[SATW] Marriage, a happy ending or the grave of love ?

 

     Hello, everyone. We can see dramas and movies having a happy ending with marriage after a series of events such as the couple falling in love, going through conflicts, and solving problems. However, in reality, conflicts and problems seem to continue even after the couple get married and people say that marriage is the grave of love.

 The couple start a new phase of life through marriage. However, as time passes after marriage and the couple get busy with parenting and working, they may get used to living together and take each other for granted. Then, they may even stop having sex or feel that their sex life or love life is boring, entering the state of ennui and losing vitality.

Sexuality plays an important part in marriage relationship. Activating sexuality in marriage relationship leads to generating the energy of passion, love, and vitality and keeping the husband and the wife feeling close to each other. When sexuality stops being activated in a married couple, they may end up living only with duty and responsibility rather than sharing happiness.

Both the husband and the wife must be held responsibility for not being able to continue vital and happy sex life in marriage. In most cases, neither the husband nor the wife has the ability to activate xes energy in a positive way to generate passion and love. When they don’t have the ability to activate xes energy in a positive way and they have sexual desire and the desire for attention, they will keep being unsatisfied in the relationship and end up living only with responsibility.

     The true sex ability can make your marriage life a happy one for the whole life time. The couple who have true sex ability can not only enjoy utmost sexual pleasure but also amplify passion, love, vitality, and happiness. They can live like a newly married couple for the whole life time. They can form strong bond, overcome difficulties in life together, and keep consolidating marriage relationship.

Once you build true sex ability, you don’t have to envy the happy ending you see in dramas and movies since you can be the couple who live happily ever after. True sex ability has nothing to do with having sex for the purpose of pleasure. It is the ability to generate positive energy by properly activating xes energy. You can learn how to build true sex ability through Sex Ability Training for Women and Sex Therapy for Men.

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[SATW] Women who want to look sexually attractive

 

     Many women consider looking attractive to be important. They try to raise their value of attractiveness through fashion, make-up, diet, plastic surgery and so on. This is caused by growing up with the distorted concept of sexuality in their culture and society.

Women are designed to generate feelings of wounds in mimind from birth to death, and they can also treat wounds and generate feelings of love and happiness when they get consolation and attention in the right way.

     Women who have many wounds in mimind naturally want to get attention and consolation in proportion with the amount of wounds. The most intense attention and consolation women can get are through sexual actions. This mechanism leads women to try to raise their value of sexual attractiveness through fashion, make-up, diet, or surgery to get more and more attention and consolation.

     As more and more women try to focus on their sex appeal, even normal women may develop distorted concepts and standards of sexuality. They may try to follow those who try to look sexually attractive, or they may develop the sense of deprivation. Women generate feelings of wounds in mimind in both cases.

     When women get married and feel safe and convinced of the relationship with the husband, they do not care much about their value of sexual attractiveness any more. Marriage makes women’s wounds treated considerably. Then, after some time, women may feel lonely as children grow, or they may accumulate wounds during their marriage life, which makes them focus on their sexual attractiveness again. It means that attention and consolation that can treat women’s wounds and make them have feelings of love and happiness have stopped being provided for quite a long time. Then, women may try to prove their sexual attractiveness by enhancing their appearance or feel depressed and dispirited thinking that they don’t look attractive enough.

     However, these are all wrong ideas caused by the distorted concept of sexuality. All women are born with the utmost value of sexuality without having to look attractive sexually in appearance. Women can activate their own xes energy in a positive way on their own regardless of their appearance. Women who can activate xes energy in a positive way are perceived as the most charming women through their facial expressions, speech, and gestures without fancy clothes and make-up. They will look attractive to everyone regardless of their size or shape.

     Women who try to look sexually attractive become the sexual objects of men who pursue sexual pleasure. On the other hand, women who activate xes energy in a positive way become the objects of love and happiness men want to protect and share happiness with. The true value of women comes from true sex ability instead of appearance. Women can build true sex ability and their own unique charm regardless of their age. Any woman who wants to raise their value in a true sense can take Sex Ability Training for Women.

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[SATW] Women who want to be good at sex

 

    There can be many reasons for women wanting to be good at sex. The reasons are usually to satisfy the partners rather than themselves. Women usually do not think that they want to be good at sex for their own sexual happiness because they are just satisfied with the fact that they have sex with the partner they love regardless of the level of sexual satisfaction. Women's satisfaction of sex is not in proportion with the levels of orgasm. It is in proportion with the levels of feelings toward the partner. 

     When women want to be good at sex, it is usually for satisfying the partner. Or they may want to build the sense of confidence in sexual actions. The sense of confidence also comes from the partner's response in most cases, so either way, it is not for their own sexual happiness but for complying with the partner. 

     After all, women want to satisfy their partners because they love their partners. It is quite different from the reason for men wanting to satisfy women. Normal men perceive their women being satisfied as their own pleasure. However, women do not perceive their men being satisfied as their own pleasure. They may just think that men's love toward women have gotten stronger due to good sex. Women's wanting to satisfy men is the desire for love rather than the desire for sexual pleasure. 

     However, women's activation of sexuality in this way wanting to be good at sex leads them to activate xes energy in negative ways and develop wounds and sexual desire in women. They may keep wanting stronger sexual attention from the partner since they use sex as a means to getting love. Women's wounds keep growing when the desire for sexual attention is not satisfied and they may develop the vicious cycle in which they become dependent on and obsessed with the partner. 

     It is fine for women to have sufficient information and knowledge on sexuality since women are the main agents of their own sexuality in activating sexuality and generating positive energy. However, women should not directly apply information and knowledge on sexuality to having sex, but they should internalize it and let it manifest naturally as sources for generating positive energy. 

     Women who can activate xes energy for themselves can generate great sexual happiness. Then, they don't have to try hard to do anything in sexual actions and still the partner can also have great sexual pleasure. 

     The conventional concept of sexuality is mostly male-centered and quite distorted. Both men and women focus on men's point of view in having sex thinking that it will give greater sexual pleasure to both parties. However, it is women's satisfaction and women's sexual happiness from their own point of view that bring both parties true sexual pleasure and happiness. 

     Women who want to be good at sex in a true sense should learn how to become the main agents in activating sexuality. Women becoming the main agents in sexual actions is the only way to generate sexual happiness without generating wounds in mimind. This can be achieved through taking Sex Ability Training for Women. 

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[SATW] Do women feel less sexual pleasure than men?

 

You may think that women feel less sexual pleasure than men because it is usually men who seek sexual pleasure more than women. However, women's sexual pleasure is much greater and much stronger than men's sexual pleasure by nature.

      Men's sexual pleasure is recognized only when sensory stimulation through vision, hearing, smell, taste, and touch exists. Men's sexual pleasure disappears the moment sensory stimulation disappears. On the other hand, women can amplify the sensations from sensory stimulation into feelings in mimind and can feel them in their body again even after the stimulation stops. Also, men have only limited erogenous zone in their body, but for women, all their body parts can be erogenous zone. Women's feelings in mimind can amplify the sensory stimulation and make them feel pleasurable sensations for much longer time than men after having sex. 

     Misunderstanding about women's sexuality leads women to develop sexual sensations at the surface level. Women can develop sexual sensations and sense more sexual pleasure by accumulating sexual information to have more xes habits. Women who don't have much sexual information may not be able to sense as much sexual pleasure as women who have more sexual information as their xes habits. 

     However, it is quite dangerous for women to train themselves for the purpose of enhancing sexual functions or sexual pleasure. By design, women protect their mimind by not overly pursuing sexual pleasure or pursuing in distorted ways. As women begin to pursue sexual pleasure per se without understanding the operational mechanism of human mind and sexuality and without being able to activate xes energy positively from inside, they become to lose love and happiness including maternal love. 

     Training for or pursuing sexual pleasure at the surface level destroys the balance in human mimind and xesmind. Such distorted and dangerous actions include studying on sexual pleasure, physical training, or surgeries. 

     The most important point is that the essence of women's sexuality is not about whether they have sexual pleasure or not. Some women may recognize great sexual pleasure and others may sense only marginal sensations. The same woman may feel differently for every sexual action. The most important thing is whether they can activate sexuality in the right way instead of the distorted way to generate love and happiness in their mimind and human relationships. Operating sexuality in the right way will naturally be accompanied by great sexual pleasure without pursuing sexual pleasure per se. 

     Any adult woman can build true sex ability regardless of age. Even women who have no knowledge and information on sex or have no interest in sexuality at all can learn about the operational mechanism of human sexuality and safely operate their sexuality to generate love and happiness as well as sexual happiness in a true sense. 

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[SATW] The sense of ownership in sexuality

When the sense of ownership in sex is excessive, various phenomena such as obsession, jealousy, control, and suppression can occur. When the sense of ownership is distorted, it may develop to the idea that everything about the partner belongs to the person who has the sense of the ownership. 

The sense of ownership in sex is reinforced with marriage, so it is displayed differently before and after marriage. When people get married, they may develop the idea that they own each other regarding sexuality. When the sense of ownership in sex develops, they may reveal their personality and other traits that were not revealed before. 

Distorted sense of ownership leads you to treat the partner as an appendage of yours. For example, men who commit infidelity may think that he can have an affair, but his wife must never commit infidelity since she belongs only to him. 

Perceiving someone as the only special partner indicates that the partner is the most important to you. Then, you want to share everything with the partner including love, affection, sex, pleasure, and happiness. However, the sense of ownership is a major factor that makes the two people distant.

The sense of ownership also makes sex more monotonous and boring. Then, you may regret about the relationship and neglect the partner. The couple may focus on only their roles as the father and the mother, and stop perceiving each other as a man and a women in a romantic relationship. Then, they may lose the right and be left only with responsibility in sex. That is, you try to own the partner's right and make the partner keep only the responsibility. You are left only with the responsibility in sex in the relationship, and it can induce depression, regret and doubt on life, and even infidelity. 

We should rethink about the sense of ownership in sex. Loving and having sex with the partner doesn't mean that you can own the partner's right of sex. Taking the partner's right of sex is to take the right to pursue happiness and it is not a right way to live with someone. 

The sense of ownership in sex is especially dangerous. It leads to hedonism and sexual objectification treating the partner as a means to achieve sexual pleasure. It is very dangerous to even think about sex with reference to the ownership. It results in pursuing only sexual pleasure without even realizing that your idea on sex is distorted. 

No one should forget about their own right of love and sex as well as the partner's right of love and sex. Please, keep in mind that both you and your partner can become happy together when your right and your partner's right exist in harmony.

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[SATW] So much information on sex, but not useful at all

 

     Would you be able to make use of information on sex for having sex if you can find good ones? Many people think that they will be able to use information on sex for having sex and become happy and pleased, but people also find that they are not so useful. Then, they begin to look for other information and keep wasting their time.         

     Sexuality is manifested differently for everyone in real situations. Any information on sex that look good is unlikely to accord with your standards. Thinking that information on sex that may accord with others may also accord with you and even trying it in real situations is just a waste of time.

     Even very useful information on sex cannot be applied for one person since having sex involves two people. Information on sex that you think would be useful may not be information that both you and your partner can apply together for happy and pleasurable sex. 

     Especially, if you try to apply some sexual information for having sex when you don't even know how to have conversations effectively and how to express your thoughts and feelings to the partner, the information becomes useless in real situations. Also, information on sex is useless for solving sexual problems. 

     If you want to find sexual information that helps in having sex in real situations, you must first analyze all the aspects of your sexual relationship with the partner comprehensively, and find the root cause of problems. No information can be helpful when you do not clearly understand the problem. Focusing on solving problems instead of trying to find the root cause will only lead you to keep suffering from the problem. It will also bring about more and more problems on the way. 

     You must use your time, effort, expense, and passion to achieve true happiness. Please, keep in mind that most information on sex that is readily available around you is useless. Also, information on sex that you accidentally find and looks good and useful is unlikely to be applicable in real situations. 

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[SATW] Do you feel uncomfortable about fantasizing on having sex?

 

Many people fantasize during having sex. Men usually imagine about having free sex with different women, and women usually fantasize about trying new things with their regular partners or having secretive or passive sex. Fantasizing about having sex can make sexual actions more satisfying and induce more intense orgasm. That is why fantasizing is recommended or encouraged in some sex therapies. 

It is not impossible for a couple to realize their sexual fantasy in real situations. It may be hard to put sexual fantasy into practice at first. The couple may discuss issues regarding sexual actions and preferences and freely imagine about what they want, but it must be quite awkward to make the ideas into action.

Couples who want to try and succeed in realizing their sexual fantasies must have conversations each other, and share their ideas and feelings for months or even years to achieve sexual happiness together. 

Realizing sexual fantasy in having sex in real situations requires not only changing social and cultural prejudice, but also individuals' ideas on having sex. Changing one's ideas that have been held for the whole lifetime is not an easy task. 

Couples must be careful to apply sexual fantasies in real situations since everyone's ideas and preferences on having sex are quite different depending on the person's social and individual circumstances, and both men and women are quite sensitive about expressing sexuality. 

Even when the couple do not put sexual fantasies into action, having sexual fantasies can be a crucial element for pleasurable sex. Sexual fantasies are about diverse actions they have not tried in real situations, so having sexual fantasies itself can be an opportunity to explore diversity in having sex. 

When the couple can talk to each other about their sexual fantasies freely and comfortably, they can enjoy pleasure and satisfaction mentally as well as physically. One thing to be noted is that you must not comply with the partner's standards which do not accord with your own standards. Dependency necessarily leads to distorted sexuality and harms the body and the mind. Please, keep in mind that enjoying sex without your own standards and ideas will cause damage and wounds in your body and mind. 

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[SATW] Women who pursue sexual attractiveness easily get hurt by men.

 

     Many women try hard to enhance their sexual attractiveness. They wear make-up, go on a diet, or take plastic surgery to look sexually attractive. They try hard to enhance their appearance since they know that men give more attention to sexually attractive women than to other women. 

     However, women who focus on enhancing their sexual attractiveness tend to connect with men mainly focusing on sexuality. Then, they may develop wounds in mimind win spite of themselves and even develop wound dissociation. Men give them attention considering them as sexual objects and such women's body, mind, and sexuality end up being destroyed. Women who have sexual attractiveness may feel satisfied and happy when they get attention from men, but their wounds keep growing.          

     On the other hand, women with true charm are not perceived as sexual objects by men. Men generate pure passion toward such women and try to protect their body, mind, and sexuality. Men try to build the relationship of love and happiness with women with true charm and do their best in every aspect of life so that both men and women become happy.

     Also, women with true charm have a balanced a appearance and healthy body, mind, and sexuality. The man who is in love with such a woman perceives the woman as the most sexually attractive woman and the couple can live a happy life with sexual happiness as well as with love and passion. This mechanism applies to every couple regardless of age. 

     Do you want to become sexually attractive women or women with true charm? Women must try to build true and unique charm instead of sexual attractiveness. Sex Ability Training for Women guides women to build true sex ability on their own and become the most charming women. They can build wound treatment ability and happiness ability and enjoy sexual happiness without depending on anyone else. 

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[SATW] Why do sexy women become popular and famous?

 

Many popular and famous women who appear on mass media and social media are sexually attractive. People pay attention to their pretty face and sexy body as well as how to become like them through diet, exercise, make-up, and fashion. Women become more famous and popular as they make their sex appeal public more and more.

Men get vicarious satisfaction and develop the desire to meet them when they see such sexy women on mass media or social media. Women develop the desire to become like sexy women they see on the media. Women who appeal sexually reinforce their sex appeal and make efforts to provide more sexual attractiveness to the public. 

For example, when a woman who appeals sexually and who is popular and famous uploads a picture of herself on the social media, many people respond with great interest. On the other hand, when an ordinary woman who doesn't appeal sexually uploads an ordinary picture of herself, no one respond or show interest. Sadly enough, many women try to publicize their sexual attractiveness through the media. 

What would happen to the body and the mind of women who try to appeal sexually? Of course, the public are not interested in women's body and mind. Men consider them only as objects of pleasure and women consider them only as objects of vicarious satisfaction. The body and the mind of women who are sexually attractive and publicize their sex appeal in the media are necessarily destroyed. Their distorted activation of sexuality causes problems in their body and mind. They accumulate wounds in mimind and end up living a life of unhappiness and destruction. The more popular and famous they become through publicizing their sex appeal, the more their body and mind deteriorate.

Women who try to be sexually attractive are destroying their body and mind in order to induce response and attention from other people. Women's sex appeal leads to a live of unhappiness and destruction by inducing severe wounds in mind. Women need to develop true sex ability for themselves, which leads them to have powerful sex ability and the best charm. They don't have to try to become popular and famous through sex appeal and still they look charming and attractive to everyone. They can live a happy life with healthy body and mind under any circumstance. Sex Ability Training for Women will guide women to do without activating distorted activation of sexuality and build true sex ability on their own.

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[SATW] Womdn's sexuality operates in extremity.

 

Women's xesmind operates for treatment and happiness in mimind but distorted sexuality operates for wounds and unhappiness in relationships. Having sex for your own body and mind operates for treatment and happiness but having sex for love and pleasure with the partner operates for wounds and unhappiness.

Most knowledge and information on sexuality available for women focus on love and pleasure with the partner. It leads women to operate their sexuality to achieve love and pleasure in the relationship with the partner. 

Many women try to have sexually appealing appearance through diet, exercise, make-up, and fashion. They also try to have the ability to be loved by the partner, learn sex techniques, and how to enhance sexual pleasure. Most conventional sex therapies guide women to destroy their body and mind on their own by pursuing sexual pleasure. 

All these efforts induce wounds and unhappiness in women since they serve the purpose of love and pleasure with the partner. Making efforts to achieve sexual pleasure equates to making efforts to destroy their own body and mind. Such women end up living a life of unhappiness and destruction, pursuing love and pleasure with their partner and inducing wounds in mimind.

On the other hand, having sex for women's own body and mind does not take consideration of love, pleasure, or the partner. It only aims for achieving their own physical health and happiness in mimind. This method and the Theory of Xesmind have not been known to many people so far. 

Sex Ability Training for Women guides women to build a powerful sex ability, wound treatment ability, and the best unique charm on their own. Women can learn how to live happily with healthy body and mind. Adopting true sex ability does not involve a partner or having sex with the partner in relationships. Women don't have to become dependent on anyone and they can build true sex ability all by themselves.

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[SATW] A hard life of women who activate sexuality in distorted ways.

 

Women who activate sexuality in distorted ways cannot but live a hard life. Activating sexuality in a distorted way indicates that women have many wounds, which causes all men perceive such women's speech, actions, and facial expressions as sexual responses. Even boys perceive such women in a sexual way. 

Men perceive women's behaviors in a sexual way when women have many wounds and activate sexuality in a distorted way. For these women, their unconscious activate sexuality regardless of women's conscious intention displaying the desire for sexual pleasure through speech, actions, and facial expressions. 

Women who activate sexuality in distorted ways respond sexually to all men in spite of themselves by the operation of the unconscious. Men perceive such women's behaviors as requesting to be treated as sexual objects. 

Women who activate sexuality in distorted ways may be familiar with sex techniques and intense orgasm that can numb their wounds. They may seek or already have many and diverse experiences of having sex. Such a condition is hard to achieve unless they serve as sexual objects for many men. 

This type of sexual ability is formed only when women have many wounds and their mind that pursues true love and happiness in relationships perishes, which leads them to become pleasure seekers through having sex whenever possible. They forget about happiness in mind and pursue only the pleasure of the body through sensory stimulations, which reinforces their sexual ability in distorted ways. 

Some men may try to take advantage of such women and contribute to further aggravating women's psychological condition and expediting the advent of unhappy and destructive life. Most men may entertain themselves by just looking at such women responding sexually in every situation and circumstance. Women themselves cannot stop being used and abused since they don't even recognize what they are doing. 

When these women become sick or old and they lost the value of being sexually attractive enough, they end up living an empty and lonely life, which no woman with common sense and rational thinking would want. 

Normal men do not want their wife or girlfriend to activate sexuality in distorted ways and respond sexually to everyone. Normal men want their women to have love and happiness and respond sexually and have sex passionately only with men they are truly in love with. Sex Ability Training for Women guides women to build true sex ability, which make them the most charming women and achieve true happiness. 

When women build true sex ability through Sex Ability Training for Women, they can form self-centered xes habits and generate powerful xes energy limitlessly on their own, which is delivered to their body and mind. They can and must achieve true sex ability on their own regardless of the partner.

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[SATW] All human happiness and unhappiness originate from sexuality.

 

All women are born with true sex ability and true sexual charm, but not many women know that they have sex ability. The conventional concepts of sexuality available for education and information women are exposed to for the whole lifetime are seriously distorted. No one tells them how human sexuality is supposed to operate and how the operation of sexuality affects human body and mind.

The Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind that attempt to explain the operational mechanism of men's and women's mimind and xesmind postulate that human sexuality is supposed to operate with women at the center instead of men. However, problems cannot but continue to occur throughout history since distorted concepts of sexuality that put men instead of women at the center and prioritize having sex as a core component of sexuality prevail all around the world. 

Xesmind generates mimind, and mimind activates psychological operations. Humans live in a society forming relationships with other people. When individuals' sexuality or the opertion of xesmind, which is the basis of all human relationships, is distorted, their mind collapses, psychology is damaged, and not only individuals but also the whole society suffer from all kinds of problems due to distorted and ruined relationships. At the center of all these problems exist women with true sex ability as major agents of restoration of happiness of individuals and the society. 

When women understand the true nature of human sexuality and restore true sex ability through Sex Ability Training for Women, they can build wound treatment ability and happiness ability as well as powerful sex ability in a true sense. They can live a happy life as women who have the best charm and as major agents who generate happiness and sexual happiness, making all the relationships related with them healthy and happy. Only women can have this ability. 

All adult women regardless of their age are strongly recommended to take Sex Ability Training for Women to build powerful sex ability and the best charm for their own happiness and the happiness of their loved ones. 

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[SATW] Do not try to become women who look happy so you envy.

Many women want to live like women who look happy so they envy. 

You may want to become like women who :

- are pretty and attractive so are loved by many men. 

- meet great men and live a luxurious life. 

- are comfortable and affluent. 

- are popular and famous among general public.

- are successful and confident.

- are rich and happy.

- enjoy fancy and pleasurable life. 

There may be many more types of women you envy. However, you should never try to live like such women no matter how happy they look. Having the desire to become other women induces wounds in your mind. Making efforts to fulfill the desire aggravates your wounds leading to even more serious condition. 

First of all, you must have all the experiences and memories those women have to become like them. Second of all, you must understand how their xesmind and mimind operate, and whether they live with wounds or pursue positive moods, and you must become exactly like them. Thirdly, you must meet all the people they meet and talk and behave in the same way and experience the same things. You must meet all men they have met and have sex with all men they have had sex with.

You can never become like those women you envy unless you have exactly the same condition with them in every aspect of life. Trying to become like them without have exactly the same experiences and behaviors only grows your wounds and destroys your life. To be brief, you can never become women you envy. 

If you truly want to become happy and successful, you can take Sex Ability Training for Women to build true sex ability and the best charm, thereby achieving happiness in a true sense. Then, you will never envy other women and become a woman all the other women envy.

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[SATW] Women who men want to marry

 

Dating and marriage are completely different matters for men. That is why men look they have changed a lot after they get married.

When women do not have true sex ability, they are likely to accumulate psychological wounds due to their husbands and live unhappily. It is recommended that women train with Sex Ability Training for Women to build true sex ability and the best charm for happiness of both themselves and their husbands. 

There are 5 conditions men usually want for women who they marry. Women may find them detestable, but all men have similar ideas about women who they want to marry. 

1. Women who are sexually attractive and can provide sexual pleasure whenever men want. 

Men expect their wife to be sexually attractive for the whole lifetime and induce sexual desire in the husband. Then, men can have the sense of superiority over other men and achieve sexual pleasure anytime they want. 

2. Women who can take care good care of children

Men expect their wife to take good care of their children and educate them well by devoting her life to family and children. 

3. Women who are good at managing home 

Men expect their wife to do well in managing home willingly, working hard for laundry, cleaning, and cooking. 

4. Women who respect all of the husband's relationships with people including his family.

Men expect their wife to get along well with everyone related with the husband. They also expect their wife to actively get involved in solving problems in the husband's relational problems. 

5. Women who can contribute to financial condition of the family

Men expect their wife to support him and help him recover financially when he has financial problems. They also expect the wife to accumulate wealth to have the whole family to live affluently. 

Women may find the ideas absurd and men may deny that they have such ideas. However, all men try to marry women who satisfy at least a few of the conditions. They also know that it is almost impossible to find a woman who satisfies all of the conditions. 

Men with less ability of their own may have to give up more conditions in choosing their wife. Some men may marry a woman who satisfies none of the conditions, and then, they may try to find the conditions in other women and commit infidelity. They may even get a divorce and remarry a woman with better conditions. They mistake pleasure for love and happiness, and self-justify themselves and live a life of destruction. 

Women need to build true sex ability through Sex Ability Training for Women to achieve happiness on their own. Men who marry women with true sex ability do not want such conditions in their wife, but they only do their best to protect their wife and take all the responsibility to make her happy. They will comply with the wife in every aspect of life and the couple can live a happy life with utmost sexual pleasure. 

If the husband still wants such conditions or commit infidelity even when the wife has true sex ability, the wife can simply get a divorce and continue to live happily with children. Of course, she can date or remarry a good man enjoying happiness of mind and sexual happiness.

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[SATW] Women who men want to meet only for dating

 

Dating and marriage are completely different matters for men. They have different ideas about women for dating and for marriage, and that is why men behave differently after getting married toward their women. 

When women do not have the right sex ability, they may develop many wounds in the relationship with men, and experience psychological difficulties. All women can benefit from Sex Ability Training for Women to build the powerful sex ability and the best charm, and live a happy life without being swayed by men.

There are 9 conditions women need to satisfy to become women who men want only for dating. Women find the conditions shocking and absurd, but all men have the identical ideas for women they meet only for dating. 

1. Women with great sex ability

Men think that women who have many experiences of sex and many sex techniques will be able to have pleasurable sex with them and give them great sexual satisfaction. 

2. Women with great sexual charm

Women with sexy appearance reinforce men's sexual desire and make men feel superior to other men. They can also maximize the anticipation for the pleasure for sex. 

3. Women who can be an object of sex whenever men want

Men want women they meet only for dating to be willing to join them anytime men want and make efforts to achieve strong sexual pleasure with them. They want women who would do everything for men's sexual pleasure as an object of sex. 

4. Women who do not meddle with men's personal life

Men want women they meet only for dating never to meddle with men's personal life and never to become obsessive about men. They like women who are available only when men need sexual pleasure.

5. Women who have the husband or the boyfriend but do not get attention from them 

Women who have the husband or the boyfriend with whom they have experience of sex, but do not get attention and suffer from psychological difficulties are preferred by men only for dating. These women easily fall for even the slightest attention from men and are willing to give sexual pleasure to men. Men do not have to take responsibility for such women and experience the thrill of having sex with women who already have a partner. 

6. Women who do not have a partner or other family members

Women who do not have a partner or other family members are not protected by close people around them, so men think that they can enjoy having sex with them to the fullest.

7. Women who live by themselves

Men think that women who live by themselves have much free time for dating and having sex. Also, they can use the woman's place for dating and having sex with comfort. 

8. Women who are economically affluent

Men think that they can have more pleasure with women who are economically affluent taking advantage of their economic affluence as well as having sex with them. 

9. Women who are not jealous

Men want women they meet only for dating not to be jealous even when they know that men date other women and have sex with them. These women will do anything for men including having sex whenever men want. Then, men can date many women at the same time. 

Women may find men described above disgusting and men would argue that they don't belong to such bad people. If it is only for dating, men would like to meet women who satisfy all or at least some of the conditions listed above. However, women who satisfy all the 9 conditions are unlikely to exist in the real world. 

Men may meet women who satisfy a few of the conditions depending on their own conditions and abilities. When men's and women's conditions and abilities change as time passes, they may easily change partners or have a affair because it's only for dating. 

When women build true sex ability and happiness ability through Sex Ability Training for Women, men they meet for dating will not want any condition listed above from women, but do their best to protect women and comply with women for every aspect in their relationship making both parties happy in a true sense. 

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[SATW] Women who want to get married, but cannot find the right man.

 

Women's ideas on marriage are reflected in the statistics provided by wedding consulting agencies. According to the statistics, number one reason for women wanting to get married is to live with a life partner. Also, the most important condition of the partner is personality, and most women want to marry a man with financial stability. Many women are looking for men who satisfy such conditions, but it is hard to find the right man because there are not many men who can satisfy all the conditions. 

Marriage is an important major event in life. Marriage is a big event that changes  the path of life completely. It may be hard to find a man who satisfies all the conditions, but what if women themselves can make their men satisfy the conditions they want?

When women train themselves with Sex Ability Training for Women and build the right kind of sex ability, their partners will do their best to protect and comply with their women in every aspect of life. Women with sex ability can always generate happiness and sexual happiness, and their partners can also enjoy happiness and sexual happiness with them. 

If men only do as they want in a relationship, women with true sex ability will not stay with them. Women with true sex ability can generate happiness and sexual happiness on their own, and have no reason to stay with men who destroy their happiness. When women have true sex ability, most partners change to comply and accord with women's standards without realizing consciously. 

Then, how could it be possible to make men become financially and socially successful? When men stay with women with true sex ability and true happiness, they feel comfortable and become free from all the stress. They can share sexual pleasure and sexual happiness with women with powerful sexual ability, and their passion grows bigger and bigger. They will do their best to protect their women and family, and pour their powerful energy of passion into pursuing values of life and achieving success. 

Some women who are highly educated and successful in many ways may think that they will lose out by marrying men with less ability than themselves, thereby not being able to find a man to marry. Happiness is not achieved by high education or worldly success. When women build true sexual ability, which are accompanied by wound treatment ability and happiness ability, they will be able to see men for who they are inside rather than for what conditions they have.

Women will not lose out by choosing men who do not satisfy all the conditions they want. Men chosen by women with true sex ability will change themselves to become men who can protect their women and reinforce women's happiness. 

By the way, women with true sex ability are not lonely when they are alone, and they can generate happiness and sexual happiness by themselves without being in a relationship. Women who feel burdened by the pressure of meeting the right man and getting married can build true sex ability through Sex Ability Training for Women and free themselves from all the worries and difficulties about the issue of marriage and happiness .

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[SATW] The quagmire of familiarity in sex

 

The fresh water in the river decays if it stops running. Sexual pleasure also diminishes when it becomes familiar and monotonous. Without making efforts to change and try new things, sexual pleasure and happiness decrease as time passes. 

Having sex is an action that needs a partner as an active agent. You may not be able to change the whole action of having sex only with your own efforts, but your partner will gradually follow you if you initiate change. 

When having sex is perceived as duty or work, or even involves purpose or reward, it cannot be fun or pleasurable. You may want to avoid having sex and consider it as something tiring and boring. 

You used to enjoy having sex feeling happy when you were in a dating relationship and newly married. Then, you became familiar to each other and to having sex repeatedly with the same method. It lost the freshness and novelty. On top of that, you became busy with career and chid rearing making having sex not only dull but also just meaningless. 

Familiarity in sex leads to the negative perception of sex, so you may need to keep adopting changes and diversity to maintain interest and excitement. Changes and diversity don't include changing partners but trying new and diverse methods. 

If you feel that you have sexual problems, you must make efforts to restore freshness and excitement by changing and diversifying actions, atmospheres, and places. You must build your ability to apply and initiate different methods continuously not to go back to familiarity and boredom. 

To be able to do so, you must train yourself with the help of professionals who accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and sexuality. You must have the will power to change for the better and be able to invest your time and effort. 

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