Q. I am a divorced man in 40's who is raising 2 daughters. If I want to remarry, what type of women would be ideal for me: a woman who has never married, a divorced woman who is raising children, or a divorced woman without children?
A. First, you must find out what kind of trauma you have by analyzing why you have got a divorce and how you have had the custody of children. You must first analyze your psychological condition before thinking about the type of your new spouse. Then you must analyze the psychological condition of the woman you want to remarry.
When you are in a dating relationship, you usually try to show and develop positive emotions toward each other. Then, underlying psychological conditions are displayed after you marry or get used to each other and you develop relational conflicts. You and your partner may look happy and comfortable on the surface, but may have psychological problems deep inside, which will definitely manifest itself in a marriage relationship.
It is hard to give you a specific answer at this stage because you have not met the prospective partner yet. You can analyze your own psychological conditions at present, but you cannot analyze your partner. What you can do now is to analyze your psychological conditions and build healthy psychology of a divorced man. Then, you can analyze your partner's psychology when you have met one.
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