How
much of your emotions do you believe to be true? Emotions you feel are
definitely reflected in your decisions and actions, but making expressions or
taking actions only based on your emotions may result in diverse problems.
Either positive emotions or negative emotions can be obstacles against your
judgments and actions.
Correct thinking is crucial in making
decisions and solving problems we face every day, so it is important not to be
skewed emotionally in daily interactions with children. What would happen if
you become overly emotional when you deal with problems in parenting? It is
highly likely that you will end up having even more problems. It is not to say
that being emotional is wrong in any sense. It is that depending on your
emotions for parenting can create or aggravate problems.
It is essential for parents to maintain
balance between facts and emotions to be able to solve problems in parenting or
any other problem. First, you should be able to distinguish facts that occur
and emotions that are created inside you. Then, you must do your best to
exclude your emotions in making judgments and taking actions.
To be able to do that, you must accurately
understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology as well as
psychological development of children and the right parenting strategies. Then,
you can address the countless problems of parenting that occur day in and day
out without difficulty or adverse effects. You can enjoy the happiness of being
a mother and raising children. You can encourage children to make trials and
errors and form healthy habits of psychology. When you feel happy as a mother,
your children will absorb your happiness and feel happy themselves.
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