Mother’s maternal love is feelings of love from giving that operate in women’s unconscious. Feelings of love from giving operate differently from feelings of love from receiving. Maternal love is the source of feeling happiness for women, which is achieved by unconsciously giving love to loved ones including a man the woman loves, her children, and other family members. Children are the ones toward whom the maternal love is activated the most. Any mother who has maternal love can make children happy and solve their psychological problems.
However, when mothers do not understand children’s psychology, not recognize the importance of maternal love, and not have the ability to properly address psychological problems of their own and their children’s, both mothers and children are to suffer from diverse problems. Then, mothers cannot make use of their own ability, blame themselves and others, not receive enough attention from their husband, only to deepen their psychological wounds.
In some cases, as wounds grow further in mothers, they may develop dissociation of wounds manifested as different types of addiction. Then, they pursue only their own positive moods and pleasure neglecting child rearing. They blame circumstances or other people for children’s psychological problems and then, children’s psychology continues to deteriorate.
In the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind, it is postulated that women can stabilize their own mind and psychology by activating feelings, and also stabilize the mind and psychology of loved ones (husband, children, & other family members). Many problems of human psychology can be solved by understanding the operational mechanisms of mind and psychology, and misunderstanding may lead to sufferings and undesirable consequences.
Maternal love is the most important factor in children’s psychological development.
Both the mother and the child can become happy when the operational mechanism of children’s psychology is understood and maternal love is properly activated. When mothers learn treatment techniques of child psychology and apply them combined with maternal love, they can effectively address all the matters regarding children’s psychology as an active agent. It is hoped that all mothers realize that maternal love is the root source of children’s happiness and have an opportunity to take Mother Therapy.
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