Today we're going to talk
about men’s sexuality, specifically the difference between having sex with
selfish purposes and having sex without selfish purposes.
In several of the
previous videos, it was mentioned that “men’s love is the passion to do
something for the partner, and sex is the most powerful means to make the partner
happy.” In other words, the male mind and sexuality should not work to make themselves
feel good, but rather as a means to make the woman partner happy. I'm sure some
people will make a frown and say, “What, you're a feminist?” But actually, what
I'm saying is much more helpful and beneficial to men's bodies and minds than
the existing concept of sexuality, which is highly distorted and causes so many
of the deadly sexual problems in men.
Not many men have sex to
make women happy, but they have sex solely for their own pleasure - this is “having
sex with selfish purposes” - but here's what no one realizes. The male xesmind
creates xes wounds whenever sexual information is perceived, which men recognize
as pleasure, but in reality, when xes wounds are excessive, it causes
psychological disorders and sexual dysfunction in men. This is because the
energy of xesmind affects both the body and the mind.
To put it another way, a
man who has sex only for his own sexual pleasure is considered to have already
developed a psychological disorder and sexual dysfunction. The irony is that
the workings of the xesmind are unconscious, and when a man has a psychological
disorder, he doesn't realize that he has a sexual dysfunction; he just thinks
that his sexual function doesn't work because the woman he's with is not
attractive enough or active enough.
When a man perceives
women as a means of pleasure, he will perceive much more sexual information
from women, and the xes wounds that are created will be more severe. This
negative energy obviously takes a toll on the body and the mind, which creates
a more intense sense of pleasure in the mind, which in turn leads to hedonic
adaptation.
No matter how intense and
pleasurable sex is, once a man ejaculates and turns around, the energy
dissipates and disappears. Then, what happens when hedonic response occurs? The
level of pleasure they want gets higher and higher, and they may try to indulge
in diverse kinds of sex to satisfy themselves, but when they turn around,
there's still nothing left. The only thing that's left is a worsening of their
psychological disorder and sexual dysfunction.
When this breaks through
the threshold of their mind and body, all the values of life they've been
pursuing for their future happiness are destroyed, and their bodies get sick
and they can even die. So, when men have “sex with selfish purposes,” they're
chasing a mirage that they can't have, and they're drinking salt water that
causes thirst and death the more they drink.
Then, what is different about having sex to make the woman partner happy? Sex that makes the woman partner happy is called “sex without selfish purposes” because it's not for men’s own pleasure. In this case, the focus is on connecting with the woman and the woman expressing her happiness, rather than on having sex itself. There's very little sexual perception in men in this case, and as a result, very little xes wounds in men. The most optimized relationship for this to happen is a marriage relationship.
Wives are not perceived
as sexual information by their husbands as time passes after marriage, which
leads to a lack of sexual desire in husbands, and husbands often fantasize
about or even practice having sex with other women thinking their wives don’t
turn them on. They don't realize that the only woman that makes them healthy
physically and psychologically and doesn’t cause the growth of xes wounds is
the wife
When men have sex without
selfish purposes and see that it makes the partner happy, it creates a vague
sense of future happiness, which in turn creates a sense of fulfillment and
passion in the man, so that he is always passionate and energized even when he
is not chasing pleasure, and his sex drive is transformed into a desire to
pursue values of life, and he is more likely to make achievement in his career.
When men have sex without
purpose, it's like finding a true oasis and drinking the water of life. In
fact, the most ideal happiness as a human being is to live happily enjoying sex
as a married couple until the day they die. The existing concept of sexuality
is highly distorted because most people don't know how the mind works, and the
workings of the xesmind cannot be realized in the conscious. Men themselves
don't realize that having sex with selfish purposes is a path to
self-destruction.
Women generate emotions
through the workings of xesmind differently from men and men generate passion
by recognizing women’s emotions. Men's sexuality should be used to make women
happy and protect women’s feelings. Women, on the other hand, should have sex
for their own feelings of happiness and should also protect their minds from
men who want to use women as a means of pleasure. Having sex itself is nothing
more than an act, but the activation of sexuality generates powerful energy,
and this powerful energy can be used for destruction or for happiness,
depending on the direction of the activation of mind.
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