The most important thing among the ideas of Mother Therapy is that ‘children’s psychological problems must not be defined as psychological disorders.’ This means that children’s psychological problems can occur in the process of growth and that these problems can be resolved without difficulty if children’s psychology is adjusted a little bit. That is why children’s problems are not psychological disorders (if psychological problems are fixed, it will be difficult for them to be recovered without expert’s treatment).
Psychological problems are the state where psychology is recovered its original state and stabilized by adjusting the psychology a little bit when problems occur in psychology as you live. On the other hand, the state where your psychology cannot be recovered without expert’s treatment since psychological problems are remained and fixed for over a certain period of time after the occurrence is called psychological disorders.
Ultimately, it is very dangerous to define every single trials and errors, negative or positive moods and emotions that could occur in the phases of survival, adaptation of relationship, and formation of self-identity as psychological disorders resulting in making the psychological problems unable to be recovered.
This is why it is impossible to treat children’s psychological problems with the existing psychological treatment methods for children that define psychological problems as psychological disorders. It would rather make children live with psychological disorders even when they don’t have psychological disorders. Counselors, experts, and even mothers do not perceive this problem as a serious error.
Your children just have psychological problems; they are unable to recover their original psychological state because they cannot adjust it. They are healthily experiencing trials and errors in survival, adaptation to relationship, and formation of self-identity; they are in the process of learning negative and positive moods and emotions. Mothers should understand that children are growing healthily event though they are experiencing difficulties now due to psychological problems.
Your children do not have psychological disorders. You should not make them have psychological disorders by forcing them to take unnecessary psychological treatment. You are able enough to treat your children’s psychological problems as mothers. If you learn the method that allows your children to recover healthy psychology by a little bit adjusting their psychological problems, you can treat any of their psychological problems without difficulty. Keep in mind that children’s problems are not psychological disorders but psychological problems that could occur when they experience trials and errors in the process of their growth. Do not make them live with psychological disorders.
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