[Mother Therapy] Children's psychology is determined by the primary caregiver's condition.

 

There are many families in which both the mother and the father take care of children. Still, there is usually the primary care giver, and the influence of the mother and the father are different. Women tend to affect children's psychology by activating feelings, but men tend to affect children's psychology by activating moods. 

When the primary care giver is the mother, children are affected by the mother's psychological condition the most. When the mother has feelings of happiness, children can grow with healthy and stable psychology. When the mother has psychological problems, children's psychology also becomes unstable. 

When the mother has unstable psychology, the mother gets irritable easily and expresses negative emotions toward children randomly. Then, children naturally feel insecure and unstable. Children may also be neglected or attacked by the mother and the mother's wounds in mimind are shared and transferred to children, developing psychological problems in children. The mother's feelings are continuously activated to affect children either in a positive or a negative way. 

On the other hand, when the father is the primary care giver, he activates moods instead of feelings. When the father is in a good mood, everything is just fine. However, when he is in a negative mood, everything can go wrong. That is, the fathers' child rearing is likely to be based on the father's ever changing moods and to lack consistency. 

Then, children may form the psychology based on moods being affected by the father. Boys may become overly sensitive to their moods and girls may not be able to form feelings. Both boys and girls may become overly reactive to even small stress and easily get into conflicts in relationships with other people. 

Children's psychology is determined by the primary care giver's psychological condition. The mother's parenting is usually based on feelings and the father's parenting on moods. 

Mothers and fathers can learn about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and adopt the right parenting strategies through Mother Therapy and Father Therapy. They can learn how to complement their own limitations and help children grow with healthy and stable psychology. They can achieve mother's happiness, father's happiness, as well as children's happiness. 

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