Children make many trials and errors since they
don’t have many experiences in most things. They don’t have the ability to
solve problems since they lack knowledge and information. They form their own
standards about what is right and what is wrong by making many trials and
errors. They can build basic abilities to solve problems as they keep trying to
solve even small problems on their own. It is only natural that they experience
failure from time to time.
However, when parents solve all the problems for
children, or parents force their own standards in solving children’s problems,
children cannot have opportunities to solve problems on their own, and they can’t
form their own standards. Lacking experiences of trying to solve problems means
lacking abilities to solve problems. Then, they experience difficulties with
addressing stress and wounds and pursuing self-actualization when they become
adults.
Children have only the right to grow with
healthy body and mind in a safe environment, and they don’t have the
responsibility for making trials and errors. When children try to do something
on their own, adults must protect them and encourage them to go on with making
trials and errors. They will naturally develop abilities to solve problems in
this process.
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