Q : My husband is saying that he didn't have an extramarital affair with another woman because he only exchanged pictures of sexual genitals and romantic text messages, but he has done it for 5 years with that woman. He keeps saying he never cheated on me because they did not meet each other. Is it really not counted as infidelity if they didn't meet in person?
A : Your husband is addicted to relationships. It is a psychological disorder. Even if he did not meet her in person, he still has a psychological disorder; it is infidelity. However, men think, whatever they did, they did not have inappropriate relationships if there was no sexual relationship.
Then, women are confused by that. What matters is not that relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder, is judged by whether there was a sexual relationship but that the woman whom your husband enjoyed over the phone was the object that he released his compulsion.
He is out of mind, which is why he can exchange pictures of his naked body and text messages of romantic words. If he does not keep exchanging text messages and pictures like that, he knows that his relationship with that woman will break and that he can no more have fun.
Just refer to the fact that the woman is just an object of having fun and that the relationship of your husband and that woman is a form of relationship addictions caused by compulsion that comes along with anxiety. You need to be wide-awake. They just did not meet in person, or maybe, they did.
In this kind of situation, wounds, as deep as the wounds that a wife gets when her husband cheats on her, have already been generated in you. Text messages and pictures that your husband exchanged with that woman have become great wounds; thus, you must treat yourself first. If you do not form the ability of happiness for yourself, his psychological disorder will never be treated.
Don't mind about what your husband saying that he did not cheat on you. What is sure for now is that he is addicted to relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder. Do not make him mad by showing this video and telling him what you are told. To understand what you are just told and be wide-awake would be better for you now.
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