Every parent feels
pain and sorrow when their children suffer. Every parent does his or her best
to solve problems their children face. In some cases, children’s problems are
caused by parents’ problems, but not many parents think they are the ones that
makes children experience difficulties. They just try to solve the apparent
problems thinking that children’s problems are unrelated with parents
themselves.
Parents
may blame themselves or other people for not being able to help children. They
may consult professionals for children’s problems. No one, including
professionals, seems to understand that many of children’s problems are caused
by parents’ problems.
When
parents have psychological problems or disorders, they suffer from their own
issues and cannot pay due attention to their children. They may pay attention
to children but only in distorted ways. Then, children cannot but form
distorted self-identity and distorted relationships with other people. These
children usually seek attention from other people than from their own parents.
Children who are under the influence of
parents who have psychological problems or disorders cannot build healthy
habits of healing stress and treating wounds in mimind. These children tend to
be neglected or abused by parents and suffer from physical and psychological
problems. They can be easily taken advantage of by selfish people and become
victims or perpetrators of crimes.
Some
children may rebel against parents and teachers and others may stay compliant
and obedient. They end up developing psychological problems either way and keep
aggravating problems developing psychological disorders when they become
adults. Most parents who suffer from children’s problems are considered to have
their own problems, which tend to be quite serious.
Parents must treat their condition first
before addressing their children’s problems. Then, they can adopt Mother
Therapy to apply right parenting strategies to help children restore healthy
psychology. This way and only this way, both parents and children become happy
in a true sense. Please, remember that conventional approaches that directly
address children’s problems without taking consideration of parents’
psychological problems and disorders cannot adequately solve any problem at the
fundamental level.
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