Today, we're going to talk about the topic of “Sexual happiness is
not about being together, but it is a happiness that works only within
yourself.
We all have the mind, and the xesmind exist within the mind. The
mind allows us to pursue happiness in relationships, to interact with others
psychologically, and to achieve happiness together. Everyone has the mind that makes
us want to share meanings of life with loved ones and pursue values of life interacting
with others.
Within the mind, there exists the xesmind. It energizes the mind to
generate energy for moods and feelings, and it also influences the operation of
psychology. The operation of the xesmind greatly affects the operation of the mind.
And here's the most important thing. Sexuality is not for interacting
with others. It is only for energizing one's own mind, and it is only the mind
that is for interacting with others through operating psychology. This is often
mentioned in sacred books, but today, the nature of sexuality is distorted and
many problems arise because no one knows of the existence of the xesmind, and
because no one knows that the xesmind only works within one's own mind. Even if the problems that arise in human
relationships may seem to have nothing to do with sexual behaviors on the
surface, the cause of psychological disorders and incidents that go beyond
common sense is the distortion of sexuality.
Problems arise when sexuality, which is supposed to work within
oneself and only toward one's own mind, becomes connected to the psychology of
the mind and activated in relationships with others. When sexuality is
expressed in psychological interactions with others, the person feels that the
other person has activated their sexuality. You're connecting it to others
without realizing that it should only work within yourself, and you're allowing
them to control your sexuality. The feelings and thoughts of envy, jealousy, isolation,
hurt, possessiveness, wanting someone to love you and only you, wanting someone
to have sex with you, and so on all arise for the same reason. It's because sexuality
is directed toward another person through the mind.
Sexual expression can be made externally through words, actions, and
facial expressions, or it can be expressed internally through thoughts. The
moment you express your sexuality externally toward another person, your
sexuality will continue to be directed toward them through your mind, and you
will want them to direct their sexuality toward you. In this situation, your
sexuality will not be able to supply energy to your mind, your mind will lose
the power to recover from wounds and stress, and psychological disorders will
occur easily. Therefore, we should not express sexuality casually, and we
should not watch or listen to expressions of sexuality for fun. We should
pursue happiness together activating the mind and psychology, but we should
pursue sexual happiness only within ourselves and for ourselves.
When we see a pretty woman, we think, ‘Wow, she's pretty,’ and when
we see a handsome man, we think, ‘Wow, he's handsome.” The external expression
of these ideas and emotions can be controlled by the consciousness in the mind.
However, people who are expressing sexuality indiscriminately and continuously because
the workings of their xesmind are distorted are not controlling their sexuality
with consciousness. It takes very difficult training to bring this back to
normal. Not only do you have to control yourself with your consciousness, but also
you have to change your environment to keep yourself from losing control, and
you have to put yourself under tremendous control until your mindset changes.
But who wants to do all these when it feels so fun to express sexuality in your
consciousness?
People who are psychologically disturbed and unable to control their
sexuality go on to destroy the sexuality of others and try to make everyone
else psychologically disturbed. You can see these people very commonly on
social media. If you are exposed to these environments, or if you have problems
in your relationships, you just need to stop activating sexuality in
relationships. The reason why we often become emotional instead of objective
and logical in situations of envy, jealousy, inferiority complex, and other
confrontations and conflicts is because our xesmind is activated in a distorted
way. It's important to realize that not only sexual thoughts and expressions,
but also giving and taking attention, comfort, and affection come from the
operation of sexuality.
We have lived in ignorance of the nature of sexuality for so long
that it is almost impossible to separate the xesmind from the mind in human
relationships. At the very least, it would be good to know that sexuality
should be directed solely toward one's own mind within oneself and to avoid
expressing sexuality improperly.
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