Emotions are very important for human beings since they are the source of psychology. These emotions are the moods being lasted; women mostly feel emotions whereas men feel only temporary moods. These emotions have direct impacts on human relationships by making humans beings feel joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure.
The memory of human beings must be understood first in order to understand this text. Human being separate facts from emotions when remembering them. Facts are the contents of specific incidents. These are information accepted through the five sensory organs; they are felt and recognized. Also, the facts are remembered both by men and women in their needs.
Whereas, emotions are feelings that occur by specific facts and incidents. Emotions are generated by fact of outer information and felt and recognized as moods. Moods are temporary feelings whereas the lasting moods are called emotions. That is why mood and emotions can be called to be the same feelings. At this point, men and women remember emotions differently. Men remember positive feelings but cannot remember negative ones by removing them since they enlarge the negative moods to emotions. On the other hand, women cannot remember positive emotions but remember negative ones to treat them since their psychology is affected by their moods.
As facts and emotions are remembered together, human beings perceive the facts and emotions as if they have occurred at the same time. So, men think every fact they remember positively since they only remember positive moods whereas women think every fact they remember negatively because they only remember negative feelings about the facts.
When negative moods are aroused, men remove them and remember facts positively by getting immersed into positive feelings. By doing so, they can remember the fact that put them in difficulties in the past as a good memory when recalling it. Many times, they forget facts as they cannot remember negative feelings related to the facts.
Women remember negative emotions, but they remember them as the void of emotion after these negative emotions are treated. If positive emotions are created and if the emotion of happiness is formed, they no longer think the fact that caused them to have negative emotions negatively. If facts are remembered negatively, it means that the facts are remembered as wounds being left untreated.
According to this, it could be said that men suffering from negative emotions from the past and women forgetting negative emotions from the past have psychological disorders. A woman suffering from memories of negative emotions from the past has normal psychology. She's just not treated yet.
Facts are remembered by the needs for both men and women. Facts are remembered as things related to the facts by thoughts. If they are not remembered, that is still fine. Men and women remember emotions related to specific facts or incidents differently. Emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure are generated within human relationships due to this.
Men remember the fun and interesting things very well but cannot remember wounds because the rejection defense mechanism operates in their mind when traumas happen. Women, on the other hand, cannot remember the fun and interesting things but remember wounds very well because the acceptance defense mechanism operates in their mind. This is 'the error of the memory of emotion.' Without knowing that men and women remember emotions differently, misunderstandings along with distorted thoughts that the counterparty would remember the same will be caused.
Ultimately, the memory of emotions depends on whether present happiness is pursued, or future happiness is pursued. Since women pursue present happiness, they accept and remember negative feelings of wounds; then, they treat the wounds and change them into positive psychology so that they can feel the present happiness. Women are like a factory creating the energy of happiness; men do not have this.
Memory is very important in human psychology. Memory is either saving objects and knowledge in the brain or recalling the saved information. By education and experience, facts and emotions are remembered together. Emotions can be separated into negative emotions, positive emotions, and the void of emotion; the memory of emotions is dependent on the defense mechanism of the human mind.
The defense mechanism of the mind is like a processing device of psychology that maintains and recover happiness by processing emotions to meet psychological standards that pursue happiness. Depending on men's and women's memory of emotions, psychology can be decided to be either normal or abnormal. The memory of emotions is very important since it allows us to figure out the causes of psychological problems and psychological disorders.
When emotions on facts are being remembered as they are divided into negative emotions, positive emotions, and the void of emotions, negative and positive emotions are remembered with their sizes together. Rather than remembered knowledge by studying, the knowledge remembered by experiences generate emotions; the remembered emotions have direct impacts on human psychology. Moreover, the memories can be separated into the memory of a specific fact and the memory of emotions. Memories of facts and memories of emotions are generated simultaneously.
Men and women remember memories of facts by the conscious when they need them whereas memories of emotions are remembered differently for men and women due to their different defense mechanism. Men are controlled by the defense mechanism of the mind so that they cannot remember negative moods but remember positive ones; women are controlled by the defense mechanism so that they cannot remember positive emotions but remember negative ones.
The memory of emotions is also important in human relationships because relationships are decided depending on whether positive emotions are generated, or negative emotions are generated after psychological operations. Especially, the memory of negative emotions causes not only problems in human relationships but also psychological problems and disorders; due to this, the memory of negative emotions is called trauma.
Educated knowledge do not generate emotions in most cases since is it not the result of psychological operations but general information that has become knowledge. It is remembered just as facts of knowledge. However, knowledge from experiences and the memory of a specific incident are the information received through sensory organs of the body. These are controlled by habits and the mind because emotions are formed by the conscious and remembered along with the fact; the remembered emotions influence psychology. Thus, the mind judges whether aroused emotions are positive or negative, decides which defense mechanism to operate, and controls emotions to be remembered by the conscious.
Men and women remember the memory of emotions differently because of their different defense mechanisms that pursue different happiness. Men pursue future happiness so that they cannot remember negative moods due to operations of rejection defense mechanism but remember positive moods by operations of acceptance defense mechanism whereas women pursue present happiness so that they cannot remember positive emotions due to operations of rejection defense mechanism but remember negative emotions by operations of acceptance defense mechanism.
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