Most men think that love dolls
are masturbation devices, and using love dolls is only a form of masturbation.
Let's talk about why love dolls cannot be just a masturbation device, both in
terms of mimind and xesmind.
First, in order to
distinguish between using love dolls and masturbation, we need to be clear
about the concept of having sex. Having sex always takes place in a human relationship.
It is an action that combines words, actions, facial expressions, and gestures,
and doing many other things with the partner. If we look at it from the
perspective of the xesmind, we perceive xes information, retrieve or store xes
information in memory, and express xes information to the partner, which in
turn affects the operation of our mimind. Having sex is a behavior in which sexuality
is expressed mutually, and it is the result of the interaction of the mimind, xesmind,
psychology, and xes psychology.
Strictly speaking, masturbation
does not involve an activation of xesmind or a human relationship. Masturbation
may be done out of sexual desire, out of stress, or just to feel good all by
yourself, and the sexual desire in this case is related only with your own
thoughts, and there is no actual object to whom you express sexuality. That is,
there is no human to interact with, who is actually perceived as a sexual
object through your sensory organs such as sight, hearing, or touch. The good
feeling you feel while stimulating your sensory organs during masturbation is
also felt only by yourself and is not shared with anyone.
Of course, if you
masturbate while watching an adult video, xes perception in xesmind is
activated, but still there is no object for your sexual expressions. If you
masturbate while looking at a real person in front of you, it becomes having sex
involving human interactions. In other words, the presence or absence of an
object of sexual expression and human interaction is what distinguishes actual sex
from masturbation.
Using a love doll is closer
to having sex than to masturbation. Love dolls can be an object of sorts, and
this is where it gets very fuzzy. It's not human, but it's shaped like a human,
and it may feel to some people like they are having sex with a human. When you
begin to interact with a non-human object activating sexuality as if it were a
human, your psychology necessarily begins to work in a distorted way and it may
become very hard for you to form regular and healthy relationships with real
human partners.
Also, it is absolutely harmful
to your psychology to treat a love doll as a real lover and have affectionate
and passionate sex with it. Some people may actually treat a love doll as if it
were their lover, and this is a very serious problem. Human beings are designed
to live by interacting with other human beings, exchanging thoughts and
feelings one another and necessarily experiencing and overcoming relational
conflicts. Even if you think of a love doll as your lover, the reactions and
feelings you feel from a love doll are all your own thoughts. Then, you may
become to be unable to effectively interact with real human beings.
Different societies,
cultures, and times have different perceptions and ideas about sexuality. In
countries where love dolls are legally permitted, the psychology of perceiving love
dolls as they are meant to be can be stabilized after going through trials and
errors regarding the issues and ideas of love dolls. Nevertheless, women's
opposition against love dolls has been strong in every country since women by
nature perceive sexuality and having sex being closely related with love and
emotions.
We think that what we
feel and recognize and what we perceive in our consciousness is all there is and
right, but the opposite of what you perceive in your consciousness may be
operating in your unconscious mind and in your xesmind. Human mind has a very
complex mechanism, and we can't simply think that a love doll is just a device
for masturbation and it’s no big deal.
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