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1. Why men adopt sex-lighting.
In the last video, I said that men adopt sex-lighting to satisfy their own sexual desire. They lure their partners saying that it is for the pleasure of both of them, but normal women do not need such intense level of sexual actions for satisfaction. Women's pursuing intense level of sexual actions indicates that they have great wounds in mimind and taking intense level of sexual actions leads women to lose the ability to operate feelings in mimind in normal ways. Women can enjoy the utmost sexual pleasure, but it must not be achieved by pursuing sexual pleasure.
Then, why do men who adopt sex-lighting need such intense level of sexual actions? It is because they can't be satisfied enough by regular sex. They may argue that regular sex is boring or their partner is not good enough, but the problem actually comes from themselves.
Human beings are supposed to take sexual actions for generating passion, vitality, love, and happiness as a result of generating powerful xes energy. They don't understand the operational mechanism of human sexuality and they only focus on the pleasure recognized in the body and the conscious. Of course, they are also victims of distorted ideas about sexuality that are pervasive in the society.
When men do not have healthy healing system of stress, they may begin to pursue sexual pleasure to get out of stress. Then, they develop stronger sexual desire than other men and activating sexuality with strong sexual desire causes xesmind to generate negative xes energy that damages their body and mind.
Stress continues in mimind and sexual dysfunction develops in the body, but they usually don't realize they have sexual dysfunction because they blame some external factors for their sexual dysfunction. Then, they pursue more and more intense sexual actions and try novel or unfamiliar sex changing partners. They may also look for women who have sexually attractive appearance and who are highly responsive sexually. This only indicates that those men do not have sex ability at all.
Some men check for their sexual function based on their ability for masturbation. However, masturbation and having sex with the partner are completely different in the operation of xesmind. Men who have sexual dysfunctions usually have no problem with masturbation, so masturbation cannot be the standard for checking for sexual function.
When men loses sex ability, their sexual desire becomes overwhelmingly strong. Desire of any kind develops when you don't have something and want to have it. You may think that you are satisfied and don't need having sex anymore when you take many and intense sexual actions. However, sexual desire is the desire to have sex ability that is already lost, so having sex many times adopting diverse intense stimulation does not make it go away.
2. How men destroy themselves
Men who pursue their own sexual pleasure adopting sex-lighting end up developing psychological disorders by activating the vicious cycle of generating stress and pursuing sexual pleasure. They may continue the process until they develop highly advanced condition such as intermittent explosive disorder. They naturally suffer from diverse types of somatization and sexual dysfunctions. They may experience expedited aging, cancer, heart attack, or even coition death, which are caused by negative xes energy based on xes wounds in xesmind.
It is not uncommon to see men around us who are in 40s and 50s and suffer from diseases and sudden death without clear medical explanation. Some of them may survive and seem healthy and energetic, but they necessarily have psychological disorders and commit sex crimes including sex-lighting.
3. What to do when your husband or boyfriend adopts sex-lighting
A woman whose husband or boyfriend is adopting sex-lighting in their relationship must sever the relationship and stay away from him. Such men don't even have the concept of love in their mind. The woman must also realize that she has accumulated many wounds in the relationship and have developed dependency on the partner.
If the man who adopts sex-lighting is the husband instead of the boyfriend, the woman is considered to be in a more dangerous situation. A normal men doesn't perceive his wife as a sexual object, and even men who adopt sex-lighting tend to exclude their wives for sex-lighting. Men who adopt sex-lighting in marriage relationship are considered to have developed the most severe condition of psychological disorders. It also indicates that the wife responded sexually to the husband's sexual actions.
It is crucial to get professional help in this case. Unfortunately, many so-called experts advise people in the wrong direction without accurately understanding the operational mechanism of human sexuality. Of course, couples have every right to enjoy having sex and it can generate passion, vitality, love, and happiness in them along with powerful positive xes energy. Problems occur when they begin to generate negative xes energy instead of positive xes energy. Most people who don't accurately understand the operational mechanism of human sexuality end up generating negative xes energy by activating sexuality. Sexless couples can be much healthier than couples who get themselves actively engaged in having sex in this sense.
It is imperative that you should activate sexuality in the right way with the right standard. Otherwise, you may be swayed by the distorted concept that leads to the pursuit of pleasure at the expense of happiness.
About KIP(Korea Institute of Psycho-education)
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