingly becomes an adulteress of other men and abandons her role as the wife and mother.

     Then, the husband may casually take advantage of the wife sexually when he needs a sex partner, and doesn't even care whether she meets other men or not since the husband perceives the wife as one of the adulteresses. The wife equates sexual pleasure with love and happiness and willingly becomes a sexual object for many men. She also does not care about the husband's infidelity any more, since she perceives the husband as one of the adulterers.

     The husband in infidelity has already developed relationship addiction, which destroys his mind and psychology as well as his relationships, love, passion, sexuality, and happiness. However, the wife with post traumatic stress still has a chance to recover before she develops relationship addiction and more severe psychological disorders. The wife who thinks that she has restored marriage relationship through having more frequent and passionate sex with the husband in infidelity must come to herself, and begin to treat her condition of post traumatic stress adopting adequate methods to restore happiness in a true sense. 

https://youtu.be/mOhQw1PXa98

 

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[Review] I see myself changing.


In the past, I worked really hard to bring myself back, 

but I did not have the eyes to see myself and I despaired.

Today, finally, I feel proud of myself.


I am learning how to stand by myself experiencing the whole process of treatment,

which helped me turn back for life at the edge of the cliff. 

The process of treatment made me learn about the meaning of true gratitude. 

I was a religious person in the past, 

and heard many people say that they become happy when they can be grateful. 


However, when I suffered from the pain of death 

and simply wanted to stop the pain by just letting go of everything, 

the word gratitude was just a word I have seen in a dictionary. 


How badly did I want to get out of pain,  

and how shiny was the light that led me to life again, 

the light of wound treatment and psychology treatment.

At last, feelings of gratitude have come to me without myself making any effort. 

Of course, I have also found meanings and values of life again. 

 

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6/02/2022

[Mother Therapy] Mother's wounds damage children's psychology.

 

Everyone has big and small wounds, but treated wounds become the source of happiness. Especially, mothers must take good care of their wounds because untreated mother's wounds may negatively affect children's psychology and even cause diverse psychological problems in children.

When mothers develop post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity while living a happy life with their family and children, they cannot but suffer from excruciating psychological pain. They may blame others or themselves, and do their best to overcome their difficulties taking all the measures within their knowledge and ability. 

When mothers are in pain of death due to post traumatic stress and try to deal with their own problems, children are likely to be neglected and develop psychological problems. Some mothers may completely neglect children and others may even use children to relieve their stress. They may take counseling and coaching, file lawsuits, proceed for a divorce. They may develop tendency for dependency and obsession. In this process, children's psychology also keeps deteriorating. 

Whether the mother gets a divorce, wins the lawsuit, feels better by taking counseling and coaching, or gets a temporary relief by doing anything else, her post traumatic stress cannot be adequately treated, and her children cannot but suffer from mother's unstable psychology, emotions, and behaviors. Mother's emotions permeate children's mind as they are, and greatly affect children's psychological condition. 

Mothers who suffer from post traumatic stress must accurately treat their condition before anything. The husband who has committed infidelity is considered to have already lost healthy psychology as well as the ability of love, passion, and happiness. The wife's taking practical measures will not recover the husband's destroyed mind since it is only the husband himself who can restore his own mind and psychology. 

As you adequately treat post traumatic stress, you will find that children also stabilize their psychology in no time. Then, you and your children can restore happiness regardless of your husband's psychological condition and practical circumstance. You can also give your husband an opportunity to treat himself if he finds it necessary. Please, remember that mother's emotions are delivered to children as they are. When mothers are not treated, children have to take in and keep all the pain and suffering for their whole life, thereby wounds being passed on through generations. 

https://youtu.be/IxEVNzW0ASs


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5/31/2022

[Infidelity Therapy] If infidelity is love, why don't we all have an affair?

 

[Infidelity Therapy] Ignorant people who regard infidelity as love

You may have seen many people who regard infidelity as love in movies, books, lectures, and social and mass media. Their argument may look right in their own way and you may also agree on their ideas and explanations. When the majority of people accept certain ideas even when they are distorted ones, they become common sense and knowledge in the society. However, the true nature and cause of infidelity is relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder. Relationship addiction makes your psychology operate in a distorted way with regard to love, passion, and sexuality, and destroys all human relationships. 

People who equate infidelity with love are falsely justifying relationship addiction as a normal psychological condition. They easily relate the issue of infidelity with issues of marriage, sexuality, love, and emotions. These people are considered to be downright ignorant.

They are actually encouraging infidelity by justifying infidelity without understanding the underlying mechanism of the phenomena. What would happen when such distorted ideas become common sense and knowledge being accepted by the majority of people in the society? Of course, more and more people will end up committing infidelity thinking that they are in love when they are actually in a pathological condition of psychology. Then, no one would mind their loved ones including their parents and children developing relationship addiction assuming that they have just fallen in love. 

So many people are leading innocent people to develop psychological disorders, and many more are following the crowd destroying their own life and others' lives.      If you are so sure that infidelity is love, you must encourage your spouse, children, and other family members to commit infidelity openly. You can encourage everyone around to do so, too, since falling in love must be what everyone wants and a beautiful thing. 

Can you really say that

- It is OK to commit infidelity when you have marriage problems?

- It is OK to fall in love again through infidelity when you have relational problems?

- It is OK to just have sex with a new partner when you have sexual problems with the current partner?

 It is so obvious that people who regard infidelity as love are leading everyone to destroy themselves and people around them leading to the destruction of not only individuals but also the whole society. We are in a sad situation where even children are being negatively affected in this process. Please, keep in mind that infidelity has nothing to do with love whatsoever, and it is only the manifestation of relationship addiction, which is presented as response addiction for men and attention addiction for women. 

https://youtu.be/gT5DzpwYpY8

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[Infidelity Therapy] Psychology counseling that turns fake wounds into real wounds.


When the wife discovers husband infidelity, she develops post traumatic stress caused by a great amount of wounds. When the level of general wounds is ㊀10, the level of wounds of post traumatic stress is more than ㊀100,000.

Especially, when the wife has had a happy marriage and trusted husband, wounds of post traumatic stress may be even greater like ㊀1,000,000. The wife with post traumatic stress can be likened to a wife who got hit in the back of her head with a huge hammer by the husband as she was just living a perfectly happy life. She suddenly got hit by a huge lightening in a beautiful sunny day. 

In such cases, real wounds directly caused by husband infidelity is less than 1% of the pain she recognizes. 99% of her pain is caused by the fake wounds triggered by husband infidelity. Post traumatic stress turns all her happy memories in her marriage life associated with her husband into wounds that are fake but that she recognizes as pain. 

‘My husband must love the adulteress, so my whole life has lost its meaning.’

‘My husband has an affair because I refused to have sex with him.’

‘My husband has an affair because I was too busy and didn't take care of him’

‘How could he betray me after all I have done for him? I feel so angry.’

‘I regret devoting my life to taking care of children not even knowing my husband was having an affair.’

      The wife may blame herself, blame other people, regret her life, and become enraged. She experiences unbearable excruciating pain. All women who have suffered from post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity must know that it feels like pain of death.     

     Here is an example dialogue between a suffering wife and a psychology counselor.

<Wife> My husband must be in love with the adulteress. My whole life is meaningless. What should I do?

<Counselor> I completely understand how much pain you are suffering from. Your husband definitely did a wrong thing. You must gather up your will for life and find your own happiness. You can recover and live a happy life from now on. It is not too late. 

※ The wife may feel consoled by the counselor's encouragement and she may have hope for happiness. It is right for the counselor to empathize, console, and encourage the wife. However, husband infidelity is caused by relationship addiction, which makes      him addicted to the adulteress' sexual responses. He never loved the adulteress but needed her sexual responses in the first place. The husband's love is unlimited responsibility in his unconsciousness, and it is formed only toward his wife. Connecting love and the adulteress causes fake wounds in the wife's mind. The counselor's empathy, consolation, and encouragement transform fake wounds into real wounds. 

     Also, the wife may think that her whole life has been wasted, but it is obvious that she has had a good life managing family, children, and career. When she thinks that her whole life has been wasted, all her memories about her life are perceived as wounds, which are actually fake wounds. 

     When the wife's fake wounds are perceived as real wounds, she may begin to think, 'He has been lying to me and he doesn't love me. He must have been so happy to meet the adulteress. I was stupid enough to trust him and devoted my life to family and children. I must listen to the counselor and I must change from now on and find my own happiness again. I must do everything differently'.

     Then, what kind of life will the wife live from then on? She thinks that devoting her life to family and children is wrong and her marriage is wrong, so she needs to get a divorce. She must change everything from her relationships with people and her ideas about love and happiness to her ideas about sexuality. She may begin to get involved with men she is not supposed to, give sexual responses to men in return for attention, and mistake having such a relationship for happiness. 

     The consequence of turning fake wounds into real wounds is absolutely disastrous. It completely destroys the life of the wife and children. Would anyone be willing to take psychology counseling that turns fake wounds into real wounds? When someone empathizes, consoles, encourages, and advises you about fake wounds, they are perceived as real wounds. You may feel comfortable temporarily, but it only leads you to dire consequences.

    Psychology counselors must reflect on themselves for what they do to empathize, encourage, and console the wife suffering from pain, 99% of which is fake wounds. Korea Institute of Psycho-education does not provide psychology counseling that turns all fake wounds into real wounds. KIP Treatment Programs are designed to treat wounds effectively without psychology counseling and without short-term or long-term adverse effects. 

 https://youtu.be/phdfsCEbNIY

                    


 

5/24/2022

[Review] Time for getting to know myself


I always blamed my family background and my own inability while I was growing up. 

I suffered from husband infidelity, and my children were neglected due to my unstable and unhealthy psychological condition. My marriage was barely maintained and on the verge of being broken up any moment. 

I began my treatment and learned that my husband became selfish and arrogant and disregarded my ideas and feelings because he had developed a sickness in mind and could not but misjudge everything. I gradually became comfortable learning about the difference between men's mind and women's mind.

The reality kept staying in difficulty, and I sometimes had vindictive mentality in spite of myself. I was dependent on video lectures and blamed myself and others back and forth. Hope was unseen and despair kept me for 2 years. 

Now, I realize how important it is to focus on therapeutic tasks, which I had heard but had not listened. Now, I have transformed my wounds into the void of feelings. I have a comfortable life and make efforts to pursue values of life. 

All humans pursue happiness. Only I myself can make myself happy.  I make efforts to stay at the center of my mind. 

I was once biased to assume and judge my husband based on my false conviction. I was lucky to have a chance to take Mind Training and I am thankful. It guided me to treat wounds, and get up and go in the right direction.

I will keep making efforts to become a happy person. 

https://youtu.be/o1cJF3AHK10

 

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5/20/2022

[Mother Therapy] Do parents know what children think and feel?

 

Most parents think that they know what their children think and feel. Parents are the ones who have seen and shared every single moment of children's growth since birth to the present, so they must know their children very well. However, what they have seen in the children's growth is the manifested phenomena that surfaced based on the operation of children's psychology such as perception, memory, and expression instead of children's mind itself. 

First of all, parents must understand that girls' mind and boys' mind operate differently at the fundamental level. Male's mind operates in boys and female's mind operates in girls regardless of age. The father and the son have the same operation of mind and the mother and the daughter have the same operation of mind. Not knowing this mechanism, many people think the boys resemble their father and daughters resemble their mother. They think that children have somehow inherited their parents' psychological traits by the work of genetics.

Parents are adults, so they are in the phase of self-actualization. They have married and formed a family. On the other hand, children are still in the phase of psychological growth. Children go through a few phases before they become adults and live in the phase of self-actualization. They go through the phase of survival to form the psychology of survival, the phase of adaptation to relationships to form the psychology of adapting to diverse relationships, and the phase of formation of self-identity to form their own thought standards. 

Parents' growth process and children's growth process must be different since everyone has unique environment in the growth period. The operation of mind at the fundamental level is the same for parents and children, but the manifested psychology resulting from different environments are different for each individual. What parents see in children is the manifestation of psychology resulting from the operation of mind in different phases of psychological development, which keeps changing as the grow.      Also, they are completely different from their parents' psychology. 

Then, how many parents could be convinced that they know their children's mind and psychology? They may not even know about their own mind and psychology. Mother Therapy guides mothers to adopt the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology for parenting, and help children form healthy psychology in the process of psychological development. Mothers can treat children's psychology without professional help and help them grow into healthy adults by adopting Mother Therapy. 

 https://youtu.be/BIF2Qzp01bE


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5/18/2022

[Infidelity Therapy] The murder of the spouse : A case that could happen to anyone.

 

[Infidelity Therapy] The husband's delusional jealousy and domestic violence, and the wife's murder of the husband

There was a sad news article that reported a crime case where the wife who had suffered from the husband's delusional jealousy and domestic violence murdered the husband. No case of homicide can be justified under any circumstance. It was such a sad situation that the wife could not get a divorce since she had to take care of children even in the pain of delusional jealousy and domestic violence for a long time. If the wife had treated her condition, and then, the husband had treated delusional jealousy, the murder could have been prevented. They lost all the chances for recovery and faced the fall of life. 

When the husband develops delusional jealousy, which is a type of megalomania, he also develops post traumatic stress and his obsession for the wife and violent behaviors progress. Then, it deteriorates to become intermittent explosive disorder. If the husband had treated post traumatic stress, he would not have developed intermittent explosive disorder. He could also have treated intermittent explosive disorder before it was too late. 

If the wife had truly wanted to take care of children in the right way, she should have asked for help and addressed the issue of domestic violence. It is sad to imagine how painful it would have been to stand domestic violence for such a long time. Just enduring the pain is right neither for the wife nor for children. It was possible to prevent the crime and live as a happy family again, but they lost the chance and the irrecoverable incident happened.

It is sad to imagine how painful it would have been to stand domestic violence for such a long time. and treatment your post traumatic stress is the first thing to do in any case. When your spouse has megalomania or post traumatic stress, you must take all the measures to persuade your spouse to treat the condition to restore happiness. Otherwise, you cannot but live an unhappy and ruined life. This couple didn't treat their conditions, and ended up with one party killing the other. Then, what would happen to children's mind and psychology? 

Such sad incidents are often occurring not far from us. Some people are convinced that such things will never happen to them, and are living the life of unhappiness and destruction. They must think that anything can happen to them as well as to others, and make efforts to treat their conditions and restore happiness in mind. 

https://youtu.be/YKIeulcDPTk


[Review] Making the right choice

 

It would be a long time or a short time depending on how you think. 

I smile thinking that it was a precious time since I still have many years to live happily. 

I don't exactly remember when they disappeared, but headache, stomach upset, dizziness, binge eating, edema, heart palpitations, menstrual cramps disappeared, and I also gained weight as I restored psychological stability. 

I feel grateful again as I enumerate my past chronic symptoms one by one. 

I guess my thought of starting the treatment should count as the beginning of the treatment, and I was lucky to be given an opportunity to take the treatment program. 

I have experienced the remission of negative feelings with the process of big and small wounds being retrieved and filtered. 

I was sometimes filled with emotions without any reason and sometimes drowned in sadness that squeezed my heart. 

All of them have passed. Suffocating pain is not felt any more. 

I thought the pain would never end but it diminished and eventually ended. 

Pain had many different appearances when it came to me. 

Sometimes, I just wanted to give up everything including the treatment in despair.

However, I gathered up all my strength just to keep going with the therapeutic tasks in the swirl of emotions that suffocated me. 

I did my best to deal with wounds in my mind as I did for my life in the past. 

I can make a real smile at me looking into the mirror with real positive feelings. 

I was so thankful to be diagnosed as complete cure. 

I will keep making efforts for my happiness and I thank all the staff at KIP. 

Thank you.


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5/11/2022

[Infidelity Therapy] You may be having fun, but your family are being destroyed.

 

[Infidelity Therapy] The future life of the family the husband in infidelity should know about. 

The husband in infidelity does not think about how his family is being destroyed. He may think that he will not have any problem as far as he is not caught by the wife. He thinks that he is just having a pleasurable life in the condition of addiction to the adulteress's sexual response. However, his family cannot but go through the predetermined process for unhappiness. 

1. The wife who finds out about husband infidelity develops post traumatic stress and intense sexual response toward other men. When she gets attention from other men, she will perceive sexual pleasure as love and show strong sexual response toward men. She will not perceive her husband as her husband, and her children as her children. She becomes an even worse sexual object of many men than the husband's adulteress. 

2. The husband is perceived as the worst father by his children due to infidelity problem. They may develop father's relationship addiction and mother's post traumatic stress when they become adults. That is, they develop psychological problems induced by parents' psychological problems. They may make the resolution in the conscious that they would never live like their parents, but their psychology with stress and wounds operates to follow their parent's examples. Husband infidelity leads all his family members to suffer from the consequence of his psychological disorder. 

3. Husband infidelity makes his family suffer and blame him for many things. He may form relationships with the adulteress and her family and sever the relationship with his own family who have normal psychology. His family may admit his infidelity in some cases, which indicates that other family members' psychology is already operating with problems such as relationship addiction and post traumatic stress. He can continue relationships only with people with psychological disorders. 

4. All of the husband's relationships involve selfish purpose or destruction. Any one who maintains a relationship with the husband is considered to have selfish purposes or destructive intention in the relationship. They may destroy all they have achieved in life due to relationship addiction or get immersed into infidelity more and more with obsession and become perpetrators who present intermittent explosive disorder. 

The future life of the husband is already determined since he has relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder that destroys human relationships. When the wife does not adequately treat her condition of post traumatic stress and protect children to restore happiness, her efforts of any kind will only aggravate the husband's relationship addiction. The husband may argue that he can restore himself anytime he wants but it indicates that he does not have any understanding about his condition and he is unlikely to try to treat his condition. When he realizes his problems and try to treat his condition later, it will take much more effort, time, and expense, since his condition will have deteriorated even further. 

https://youtu.be/uieTI929cVg

5/04/2022

[Mother Therapy] The Problems of Early Sex Education and Precocious Puberty

 

     These days, children are offered sex education even before they reach school age. Sex education is usually provided as knowledge education and children form their own standards based on sex education. Boys are likely to perceive it as something fun and pleasurable and generate positive moods, and girls are likely to perceive sexual information and generate wounds in mind and negative feelings. Children are likely to develop psychological problems more easily when they are exposed to sex education or any other sexual information. 

     Experience and knowledge form one's own thought standards. When children are exposed to sex education early on, boys generate positive moods and girls generate wounds in mind upon perceiving sexual information. When positive moods and wounds in mind become excessive, psychological problems occur and they cannot grow with healthy body and mind. They may also develop precocious puberty. 

     Knowledge education may have good results when applied for good use but may inflict damage upon people when applied in distorted ways. Early sex education can cause problems by inducing curiosity about sex and the sense of sexual pleasure in boys and girls. Education institutions have good intentions of educating children for prevention of sexual problems, but knowledge education forms thought standards and raises the chance of aggravating psychological problems and developing precocious puberty. 

Precocious puberty applies when children under 10 years old develop secondary sex characters. Girls tend to develop precocious puberty more than boys in general. However, severe cases of precocious puberty are more common in boys. Precocious puberty greatly contributes to aggravating psychological problems since human mind is necessarily connected to sexuality. 

     When precocious puberty develops in children, parents must do their best to manage children's psychological problems adequately. Parents must pay great attention to children and the mother must apply Mother Therapy in daily interactions with children. Mother Therapy provides treatment methods of child psychology and parenting strategies for mother's and children's happiness. 

https://youtu.be/B_8QLc4sVKY

 

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[Infidelity Therapy] Infidelity is equivalent to a crime.

 

     1. The victimized spouse of infidelity suffers from excruciating pain and develops post traumatic stress. Infidelity does not inflict physical damage on the victimized spouse but it inflicts great psychological damage so it is equivalent to a crime.         

     2. Infidelity destroys both one's own and the counterparty's family. It is equivalent to a crime that harms the counterparty's spouse and children. 

     3. When you commit infidelity yourself after suffering from spouse infidelity, it is equivalent to a crime of revenge. 

     4. Infidelity exposes children to various dangers by destroying the family. They may not be able to grow properly under loving care and they are more likely to have diverse problems when they become adults. They may also get involved in infidelity as adults becoming perpetrators in the society. 

     5. Many people glorify infidelity as love, but infidelity has nothing to do with love. Infidelity is caused by relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder, and is repeated for the whole lifetime unless adequately treated. People in infidelity have consciousness disorder that makes them mistake infidelity for love, so they glorify infidelity. It is as if criminals glorify their crimes and entice others to follow them blindly.        

     It is a pity that there are so many people who do not realize that infidelity is equivalent to a crime and mistake it for pleasure, love, and happiness. 

     There are some people who realize that they have done wrong by committing infidelity and try hard to live a righteous life again. We still have hope since at least some people repent and pay for their wrongdoing and make efforts for true love and happiness. 

     The victimized spouses suffer from post traumatic stress and their condition progresses. They must bear in mind that they need to put priority on treating post traumatic stress before anything to protect themselves and their children and restore happiness. 

     When they do not adequately treat their condition, it deteriorates to the point where they commit even more serious crimes than their spouses in infidelity. They start from being victims of infidelity to becoming perpetrators who destroy their own life, their children, and other families. 

https://youtu.be/rEp2iBtGh_Q


4/27/2022

[Review] Abnormal sexual desire disappears, and daily life changes.

 


The most difficult thing I suffered from before treatment was abnormal sexual desire.

I tried hard to come to myself, but it kept exhausting me surging and flaring.

The first change I experienced after starting the treatment was that abnormal sexual desire disappeared. 

I was happy just for that and I am amazed and thankful for every little change.

I try hard not to lose my first intention and I am making efforts everyday.

I smile thinking of the days when I was doing all the things I was not supposed to do. 

I am fighting hard against post traumatic stress that is taking me as a host. 

When I sometimes feel positive and happy, I praise myself for choosing the path of happiness. 

https://youtu.be/R4rUYfNDUyA


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4/25/2022

[Infidelity Therapy] Self-justification of people in infidelity

 

People in infidelity and people who advocate infidelity have already destroyed their life and make expressions of self-justification. Many people including victimized spouses due to spouse infidelity believe their self-justification and the also destroy their life and live an unhappy life, the worst life, and a ruined life. 

People in infidelity have developed relationship addiction acutely, which is a psychological disorder. It is a disease in mind that destroys human relationships that can be referred to as a terminal cancer in mind. They cannot fathom that they have relationship addiction and cannot but justify themselves. 

There are people who are even worse than people in infidelity. 

First, there are people who encourage infidelity. They encourage infidelity for their own selfish gain. Second, there are people who encourage victimized spouses to destroy their life. They advocate or admire infidelity. Third, there are people who aggravate their own post traumatic stress so that they cannot sense the pain and lead an unhappy life, the worst life, or a ruined life. They may end up committing infidelity themselves advocating infidelity. 

All the people described above destroy human relationships. The following are some typical arguments they use for self-justifications of their behaviors or ideas. 

1. Infidelity is only a fleeting one-time incident that can easily happen. Everyone who think and talk lightly about infidelity is justifying infidelity.

2. Infidelity occurs due to marriage problems. Everyone who attributes infidelity to couple problems, sexual problems, emotional problems, and environments is justifying infidelity. 

3. My infidelity is love and romance, but others' infidelity is just an affair. Everyone who argues that his or her infidelity is different and special since it is love and romance is falsely justifying infidelity. 

4. Infidelity issues can be resolved by solving practical problems. People who argue that infidelity issues can be solved by one's will and effort and it is not some disease are justifying infidelity. 

5. Infidelity issues can be resolved by help of counseling and psychiatric therapies.      

6. You need to know the story of how infidelity happened and proceeded to resolve infidelity issues. People who think and argue that psychology treatment requires knowing what exactly happened in the past are justifying infidelity. 

What do you think? What do people around you think? Infidelity is caused by relationship addiction, which is a severe psychological disorder that can advance to intermittent explosive disorder or hysteria. It is a condition that keeps recurring for the whole life time unless adequately treated. People who advocate and encourage infidelity entice you to get advice from people, solve practical problems such as divorce or lawsuits, take counseling, or develop dependency and obsession on work, hobbies or children. 

The victimizes spouse is having a life crisis due to spouse infidelity. It is simply absurd to justify infidelity under any circumstance. The victimized spouses must treat themselves and protect children. Then, they can give the spouses in infidelity an opportunity to treat their condition. KIP Treatment Program provides adequate treatment for both the spouse in infidelity and the victimized spouse so that they can restore happiness. 

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[Infidelity Therapy] The Analysis of Wife Infidelity based on the Adulterer's Condition




Wife infidelity indicates that she has developed attention addiction, which is a severe psychological disorder. The wife gives the adulterer what she has such as her body and mind, her xesmind and sexual pleasure, and her wealth. That is, the wife is useful for the adulterer. 

The adulterer has the psychology of the perpetrator of sexual assault and he destroys the woman's body, mind, sexuality, life, and family. He knows well that women are easier to seduce when they have more wounds, and women may provide sexual pleasure when they are given attention. 

The adulterer may self-justify that he is a good man who consoles and empathizes the woman and the woman has found a new life as a woman, which she has forgotten living only as a wife and mother. 

The adulterer needs and practices techniques of seducing women by giving attention and empathizing. He is likened to a criminal who takes advantage of the woman for sexual pleasure and financial gain. The wife becomes a dumb woman who allows sexual assault by the adulterer and a crazy woman who thinks that she has love and happiness when she is sexually assaulted. 

How and how much the wife's and her husband's life will be destroyed can be analyzed based on the adulterer's condition and situation.

1. The adulterer looks for a wife who does not get attention from her husband.

He tries to make the woman respond well sexuality. He also knows that women with post traumatic stress or many wounds have strong sexual response. 

2. The adulterer thinks that the more women he is involved with, the better. 

He has the sense of superiority and confidence when he has multiple relationships. He thinks that he is better than other men or the woman's husband. He also thinks that he is the winner over other men believing that he has better sexual ability. He may even share or exchange women with other men as objects of sex. 

3. The adulterer has other goals in the relationship. 

On top of taking advantage of the wife sexually, he may try to take things such as wealth, status, reputation, and power from the wife. The structure and level of dependency and the pursuit of values of life as well as how and how much the wife provides for the adulterer in return for sexual pleasure and attention can be analyzed. 

4. The adulterer takes sexual pleasure and does not take any responsibility. 

He self-justifies that he doesn't have to take any responsibility for the wife since she has her family. He thinks that all he has to do is to give her attention and enjoy himself. He likes the fact that he doesn't even have to pay for sex with the wife since she only wants attention and consolation. 

The crisis of marriage, the wife, the husband, and the family can be analyzed based on the above 4 factors. It is impossible for the wife with relationship addiction and the husband with post traumatic stress to resolve the issue of wife infidelity on their own. 

Taking advice, counseling, or coaching, lawsuit, suppression, dependency, obsession for children, work, religion, hobbies, and indulgence may make the condition of both the wife and the husband deteriorate. People who entice you for these measures are taking advantage of you for their own selfish purposes and lead you to destroy your mind and life. 

Making any effort without treating the husband's post traumatic stress may lead to unhappiness and ruin his life. The more you wait before treating post traumatic stress, the more time, effort, and expense you have to spend. 

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[Review] Complete Recovery of Sexual Functions

 

I feel numb upon the diagnosis of complete recovery.

Before treatment, I used to lose my temper easily, and had insomnia and chronic fatigue. 

I was a picky eater and had irritable bowel syndrome. 

I had skin problems,

and always had troubles with people around me. 

I gave my family pain by blaming them for everything. 


I began to change little by little as I took KIP Treatment Program. 

I slept better and ate better. 

My skin looked and felt better. 


These days, I keep smiling even when my wife gets angry at me.

I am composed and my wife looks so adorable to me. 

She is the only one for me. 

I have learned what is precious in life and how I have to live. 


I first started treatment just to improve my sexual functions, which I recovered, of course.

I learned something much bigger. 

If I had continued to live without treating my condition,

I don't even want to think about it. 


Thank you so much. 

I think I can live happily from now on. 


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