Many women put other people at the center in their
life instead of themselves and they are conscious of what others think than
what they think. Especially in having sex, many women simply follow the lead of
men with the concept of other-centeredness. They try to look good to their sex
partners, they want to make their partners satisfied, they even fake orgasm,
and so on and so forth.
When women don’t understand how they can be satisfied in having sex,
their partners naturally have no idea about how to satisfy their women. Women
usually just assume that they are supposed to feel satisfied as they follow the
lead of men. As men lead women in having sex, couples get stuck in a rut and
having sex becomes a dull and boring routine.
There are several things women can do to make sex much more pleasurable
for both themselves and their partners. 1. Women must not be worried about
their physical appearance. Most women are overly conscious about their physical
appearance when they have sex with their partners. They are worried that they
have small busts, they are fat, or their partners should not like their
appearance. As women think they don’t look good, men also perceive so, and as
women are confident of the physical appearance, men also perceive that women
look good enough. They perceive that even the chubby belly and tiny busts are
pretty and sexy.
2. Women must focus only on their own satisfaction. They should not
worry about men partners’ satisfaction. Men feel satisfied when women are
satisfied. 95 % of men’s sexual satisfaction comes from women partners’
satisfaction and only 5 % of men’s satisfaction comes from ejaculation.
3. Women can have sexual pleasure in the whole process of sexual actions. Differently from men, women can feel orgasm like satisfaction from every sexual action they like. Thus, women should focus on their own sensations every moment during having sex. Many women are obsessive for reaching orgasm and they even fake orgasm. However, women have the ability to amplify physical sensations and turn them into feelings in mimind. Women can feel absolutely satisfied without reaching orgasm when the whole process of sexual actions is satisfactory. Being obsessive for orgasm and aiming for orgasm limits and diminishes women’s sexual satisfaction.
4. Women should express themselves as they please
in having sex without feeling ashamed. As women focus on their own sensations,
they naturally become to react and respond to their sensations. They should
freely express as they please, and then, men can use women’s responses as signs
that lead their actions. As couples adopt the same old techniques they learned
from who knows where, sex becomes dull and boring for both men and women. Women
don’t understand about their own body and men only think about ejaculation. All
sexual actions must be women-centered instead of being men-centered. Women who
feel fully satisfied and happy in having sex regardless of their physical
appearance are perceived as the prettiest and sexiest woman by men.
5. Women should freely imagine about diverse
sexual actions as they please. Then, they can accumulate sexual information in
their memory and improve sexual functions and they can have greater sexual
sensations during having sex. However, they should never express what they
imagine outwardly through facial expressions, speech, or actions.
6. Women should try to find sexually
sensitive parts in their body. They can touch and caress their own body and
find body parts where they feel good. Then, they can lead men to caress and
touch those parts during having sex. This lifts burden from men who try to
satisfy women and lets both men and women feel satisfied and happy.
7. Women should talk about frankly what they like in having sex to men
partners. They may be worried about how they will be perceived, but most men
welcome listening to what women think about sex and try to apply women’s ideas
in real sexual actions. As couples talk freely about their sex life in detail,
they can maintain a healthy and happy relationship along with sexual happiness.
This way, both men and women can generate healthy energy for daily life and
generate passion and love for a happy life.
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