Most mothers say they know about their own children the most. They are not wrong. They know about their children the most because they have seen hear, felt their children ever since they were born. However, I wonder if they have ever thought of the causes of their children’s speeches and actions.
- Why do they speak and act like that?
- Why do they keep doing things that I tell not to do?
- Why is my children’s development of speeches and behaviors slow?
- Why do they speak excessively and overact making me feel tired?
- Why do they feel difficult even though I treat them very well?
- Why do they not listen to me and get angry and irritated?
Besides these, there are many cases that you cannot understand your children’s speeches and actions or that you face difficulties because you do not know their mind. Not many mothers understand their children’s mind and psychology. Counselors or experts analyze one speech pattern and one action to figure out why children speak and act like that and provide counseling or treatment to resolve this. They try to study only about speeches and actions and treat them because they also do not know about mind and psychology.
Children’s mind and psychology are very simple. What they speak and how they act are all results of operations of their mind and psychology. They seem to just speak and act to you and others, but whatever they do are actually results of operations of their mind and psychology.
In order to understand your children’s mind and psychology, you must be able to clearly differentiate and interpret stages of survival, adaptation of relationship, and formation of self-identity. You need to understand how moods of males (sons) and emotions of females (daughters) operate in process of psychological development; if you understand the principles of interactions of perception, memory, and expression, you will be able to interpret their expressions (speeches and actions) by the unconscious.
You must not leave your children’s psychological problems to experts anymore without knowing their mind and psychology. You need to be aware of that even experts do not clearly understand children’s mind and psychology. Lots of information from the Internet and books only analyzes speeches and actions of expression, which is one of psychology.
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