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Many people show interest in women’s sexual happiness.
They talk about sex techniques, orgasm, or surgeries for improving women’s sexual happiness.
Unfortunately, all the conventional information and knowledge focus on the
aspect of sexual pleasure itself.
Especially, many people say women’s orgasm is
important for sexual pleasure. They argue that orgasm lets women experience the
utmost pleasure in sexual actions and every woman has to make effort to reach
orgasm. They think women must have interest in sexual pleasure and be active
and be leading in sexual actions. Women who do not pursue sexual pleasure and
sexual happiness are considered to be passive in their life and old-fashioned.
They think that the world of sexual pleasure is so
good that women who do not pursue sexual pleasure are wasting their life. Of
course, it is women themselves who must be the major agents in sexual actions to
be in accordance with the operational mechanism of human mimind and xesmind.
Also, it is absolutely true that sexual happiness reinforces happiness in
mimind. However, sexual happiness is not a necessary condition for happiness in
mimind.
Conventional
concept of sexuality puts men at the center instead of women. Men centered
sexuality focuses on pleasurable sensations on sensory organs. All the concepts
that focus on physical aspects such as orgasm, ejaculation, and sex techniques
are considered as men-centered concepts of sexuality. Women can transform such
physical sensations and energy into feelings of happiness, but pleasurable sex
gives you positive moods only temporarily and it is not sexual happiness in and
of itself. It is only a small part of sexual happiness.
This mechanism explains why women in general don’t consider
sexual actions to be important. Women put much more importance on positive
feelings than on positive moods or pleasurable sensations. When women have
great wounds and lack positive feelings in their mimind and feel unstable, they
try to compensate for their negative feelings by having sexual pleasure. As
they get themselves immersed into sexual pleasure more and more, they end up
pursuing intense positive moods from sexual pleasure disregarding feelings of
love and happiness. These women usually promote the importance of orgasm as
well as women’s sexual pleasure as a necessary condition for happiness. In other
words, such women are considered to have great wounds in their mimind.
When women feel happy and comfortable with stable
psychology, they don’t think much about having sex or sexual
pleasure. Women’s xesmind is activated when women have wounds to be treated. Xesmind
doesn’t have to be activated when women have comfort and happiness. Women
who do not show much interest in having sex are not necessarily passive,
conservative, or boring people.
It is also true that women can generate even greater happiness when they activate sexuality with woman-centeredness on top of the existing comfort and happiness. Woman-centered sex doesn’t mean that women have to lead men in having sex or pursue their own sexual pleasure for positive moods. It means that sexual actions should focus on women’s feelings instead of pleasurable sensations on sensory organs. Woman-centered sexual actions give greater happiness to both men and women then man-centered sexual actions.
People who
promote the importance of women’s orgasm and sex techniques don’t seem to
understand the underlying mechanism of human sexuality. Every human being likes
the pleasurable sensations and orgasm from having sex, but women don’t have to
deliberately try to reach orgasm every time they have sex to feel happy.
Adopting the concept of woman-centered sexuality will naturally lead to sexual
pleasure.
Women can live
happily without having sex if they don’t want to have sex. They can live happily
without having a man partner. Happiness is not related with having sex at all. Women
can generate great happiness through having sex if they activate sexuality in
the right way and they can live happily without having sex at all. Please,
remember that sexual actions are means but not ends.
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