3/06/2024

[Sex & Xes] My friend and my girlfriend are seeing each other.


 

Hello, everyone. Today I will fact-check on the situation where a man’s friend and the man’s girlfriend have developed a romantic relationship. The three of them would hang out together often, but the man never doubted his friend and his girlfriend would develop a relationship. One day, he had an argument with his girlfriend and she began to avoid seeing him since then. After some time, he finds out that his friend and his girlfriend have been seeing each other.

The man can’t figure out how it has happened. He thinks that he shouldn’t have introduced them to each other in the first place. However, the problem started not when they were introduced to each other, but when the man and his girlfriend had an argument. They didn’t fall in love when they first met as the man’s friend and his girlfriend. It is nothing like they were meant for each other or anything like that. It is more about how human psychology and sexuality work. This kind of phenomenon happens often around us.

Firstly, a man perceives his friend’s girlfriend as xes information as he does all other unrelated women. It doesn’t mean that he would think about going out with the woman betraying his friend at all. Men who have psychological problems would do so, but a normal man respects the relationship between his friend and his friend’s girlfriend. However, his xes psychology is activated when they hang out together with them, which makes him feel good.  

The woman also perceives her boyfriend’s friend as xes information and feels uncomfortable and awkward at first. Normal women refuse to accept new xes information. She keeps her boyfriend at the center of her emotions and she doesn’t think much of her boyfriend’s friend. However, as the three people get together often, the woman perceives her boyfriend’s friend as familiar xes information more and more. Moreover, she thinks that he is just her boyfriend’s friend and lowers her guard against him and become defenseless.

When she has arguments with her boyfriend, she may talk with his friend about the matters. In this process, the woman makes expressions of her wounds and, surprisingly, the man begins to activate sexuality upon her expressions of wounds. He may begin to provide her with attention and consolation and try to solve problems for her. There are not many things he can do to solve problems in this situation. She is his friend’s girlfriend after all.  

As the woman gets attention and consolation from the man repeatedly, she also begins to activate sexuality in the relationship with her boyfriend’s friend. It must be clearly understood that women’s expressions of wounds and men’s attention and consolation lead to the activation of sexuality. What would happen when women’s expressions of wounds and men’s attention and consolation are repeated? Yes, they develop feelings toward each other without even understanding why they feel that way.  

Suppose that one day the couple had an argument and the woman and the man friend had a talk and a drink together, with the woman expressing her wounds from her argument with her boyfriend and the man providing her with sincere attention and consolation. They usually end up having sex with each other that night.

You may feel sorry for her boyfriend and think that you will never introduce your girlfriend to any of your friend. You don’t have to worry about it at all. It is only natural couples have arguments and friends hang out with couples. You just have to keep in mind that the woman must express her wounds only to her boyfriend and the boyfriend has to provide her with attention and consolation as much as possible. Then, their relationship becomes more solid.  

The operation of human xesmind and sexuality lies beyond the realm of human consciousness. You must accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mimind and xesmind to avoid undesirable or dangerous circumstances in relationships with other people. Then, you can protect yourself and other people and establish healthy and happy relationships.

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           About KIP(Korea Institute of Psycho-education)

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