Mother Therapy basically teaches mothers how to treat their children’s psychological problems and lets them treat their children by themselves. Mothers might feel strange about Mother Therapy and think ‘what is this?’
- Is it really possible for me to treat my own children when other experts and counselors failed to treat their psychological treatment?
- How do I learn without professional knowledge?
- Can my children be really treated without counseling?
- My children are different from other children. Mother Therapy won’t be effective.
- I have never heard of this treatment method, does that really work?
- How come only mothers should be ones to learn Mother Therapy? Why not fathers?
Besides these, they might wonder what Mother Therapy is, think of it as strange, burdensome… So, sometimes, they cannot easily make up their mind to take Mother Therapy.
Unlike fathers, mothers carry emotions. Of course, they suffer in hardships many times due to the occurrence of wounds since their emotions operate, but they also have emotions of love and happiness. Mothers basically have maternal love (emotion of unconditional love) to their children. Fathers also have paternal love, but this is different from maternal love. It is an unconscious feeling to protect the family, not emotion. Therefore, since emotion of love is necessary to treat children, mothers need to know the method to treat their children’s psychological problems.
Even though counselors or experts have outstanding treatment method, they only spend 1~2 hours with children when treating their psychological problems. Due to this, it is either not effective to treat children’s problems at all or takes a very long time until it finally treats the problems. Also, psychological problems of children are not psychological disorders that must be treated but very natural phenomena that occur in their growing process of making memories and habits through phases of survival, adaptation to relationship, and formation of self-identity. However, from the adults’ point of view, your children seem to have psychological problems. So, children’s psychological problems can be resolved if you manage their psychology a little bit in daily routines with love for your children. When treating children’s psychological problems, it is better to think that you are removing their problems, not treating them.
Mothers are the ones who have maternal love, the love to their children; the ones who spend time with children the most are also mothers. The ones who can make the most stable psychological operation with children and the ones who have the greatest impact on children’s psychology are mothers as well. Therefore, Mother Therapy is the psychological treatment method for children that mothers directly treat their own children by allowing them to have the ability to treat children’s psychological problems.
Mothers will be able to treat all of their children's psychological problems in the process of their growth or upbringing by themselves by learning the method just once through Mother Therapy. Then mothers won't have to go through difficulties due to their children's psychological problems in the process of their growth and upbringing. Mothers need to take Mother Therapy because of this reason.
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