[Mother Therapy] Making trials and errors is not failure

 

    We all make many trials and errors during our life, but many people think that they have failed rather than they have made trials and errors, and give up. Making trials and errors is not failure. It is difficult and rare to set the goal and just reach the goal at one trial.

     For example, when you go on a diet, it cannot be said that you have succeeded in the diet just because you have reached the goal of losing a certain weight. You may have eaten less, taken supplements, and worked out for many hours a day for a few months. However, you will gain weight again as you eat more and stop working out. You may even gain more weight than when you first started the diet under the influence of the psychology of compensation.

     Reaching the goal of losing weight in a few months cannot be considered as a successful diet. You must be able to continue the lifestyle with healthy habits of eating and exercising. Then, all the previous experiences become the process of trials and errors. You may have experienced a few times of unsuccessful diet but eventually you have built healthy habits that fit your lifestyle. Despair and frustration that you go through in the whole process are necessary parts you cannot but deal with.

     The same process of trials and errors is necessary in parenting. You may have difficulties in the way but you will eventually succeed in raising your children in a healthy way as you keep making efforts. You should never give up on looking for the right parenting methods that suit your own situation. You must keep looking for your own parenting strategies based on accurate understanding of the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and children's psychological development.

     Parents make trials and errors since they are new in parenting. You will be able to apply your own parenting methods when you accurately understand what true happiness is for mothers and children.

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