10/09/2024

[Sex & Xes] Differences in perceptions of sexual dysfunction between men and women

 


Men and women have very different perceptions of sexual dysfunction. First, men develop sexual dysfunction when they have too much information about sex or have many experiences of having sex. When a man's xesmind processes sexual information, xes wounds grow little by little in their xesmind. As these wounds accumulate, they have a negative effect on the body and mind, but it is recognized as pleasure in the conscious.

In addition, because xes wounds that cause sexual dysfunction are not recognized and not sensed, sexual dysfunction is often thought of as a physical problem by men. Therefore, when men experience sexual dysfunction, they try to treat the body to restore sexual function. However, for women, sexual dysfunction occurs when the mind is very healthy or, conversely, when the wounds in mind become much larger than normal women.

A woman's xesmind works when she is trying to repair wounds in her mind, so if her mind is healthy, there is no reason for her xesmind to work, and she is not interested in sex. If the level of her wounds is extremely high, she may also become sexually dysfunctional because she blocks her perception of sexuality completely and her body does not respond to sexual stimulation at all. 

Happiness and wounds in mind are recognized and felt in the conscious, so when women experience sexual dysfunction, they think of it as a psychological problem and not a physical problem. They hardly try to treat their bodies for sexual dysfunction. However, they may try to treat their bodies being influenced by popular misinformation about sexuality, community activities, or their husbands.

Men perceive sexual dysfunction as a physical problem, so they assume that a woman's sexual dysfunction must also be a physical problem. They assume that there is something wrong with the woman's body that causes sexual dysfunction. It doesn't occur to men that woman's sexual dysfunction may be caused by a psychological problem. So, just as men try to cure their own sexual dysfunction, they try to cure their partner's sexual dysfunction physically.

Also, because women think that their sexual dysfunction is caused by psychological problems, they think that men's sexual dysfunction is also caused by psychological problems, so they think that treating men's psychology will cure their sexual dysfunction. Women often think that men need attention and love, and they want to comfort men thinking that they are working too hard, stressed, or tired.

Women hardly try hard to treat their own sexual dysfunction, and they don't think much about treating their partner's sexual dysfunction either, because they assume that once their psychology is restored, their sexual dysfunction will naturally resolve itself. Of course, if a woman develops an addiction as a result of wound dissociation, sexual dysfunction becomes a very serious matter to her. These women override their feelings of wounds and seek only the pleasure of their sensory organs, and they become tolerant of, or indulge in, having sex, which is the most intense and pleasurable form of sensory stimulation. This activates all the sensory organs in the woman’s body, no matter how frigid or anorgasmic a woman may have been, so when a woman who was primarily depressed and frigid converts to addiction, her body becomes easily aroused and optimized for having sex.

Regardless of how men and women perceive sexual dysfunction, if they have it and want to treat it, physical treatment should never be the first thing they do. Fundamentally, men need to create habits of mind so that they can remove xes wounds, and women need to create habits of mind so that they can treat wounds in mind and change their perceptions and values about sex.

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