A news article of The Sun on November 2nd in 2020 reported that a video was shared on Reddit that showed a Spanish speaking man exposing wife infidelity at a baby shower held to celebrate the wife's pregnancy. The husband accused his wife of having an affair for 3 years with a man who was present at the party. He argued his wife was 6 months pregnant instead of 4 months as announced publicly, and pointed at the man who was considered to be the father of the child. The party became chaotic with the husband leaving, the wife following him, and guests trying to attack the accused adulterer. His lawyer even showed a video clip of the lovers being together to the guests.
If what appeared on the video is factful, the husband apparently planned and attempted to revenge on wife infidelity. The husband does not realize that he has developed post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity. He may have thought that exposing wife infidelity for everyone to know was the best way to deal with the situation without knowing that it is urgent to treat his own conditions. Most people around the world think that infidelity is the problem of love, sex, and marriage, and rarely associate it with psychological disorders of relationship addiction and post traumatic stress.
The husband has given up on restoring marriage relationship, may have achieved his goal of revenge, and may have succeeded in divorcing his wife to his advantage. However, this way of resolving the situation will end up ruining the life of the husband, the wife, and their children. The husband must live with post traumatic stress and the wife with relationship addiction all their life. Children will also be adversely affected by their parents.
We have to think more about the consequences of our actions and the future of ourselves and family members even when we are victims. Victims of infidelity and spouses who are involved in infidelity must be treated for their psychological disorders before they take any actions to change their life circumstances to restore happiness in a true sense.
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