5/03/2023

[Mother Therapy] How parents can address children's problems.

 

What do you do when you find that your child has problems? You may try to solve problems by talking to your child or get some professional help when your child suffers from depression or displays aggressive behaviors. Some parents may neglect the problems but most parents do their best to help children overcome difficulties. 

When children become rebellious, stay at their room all day, or show any other problematic behaviors, it indicates that they are experiencing stress and wounds and they are expressing them in their own ways. In such situations, parents should consider the problem from two different perspectives. 

First, you must examine whether parents' psychological problems have caused children's problems. When parents have psychological problems or psychological disorders, children necessarily develop psychological problems. I that case, parents must solve their own psychological problems or treat their psychological disorders and then, stabilize children's psychology. 

Second, you must examine whether parents have healthy psychology but their parenting strategies need modification. Children may develop psychological problems when parents adopt wrong parenting strategies. Then, parents must find the right parenting strategies and adopt them in the interactions with children. When parents have healthy psychology and adopt right parenting strategies, children may go through trials and errors, but can grow with healthy psychology in a safe environment. 

When you examine for parents' psychological problems and their parenting strategies and correct the fundamental problems before attempting to solve the visible issues, children can develop habits of healing stress and treating wounds in healthy ways. Problems may deteriorate even further when parents cannot see their own problems and just try to deal with children's problems. 

Small problems can develop into serious problems such as running away from home or violent behaviors. You must first examine parents' psychological conditions and parenting strategies when children seem to have problems. Then, you must establish a safe environment where children can form healthy habits of healing stress and treating wounds. 

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