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4/12/2021

[Publication] The Theory of Mimind

 

The Principles of How Human Mind and Psychology Work

Human mind consists of the conscious and the unconscious, and the mind operates differently when a human exists as an individual and as a person in relationship. Human mind is the standard and expression of psychology, and the principle and rule by which psychology operates. Humans have the mind of pursuing happiness. Males and females have complete differences in the working of the mind, the pursuit of happiness, the memory of emotions, and the immersion and concentration. The Theory of Mimind explains how the mind exists and works to have the conscious and the unconscious operate, to activate Migene, and to have the human psychology work. The Theory of Mimind is a psychological theory that investigates the working of human mind.


Preface

I have been researching psychological disorders and developing treatments while developing a new psychological theory. This is a book of psychological theory, which is written based on my experiences of counseling and psycho-educating many people to treat their various psychological disorders. I had never majored in psychology, counseling, or psychiatry. However, through many years of clinical counseling and psycho-education, I was capable of not only inventing mimind, xesmind, and migene, but also verifying them so that many people from all walks of life, both professionals in medical and psychological field and non-professionals, might be able to study on their own. That is the main purpose of this book. Therefore, I have used mostly generic terms rather than psychological jargons and for new terms adopted in this book, I have explained each new term in the footnote.

While I was writing 'the Theory of Mimind', I have thought long and hard about the organization of this book. Chapter 1 explains the hypothesis of the Theory of Mimind; Chapter 2, the mind and psychology of humans; Chapter 3, the foundation of the mind and psychology of humans; Chapter 4, the different function of the mind of man and woman; Chapter 5, habits and personality; Chapter 6, the psychology of xes; Chapter 7, the psychology of communication; chapter 8, the psychology of happiness; chapter 9, trauma; and Chapter 10, psychological disorders.

I have classified psychological disorders into perception disorder, the disorder of memory of emotion, expression disorder. And for each disorder, I have come up with treatments and proved their efficacy. While researching the causes and the treatments of various psychological disorders, I saw the necessity of developing a new psychological principle that can explain how the mind and psychology of humans operate. Hence, I analyzed my clinical counseling reports and developed the theories of mimind, xesmind, and migene. Having analyzed the results of the different operations of the mind of man and woman, we can say that man and woman have different ways of cognizing and interpreting a problem, different operation of stress and wounds on them, and different psychological disorders that operate in a complex manner. The Theory of Mimind has systematically arranged these findings.

Acknowledgement

I want to express my gratitude to BiHyun Park, Chairman of Korea Institute of Psycho-Education, who helped me greatly with publishing this book, who have always been there for me, Yoonsu Song from Forum for Psychology Research, Yoon Hee Ko, and many training specialists who endeavored to spread this theory of human mind. Without them, the Theory of Mimind would have been difficult to develop. Also, deeply heartfelt thanks to those who participated in the treatments of psychological disorders and in the psycho-education training programs. Their clinical contribution played a major role in the development of the Theory of Mimind.

Many friends helped me overcome difficulties and restore the habits of a passionate life so that I could focus on researching the psychological principles and operations of the human mind. Last but not least, I want to say big 'thank you' to my family who have always supported me with unwavering trust no matter what I do.


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Table of Contents

Preface & Acknowledgement


Chapter 1. The Theory of Mimind

(1) The Research Background

(2) The Hypothesis

(3) The Application


Chapter 2. The Person and the Person In Relationship

(1) Body and Mind

(2) Human Mind

(3) Facts and Emotions

(4) Meaningful Life and Valuable Life

(5) Comparison of Psychology


Chapter 3. Mind and Psychology

(1) The System of Mind

(2) The Development Process

(3) The Psychology of Perception

(4) The Psychology of Memory

(5) The Psychology of Expression

(6) Understanding and Consideration

(7) Human Relationship


Chapter 4. The Mind of Male and Female

(1) The Difference of Mind

(2) The Difference of Memories of Emotions

(3) The Difference of Happiness

(4) The Difference of Emotional Immersion

(5) "Too Much Is As Bad As Too Little."


Chapter 5. Habits and Personality

(1) The Formation of Habits

(2) The Modification of Habits

(3) The Symmetry of Psychology


Chapter 6. The Psychology of Xes

(1) Adults and Minors

(2) Woman's Psychology of Xes

(3) Man's Psychology of Xes

(4) The Right of Self-determination on Sex

(5) The Psychological Purity

(6) Sexual Crime


Chapter 7. The Psychology of Communication

(1) Emotions and Opinions

(2) Perception of Communication

(3) Emotional Confrontation

(4) Manners of Communication


Chapter 8. The Psychology of Happiness

(1) The Principle of Happiness

(2) Woman's Happiness

(3) Man's Happiness


Chapter 9. Trauma

(1) The Occurrence of Trauma

(2) Stress and Wounds

(3) The Defense Mechanism of Trauma


Chapter 10. Psychological Disorder

(1) Perception Disorder and Disorder of Memory of Emotion

(2) Disorder of Memory of Emotion (Depression)

(3) Expression Disorder (Addiction)


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[Publication] The Theory of Xesmind

 

Xesmind exists within mimind in human beings.

It is difficult to interpret xesmind since we can not even interpret mimind in the real world of the present.

Everything that is known about sex so far is from distorted and faluty interpretation.

Psychological problems, psychological disorders, sexual dysfunctions, and physical illnesses develop as distorted information on sex is admitted as facts and proliferated.

The Theory of Xesmind organizes and systematizes all aspects about human sex.


Preface


I have researched psychological disorders and developed psychology treatment methods and psychological theories. I have not majored in psychology, psychology counseling, or psychiatry, but have developed the Theory of Mimind, the Theory of Xesmind, and the Theory of Migene based on years of counseling and treatment training experiences to treat psychological disorders. Also, it was found that sexual dysfunctions and physical illnesses could be improved in the process of treating psychological disorders. Not being a medical doctor, I was not able to study on the treatment methods of physical illnesses, but was able to study on the treatment methods of sexual dysfunctions, and developed Xes Therapy, a treatment method for sexual dysfunctions.

Human beings, whether females or males, have body and mind, but the principles by which mind operates in the body is not accurately interpreted. The Theory of Mimind on the principles of the operation of human mind and psychology was developed in the process of treating people who suffered from stress and wounds and treating psychological disorders, and the Theory of Xesmind in the process of treating psychological disorders and the disorders of psychology of sex.

The Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind were originally developed by the present author, and psychology treatment methods of treating males and females psychological disorders were also developed applying the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind. The treatment of wounds and that of psychology were differentiated, and the treatment methods were separately developed accordingly. Learning and training with the Theory of Mimind allows the prevention of psychological disorders by equipping with the ability to treat stress and wounds, and the methods of wound treatment and psychology treatment are perfected with the Theory of Xesmind.

Human mind consists of mimind that operates for general information and xesmind that operates for the mind of sex: xesmind. The term mind is sometimes used to refer to mimind as opposed to xesmind in this book.

It was found that the concept of mind as used in conventional meaning has limits in interpreting the mind that operates for general information and the mind that operates for the information of xes, and the development of the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind allowed the systematization of mimind and xesmind.

Human mind is composed of two parts:

The first is the mind of general, which operates on general information and knowledge (general information or the information of mimind). This is named mimind. Mimind operates for processing information and knowledge by psychology and sensing the emotions.

The second is the mind that operates on the information of sex. This is named xesmind. Xesmind operates and processes the information of sex by xes psychology. Mimind and xesmind are newly coined terms by the author.

The term human mind has been used inclusively to describe mimind and xesmind, which led to difficulties in interpreting the principles of the operation of human mind and psychology. The discipline of conventional psychology studies only the psychologies of perception, memory, and expression that operate on mimind. The principles of the operation of mimind have not been adequately researched so far, not to mention the principles of the operation of xesmind and xes psychology.

The term mind can be used to mean mimind in this book. All information except for xes information is referred to as the information of mimind or general information, and all information related with xes is referred to as xes information. Information and knowledge are to classified into information of mimind and that of xesmind. That is, the separation of mind into mimind and xesmind will allow the adequate analysis of the operation of human mind.

The effects of mind energy that operates in both mimind and xesmind on the body should be analyzed to understand that the causes of sexual dysfunctions, psychological disorders, and physical illnesses are related to the mind energy generated by mimind and xesmind.

The principles and the reasoning of mimind can be understood through the Theory of Mimind and those of xesmind through the Theory of Xesmind. The principles of the operation of human mind and psychology can be understood through the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind.

Within xesmind are xes perception through which xes information is perceived, xes memory through which xes information and xes wounds are stored, and xes expression through which xes information is expressed. Xes information does not exist by itself, but necessarily exists with general information. Xes information is part of general information. Therefore, mind and psychology operate based on general information, and at the same time, xesmind and xes psychology operate based on xes information.

General information and knowledge without xes information let mind and psychology operate, and xesmind and xes psychology operate simultaneously with mind and psychology when xes information is included as part of the general information. General information necessarily operates in mimind whenever xes information operates in xesmind. Xesmind cannot operate independently, and the operation of xesmind is always accompanied by the operation of mimind.

For example, when one watches a pornographic video on the mobile phone, the phone and the act of watching at the phone are general information. However, the pornographic video is xes information. Watching a pornographic video on the mobile phone becomes xes information by combining general information and xes information. Then, the mobile phone becomes xes information from that moment, and xesmind is operated by xes information.

The information that combines general information and xes information is referred to xes information. Now, all information related to the mobile phone becomes xes information once one watches a pornographic video on the mobile phone, due to the xes information of the pornographic video.

For another example, in the information of a sexy woman wearing a bikini bathing suit, a woman and wearing are general information, and sexy and a bikini bathing suit can be xes information. A sexy woman and wearing a bikini bathing suit become xes information when combining general information and xes information, which creates the xes information of a sexy woman wearing a bikini bathing suit. Although general information operates here, it operates to result in producing xes information. The analysis of the pattern of memory in this case shows that all information related to a sexy woman and a bikini bathing suit becomes xes information.

In case of A woman and a man are having sex on the bed, a woman and a man on the bed is general information, and having sex is xes information referring to sexual action. Then, the whole information of A woman and a man are having sex on the bed becomes a piece of xes information. If one has this information stored in the memory, all information related to the bed as well as a woman and a man on the bed becomes xes information.

Xes information does not exist by itself, and should be combined with the information of mimind to exist. When the information of A woman is sleeping naked is stored in the memory, a woman is the information of mimind and naked can be xes information. Then, all information related to a woman becomes xes information and all information related to a sleeping woman becomes xes information.

Also, in the information of a slim woman is having sex in the pornographic video, a slim woman is the information of mimind, and a pornographic video and sex are xes information. Since then, all information related to a slim woman operates as xes information.

Human beings have xesmind inside mimind. It is utterly challenging to interpret xesmind in the reality of not even being able to interpret mimind. All information and knowledge that is known to us are the result of distorted and faulty interpretation. Sexual dysfunctions, psychological disorders, and physical illnesses develop when the distorted information on sex is accepted as facts and conviction follows.

Mind energy that operates in mimind and xesmind is a crucial element in the analysis of mind. Mind energy is generated in human mind when mimind and xesmind operate. Humans not only have the energy that operates in the body, but also one that operates in mimind and xesmind. This energy does not flow in from the outside but is generated in ones own mimind and xesmind.

This book is a report of the results of researching the principles of the operation of xesmind along with the principles of the operation of mind and psychology developed in the Theory of Mimind.

I earnestly thank Beehyun Park, Director of Korea Institute of Psycho-education, who has studied with me, and always helped me overcome all the challenges until this book is published, and the researchers of the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind. The Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind could not have been completed without their support.

Above all, all my gratitude is for those who participated in the treatment of psychological disorders and sexual dysfunctions, the treatment training of Therapy Tour, the training of Mimind and Xesmind. The development of the Theory of Xesmind was possible thanks to their efforts. And last but not least, I would like to thank my family with all my heart, who have always trusted and supported me for the projects I undertook.


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Table of Contents


Preface


Chapter 1. The Theory of Mimind

1. The Principles of the Operation of Mind and Psychology

2. The Structure of Human Psychology

3. The Research Background of the Theory of Mimind

4. The Hypotheses of the Theory of Mimind

5. The Theory of Mimind and Academic Disciplines

6. Practical Application of the Theory of Mimind

7. The Existence and Self-actualization

8. Mind and Psychology

9. The Psychology of Perception

10. The Psychology of Memory

11. The Psychology of Expression

12. Trauma

13. Psychological Problems and Psychological Disorders

14. The Errors of the Study of Psychology

15. The Concept of Psychology Treatment

16. Psychology Treatment and Wound Treatment

17. Mens and Womens Psychology Treatment


Chapter 2. The Theory of Xesmind

1. Xes, a New Concept

2. Developmental Background

3. Hypotheses of the Theory of Xesmind

4. Xesmind and Xes Psychology

5. The Theory of Xesmind

6. Xesmind

7. Xes Psychology

8. The Principles of Psychology and Xes Psychology

9. Perception and Xes Perception

10.MemoryandXesmemory

11. Expression and Xes Expression

12. The Developmental Process of Xes-psychology

13. The Concept of Xes Information

14. The Difference between Men and Women

15. The Difference between Xes and Sex

16. Components of Xes

17. Mens sexual desire is the desire of xesmind

18. Womens sexual desire is the desire of Mimind


Chapter 3. Xesmind and Xes Psychology

1. The Xesmind of a Person and a Person in Relationship

2. The Mimind and the Xesmind of a Person in Relashionship (PIR)

3. The Psychology and Xespsychology of Human Beings

4. What Is Sex to Human Beings?

5. Human Relationship and Xes Relationship

6. The Xesmind of Men and Women

7. Mens and Womens xes psychology

8. Mens and Womens Xes-function

9. Mens and Womens Desire for Xes

10. Mens and Womens Sex

11. Mens and Womens Xes-trouble

12. Xes psychology of Opposite Sex Relationships

13. The Root Source of Mimind and Xesmind


Chapter 4. Xes Psychology in Human Relationships

1. The Principles of Mens Xes Happiness

2. The Principles of Womens Xes Happiness

3. Xes Happiness of Married Couples

4. Xes Psychology between the Opposite Sex

5. Xes Psychology between the Same Sex

6. Womens Love and Xes Psychology

7. Mens Passion and Xes Psychology

8. Mens and Womens Pleasure

9. Mens and Womens Sex Psychology

10. Xes Psychology in Romantic Relationships

11. Xes Psychology in Marriage

12. Xes Psychology in Divorced People

13. Xes Psychology in Remarriage

14. Xes Psychology in the Bereavement of the Spouse

15. Human Relationships and Xes Relationships

16. Xes Psychology in Intimate Human Relationsps

17. Xes Psychology in Conscious Human Relationshps

18. Xes Psychology in Abnormal Human Relationships

19. Too Much Is As Bad As Too Little for Xes Psychology


Chapter 5. Xes Emotion and Xes Desire

1. The Xes Unconscious

2. Xesmind and Xes Emotion

3. Five Senses and Xes Emotion

4. Facts and Emostions of Xes

5. Xes Moods and Xes Feelings

6. Mens Xes Desire

7. Womens Xes Desire

8. Xes Desire and Xes Stress


Chapter 6. Xes Trauma

1. Womens Xes Trauma

2. Womens Defense Standard of Xes Trauma

3. Womens Treatment Habits of Xes Trauma

4. Mens Xes Trauma

5. Mens Defense Standard of Xes Trauma

6. Mens Treatment Habits of Xes Trauma

7. The Disorder of Xes Psychology


Chapter 7. Sex Crimes

1. The Concept of Sex Crimes

2. The Prevention of Sex Crimes

3. The Treatment of Trauma Caused by Sex Crimes

4. Sexual Violence

5. Sexual Harassment

6. Prostitution

7. Victim Psychology in Sex Crimes

8. Treatment for the Perpetrator of Sex Crimes


Chapter 8. Sexual Dysfunctions

1. What is Xes Function?

2. The Impact of Physical Sensation on Mind

3. The Memory of Xes Emotion and Its Impact on the Body

4. Mens Xes Function

5. Men's Xesmind and Xes Function

6. Womens Xes Function

7. Womens Xesmind and Xes Function

8. Difference in Men's and Womens Xes Function

9. Xes Psychology and Xes Function

10. Sexual Desire and Xes Function

11. Xes Immersion and Xes Function

12. Stress and Xes Function

13. Wounds and Xes Function

14. Difference in Perception of Xes Function

15. Mens Sexual Dysfunction

16. The Concept of Mens Sexual Dysfunction

17. The Cause of Mens Sexual Dysfunction

18. Introduction to Womens Sexual Dysfunction

19. The Cause of Womens Sexual Dysfunction

20. Difference in Perception of Sexual Dysfunction


Appendex 1. The Xes Psychology of Sex Education

Appendix 2. The Psychology of Sex Techniques



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[Publication] Mother Therapy

 

The World’s Best Psychological Treatment of Children That Allows Mothers to be Psychological Treatment Experts for Their Own Children

The efficacy of Mother Therapy is stronger than any other existing psychological treatment methods of children. It allows mothers to use their abilities for their own children’s psychological treatment. Mothers will be able to resolve entire psychological problems that could occur in the process of children’s growth by themselves if they learn Mother Therapy. – from the text

Children’s psychological problems are not the subjects to be treated but very natural phenomena that occur in the process forming memory and habits in phases of survival, adaptation to a relationship, formation of self-identity, and self-actualization. From adults’ point of view who are already actualizing themselves, it seems like psychological problems have occurred to children. Children’s psychological problems can be removed if their psychology is adjusted a little bit in their daily routines. – from the text

Words for You

Mother Therapy is a ‘psychological treatment method for children developed for mothers so that they can treat their children’s psychology in person’ and ‘treatment method that can treat the mothers’ wounds.’

Children’s psychological treatment has been run at Korea Institute of Psycho-education for a long time; Mother Therapy was already developed a long time ago. After teaching treatment method of children to mothers for their children’s psychological treatment, it was proved that mothers can treat their children’s psychology accurately without any other help.

Mother Therapy is the first developed treatment method of children that mothers can have the ability to treat their children’s psychology without the help of counseling.

There are 2 ways to take Mother Therapy: Mother Therapy Tour and Online Mother Therapy. Mother Therapy Tour is the process of learning treatment method of children and tour for 2 nights and 3 days; Online Mother Therapy is learning the treatment method of children online. Especially, Mother Therapy Tour allows mothers who have difficulties in parenting and housework in daily routines and mothers who have psychological difficulties due to their children’s psychological problems to enjoy the tour, learn psychological treatment method of children and treat the mothers’ wounds for 2 nights and 3 days.

Mother Therapy is designed to resolve parenting problems and psychological problems; mothers rarely experience difficulties in parenting their children after taking Mother Therapy. They can resolve their children’s psychological problems and treat children’s psychology by themselves as well.

Mother Therapy will allow you to resolve problems in parenting your children and treat psychological problems of both yours and your children’s by taking the training just once. Children’s psychological problems occur due to stress and wounds; by knowing exact causes of psychological problems of your sons and daughters and by learning method to resolve these problems, you will be able to resolve any kind of your children’s psychological problems.

You must have received help from various treatment methods, counseling offices, child psychiatry, agencies, organizations, etc. for your children’s psychological treatment.

However, in most cases, it would have been either that your children's psychological treatment failed or that the efficacy of treatment was imperceptive. You would rather have experienced problems becoming worse or recurring, or seen the occurrence of another psychological problem. Also, there are cases when mothers give up treating their children’s psychology because it is so difficult and exhausting although they tried a lot for the treatment.

There is a range of psychological treatment of children that mothers can do through Mother Therapy. Mother Therapy is effective for resolving your children’s psychological problems whether they are matters of organic factors (problems of brain and nerves or other physical diseases) or not.

- Treatment of tic disorders, treatment of Tourette Syndrome

- Treatment of ADHD, treatment of learning disorders

- Treatment of developmental delay, treatment of developmental disability

- Treatment of game addiction, treatment of internet addiction, treatment of social media addiction

- Treatment of conflicts, treatment of anxiety disorder, treatment of eating disorders

- Treatment of intermittent explosive disorder, treatment of autism spectrum disorders, treatment of Asperger’s syndrome

- Treatment of problems in human relationships, treatment of psychological problems

Now, I am going to provide you the treatment method that you can use to treat your children’s psychology fast and accurately. I hope each one of you becomes an expert in the psychological treatment of children who can resolve any kind of parenting problems and psychological problems by learning Mother Therapy and treats your wounds as a mother. Furthermore, I hope you become able to treat your children’s psychology by yourself without help from counseling offices, child psychiatry, agencies/organizations, etc.


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Greetings

We live with stress and wounds in countless human relationships. What if I fall behind, what if I fail, etc. Although we make endless efforts, that we cannot get away from impatience and anxiety is our reality.

We are sometimes disappointed and frustrated because things do not fit the standard of happiness of each one of us as we seek happiness. Our valuable lives are unstable since we keep chasing happy lives. We must understand that happiness reduces as much as we seek happiness.

Remembering emotions of wounds such as sadness, anxiety, frustration, etc. is not bad. The real happiness is not about avoiding wounds and making temporary positive moods. In addition, happiness for each individual must be different because the valuable life and the meaningful life of each one of us are different. It is only you who can feel your happiness. Therefore, here at Korea Institute of Psycho-education, you can have the ability to make your own happiness in each one of your meaningful life and valuable life, not a uniform method of becoming happier.

Through an accurate understanding of the mind and the psychology of PIR, each of you can make your own happiness. Happiness cannot exist if there are no wounds in joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure; you can create happiness in your meaningful life by understanding your wounds precisely and treating the wounds. While teaching the principles of how the mind and psychology of PIR operate, we will continue researching and striving endlessly to help every single one of you to create your unique happiness.


Park, the director of Korea Institute of Psycho-education


Table of Contents


Words for you

Greetings


Part 1. Mother Therapy


1. The concept of Mother Therapy

1) Developmental background and efficacy of Mother Therapy

2) Reasons why Mother Therapy is important for mothers

3) Differences of Mother Therapy from other treatment methods of children’s psychology

4) Children’s problems are not due to psychological disorders

5) Children’s psychological problems can be treated easily

6) Mother Therapy is the happiness of children and mothers

             7) Mothers can be experts in the psychological treatment of children


2. Fundamental principles of Mother Therapy

1) Psychology of children in survival under age 5

2) The principle of psychological treatment of children who are in survival under age 5

3) Psychology of children in adaptation to relationship between age 5 and 13

4) The principle of psychological treatment of children who are in adaptation to relationship between age 5 and 13

5) Psychology of children in formation of self-identity between age 13 and 20

6) The principle of psychological treatment of children who are in formation of self-identity between age 13 and 20


3. Main targets of Mother Therapy

1) Mothers suffering from difficulties in parenting children

2) Mothers wanting to treat problems of children’s conflicts

3) Teachers having difficulties due to psychological problems of students

4) Teachers or mothers distressed due to the sex education of students/children

5) Teachers or mothers distressed due to personality education of children

6) Mothers wanting to treat tic disorder or Tourette syndromes of children

7) Mothers wanting to treat developmental delay or developmental disability of children

8) Mothers wanting to treat ADHD of children

9) Mothers wanting to treat learning underachievement or learning disorders of children

10) Mothers wanting to treat children who play games excessively or who are addicted to games

11) Mothers wanting to treat internet addiction or social media addiction of children

             12) Mothers wanting to resolve or treat various psychological problems of children


4. Caring Mother Society

1) What is caring mother society?

2) The needs of caring mother society

3) Background and process of caring mother society

4) Mothers are the best experts in children’s psychological treatment.

5) It is time for mothers to intervene in children’s psychological problems.

6) Maternal love of mothers is the spring of children’s psychological treatment.

7) The reality of knowledge education of children

8) The stance of mother and of children

9) Psychology of your son and of your daughter is different.

10) Do not sacrifice and devote yourself to your children

11) My special child

12) How come no one tells about children’s mind?

13) You really don’t know your children’s mind and psychology.

14) Mother saying that they’ve given up parenting their children

              15) The reality that psychological problems of children are serious


Part 2. Healing of Conflicts

1. Healing or Killing in Conflicts

2. Conflicts and the Standard of Thoughts

3. The Self-Actualization of PIR

4. What is Conflict?

5. Conflicts in the Marriage Relationship

6. Conflicts in the Parent-Child Relationship

7. Conflicts in the Mother-Daughter Relationship

8. Conflicts between the Mother-in-Law and the Daughter-in-Law

         9. Resolving Conflicts


Part 3. Healing Parents

1. Healing and Killing

1) Men and Women

2) How about you?

2. The Mind of PIR

3. The Operation of Psychology

4. Emotional Confrontation and Stress

1) Differences in the psychology of conversation

2) Differences in memory of emotion

3) Differences in psychological operations

5. Men's Stress and Healing

         6. Women's Wounds and Healing


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[Publication] Xes Therapy(The Revolutionary Treatment Method of Sexual Dysfunction)

 


Xes Therapy is completely different from conventional treatment methods of sexual dysfunction. Xes Therapy addresses physical sexual dysfunction operated by the interaction between Mimind and Xesmind. The mechanism of the treatment of male sexual dysfunction by adjusting Mimind and Xesmind is interpreted. Xes Therapy is a revolutionary treatment method of male sexual dysfunction in the sense that men can treat sexual dysfunction for themselves without any external influence. It is also a innovative treatment method, with which sexual dysfunction can be treated without affecting the body in any way. This is an impossible concept from the perspective of conventional fields of medicine, physiology, science, and folk remedy.

Preface

I have been studying psychological disorders for a long time in order to develop new methods of treatment and psychological theories. Although I do not have an academic degree in psychology, counseling, or psychiatry, I was able to invent the concepts of mimind, xesmind, and migene based solely on my experience of counseling and psycho-educating those who suffer from various psychological disorders.

I found that my male patients’ sexual dysfunction and physical illnesses were treated in the process of treating their psychological disorders. I am not qualified to do a research the methods of treating physical illness since I am not a doctor, but I was able to study the methods of treating sexual dysfunction. I coined the term Xes Therapy for this unique method of treating men’s sexual dysfunction that I developed.

Xes Therapy is an innovative treatment for sexual dysfunction. Currently, there is hardly any effective treatment for men’s sexual dysfunction. Many men want to treat their sexual dysfunction but have failed to find the right treatment. They try different methods to treat sexual dysfunction to no avail. The more they try, the worse their dysfunctions get. Effective treatment for men’s sexual dysfunction is yet to be discovered in Korea or any other countries.

Existing methods of treating men’s sexual dysfunction involve chemical substances, physical stimuli, plastic surgery, food, practicing techniques, and folk remedies. New methods of treatment for men’s sexual dysfunction are being invented at this very moment, but none of these methods can treat men’s sexual dysfunction.

Human beings, both men and women, are comprised of body and mind. However, no one has ever clearly interpreted the principle behind the operation of human mind on the body. In the process of treating psychological disorders and helping those who suffer from stress and wounds, I developed the theory of mimind which is ‘the principle behind the operation of human mind and psychology’. Based on this theory of mimind, I developed the theory of xesmind which is ‘the principle behind the operation of human’s xesmind and xes psychology’.

Mimind and xesmind are the concepts that I have invented for the first time in the world. After discovering the fact that men’s sexual dysfunction can be treated in the process of treating psychological disorders by applying the theories of mimind and xesmind, my long research culminated in the creation of Xes Therapy which effectively treats men’s sexual dysfunction.

Xes Therapy is totally different from other preexisting methods of treatment for sexual dysfunction. Xes Therapy deals with the physical sexual function which is activated by the interaction between mimind and xesmind. Mimind and xesmind are mutually connected to physical sexual function. The manipulation of mimind and xesmind allows for the correct interpretation of the principle, which can be used to treat men’s sexual dysfunction.

Xes Therapy is an innovative treatment for men’s sexual dysfunction because it allows men to treat their sexual dysfunction on their own without any external influence. This innovative treatment does not have any harmful physical impact on the body, which is an indispensable side effect of all other preexisting medicinal, physiological, scientific, and folk remedies.

Also, Xes Therapy alleviates symptoms of other physical illnesses as it treats sexual dysfunction. Men who had been suffering from chronic illnesses reported improvements in their symptoms after receiving Xes Therapy. However, its effect on physical illness awaits verification through further clinical research. Here, we focused on the treatment of men’s sexual dysfunction. The collaboration with researchers in the field of medicine will make the research regarding physical illness feasible and allow us to develop new treatments for physical illnesses.

People who encounter Xes Therapy for the first time ask me how it is possible to treat sexual dysfunction without treating the body. They ask this question because they don’t understand how mind and xesmind mutually interact.

This book is a research report on Xes Therapy written after the invention of concepts, mimind and xesmind.

I want to thank Bi-Hyun Park, who is the director of Korea Institute of Psycho-education and a xes psychology expert, for assisting me throughout the research process and publication of this book.

I also want to thank my clients who participated in the mind training program or received Xes Therapy to treat their psychological disorders. Without their persistence, Xes Therapy would not have materialized. Lastly, I want to thank my family who have always supported me and trusted me, no matter what I do.


Table of Contents


Preface


Chapter 1. The Theory of Xesmind

1-1 Xes, a New Concept

1-2 Difference between Xes and Sex

1-3 Components of Xes

1-4 What is xesmind?

1-5 Developmental Background

1-6 Hypotheses for the Theory of Xesmind

1-7 Xesmind and Xes Psychology

1-8 The Theory of Xesmind

1-9 Concept of Xes Information

      1-9-1 Men's Xes Information

1-10 Xesmind

1-11 Xes Psychology

1-12 The Principle of Psychology and Xes Psychology

1-13 The Difference between Men and Women

1-14 Perception and Xes Perception

1-15 Memory and Xes Memory

1-16 Expression and Xes expression

1-17 Men's sexual desire is the desire of xesmind


Chapter 2. Xes Function

2_1 What is xes function?

      2-1-1 Introduction to Xes Function

2-2 The Impact of Physical Sensation on Mind

2-3 The Memory of Xes Emotion and Its Impact on Body

2-4 Men's Xes Function

2-5 Men's Xesmind and Xes Function

2-6 Women's Xes Function

2-7 Women's Xesmind and Xes Function

2-8 Difference between Men and Women's Xes Function

2-9 Psychology and Xes Function

2-10 Sexual Desires and Xes Function

2-11 Xes Immersion and Xes Function

2-12 Stress and Xes Function

2-13 Wounds and Xes Function

2-14 The Difference in Perception of Xes Function


Chapter 3. Introduction to Sexual Dysfunction

3-1 Sexual Dysfunction

3-1-1 The Analysis of Sexual Dysfunction

3-2 Types of Psychogenic Sexual Dysfunction

3-3 Sexual problem or Sexual Dysfunction

3-4 Men's sexual dysfunction is the source of every illness

3-5 Efforts to Treat Sexual Dysfunction

3-6 Conventional Treatments for Sexual Dysfunction

      3_6_1 Difference between Conventional Treatment and Xes Therapy

3-7 Erectile Dysfunction Treatment and Sexual Dysfunction


Chapter 4. Men and Women's Sexual Dysfunction

4-1 Men and Women's Sexual Dysfunction

      4-1-1 Introduction to Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-2 The Concept of Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-3 The Cause of Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-4 The Psychology of Men with Sexual Dysfunction

4-5 Single Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-6 Married Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-7 Divorced Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-8 Remarried Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-9 Bereaved Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-10 Dating Men's Sexual Dysfunction

4-11 The Cause of Premature Ejaculation

4-12 The Cause of Delayed Ejaculation

4-13 The Cause of Erectile Dysfunction

4-14 The Cause of Persistent Erection

4_15 The Cause of Functional Impotence

4-16 The Cause of Priapism

4-17 The Cause of Painful Erection

4-18 Introduction to Women's Sexual Dysfunction

      4-18-1 Women's Sexual Dysfunction

4-19 The Cause of Women's Sexual Dysfunction

4-20 Difference in Perception of Sexual Dysfunction

4-21 Men are serious about sexual dysfunction

4-22 Women are not serious about sexual dysfunction


Chapter 5. Operation of Sexual Dysfunction

5-1 Sex Education causes men's sexual dysfunction

5-2 The Relationship between Sexual Dysfunction and Physical illness

5-3 Stress and Sexual Dysfunction

      5-3-1 Men's Stress and Sexual Dysfunction

5-4 Wounds and Sexual Dysfunction

5-5 Xes Expression and Sexual Dysfunction

5-6 Sexual Desire and Sexual Dysfunction

5-7 Sex and Sexual Dysfunction

5-8 Sexual Immersion and Sexual Dysfunction


Chapter 6. Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction

6-1 The Cause and Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction

6-2 Treatment Principle of Sexual Dysfunction

6-3 Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction

6-4 Changing Xesmind into Mind

6-5 Treatment Effect

6-6 The Duration of Effectiveness of Sexual Dysfunction Treatment

6-7 The Relationship between Men's Sexual Dysfunction and Physical Illness

6-8 Men's sexual dysfunction is unrelated to age


Chapter 7. Married Couple's Sexual Dysfunction

7-1 Unfaithful men have sexual dysfunction

7-2 Unfaithful Husband's Sexual Dysfunction

7-3 Xes Function of Wife of Unfaithful Husband

7-4 Xes Function of the Adulteress in Husband's Infidelity

7-5 Unfaithful women have robust xes function

7-6 Wife's xes function when the wife has an affair

7-7 Husband's Sexual Dysfunction in Wife's Infidelity

7-8 The Wife's Sex Partner, Adulterer's Sexual Dysfunction

7-9 Prostitution and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-10 Xes Function of Prostitutes

7-11 Sexual Harrassment and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-12 Sexual Dysfunction of Married Couple Using Sex Toys

7-13 Sexless and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-14 Couple Problems and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-15 Daily Life and Husband's Sexual Dysfunction

7-16 Married Life and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-17 Sexual Dysfunction of Men Living a Married Life

7-18 Sexless Couple and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

7-19 If husband can't see his wife as a woman, he has sexual dysfunction

7-20 Sexual Dysfunction of Married Couple Watching Porn Together


Chapter 8. Case Report of Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-1 Anger Management Problem and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-2 Domestic Violence and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-3 Panic Disorder and Sexual Dysfunction

8-4 One-night Stand and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-5 Men who do not care to treat sexual dysfunction

8-6 Obscene Jokes and Sexual Dysfunction

8-7 Men boasting about their sexual performance have sexual dysfunction

8-8 Men who love sexual stimulants or aphrodisiacs have sexual dysfunction

      8-8-1 Sexual Stimulants and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-9 Men who repeatedly get divorced and remarried have sexual dysfunction

8-10 Difference between Single and Married Men regarding Porn

8-11 Mama's Boy and Sexual Dysfunction

8-12 Penile Implants and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-13 Work and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

      8-13-1 Impact of Gender Ratio in Workplace on Men's Sexual Dysfunction

      8-13-2 Difference in Sexual Dysfunction between White-Collar and Blue-Collar

8-14 Daily Life and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-15 Female Friends and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-16 Male Friends and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-17 Sexual Dysfunction of Men Living with Men

8-18 Sexual Dysfunction of Men Living with Women

8-19 Foul-mouthed Men and Sexual Dysfunction

8-20 Short-fused Men and Sexual Dysfunction

8-21 Strong Sexual Desire and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-22 Car Obsession and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-23 Show-off and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-24 Pretentious Men and Sexual Dysfunction

8-25 Muscular Men and Sexual Dysfunction

8-26 Road Rage and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-27 Ordering Food and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-28 Eating Habits and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-29 Betting, Gambling, Investment and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-30 Mountain climbing is effective for the treatment of sexual dysfunction

8-31 Transgender and Sexual Dysfunction

8-32 Women's Plastic Surgery and Men's Sexual Dysfunction

8-33 Sexual Compatibility and Men's Sexual Dysfunction



Xes Training : http://www.xestraining.com/
Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/

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