Sexual desire is the
desire for having sex, and this desire is a thought. A person's thoughts are
shaped by the memories they have lived with since birth. Thoughts are never
uniform, and they are unique to you, made up of your own memories.
This is why the criteria for a need is
never absolute: Other people may think that you have enough, but you may feel
that you don't have it and you want more of it. Sexual desire is driven by a
perceived lack or absence and excess sexual desire indicates that you have a
problem with the operation of your sexuality.
The way men and women experience sexual
problems is a little different. For women, they have wounds in mimind, but they
don’t develop wounds in xesmind. Women’s sexual
problems they recognize in the conscious are actually problems that occur in
their mimind related with wounds in mimind. So when women have wounds in mimind,
they may develop sexual desire. The size of women’s sexual
desire varies depending on the size of their wounds in mimind and women’s sexual
desire is manifested as simply wanting comfort and attention or as wanting to have
sex as a means of consolation.
Men, on the other hand, experience xes wounds
in their xesmind, and they don’t develop wounds in their mimind. Since
the workings of xesmind are not directly recognized in the conscious like the
workings of mimind, and because the workings of xesmind are only transmitted to
the unconscious, men may have very strong sexual desires that they cannot
explain.
If a man is directly and consciously aware of a sexual
problem, such as sexual dysfunction, his sex drive becomes extremely strong.
When sexual dysfunction occurs in men, the basic foundation for sexual
achievement, which men consider to be so important, is broken, so they become
very nervous and stressed, not only during having sex, but also in everyday
life and work.
As a result, their sexual desire becomes
stronger in order to recover, and as their sexual desire becomes stronger, they
gradually perceive most of what they perceive in their daily lives as sexual
information, which leads to a vicious cycle of growing xes wounds and
developing even more serious sexual dysfunction. Especially when they deliberately
acquire all kinds of knowledge on sex in order to cure their sexual
dysfunction, the more they learn, the worse their sexual performance becomes.
It's like drinking salt water when you're thirsty, and the more you drink, the thirstier
you become.
There is one distinction that needs to be made here. A common misconception is that young men have a strong passion for sex, but technically, this is not sexual desire. It's literally about being very healthy and full of enthusiasm in both body and mind. It's about having a very strong sense of pleasure from pursuing something, and sex is the most powerful means of pleasure that can utilize all of your senses, so it can be felt as having strong sexual desire. In fact, men tend to have stronger sexual desire as they get older and as they become more sexually experienced. This mechanism explains the phenomenon of older men being more prone to sexual transgressions.
Sexual desire is a form of energy that
seeks to fill a need for something that isn't there, which can be good or bad
depending on how you harness it. Your sexual desire can be seen as an
activation of energy in your mind to fulfill or achieve something, so if you
use it for work, for example, you may be able to make a great achievement in
your field. As I have mentioned earlier, desires are thoughts, and you can
change what you focus on by changing your thoughts.
To be able to do so, rather than debating
the good and bad of sexual desire, it's important to clearly understand the
mechanism by which sexual desire arises and develops further, and to avoid
having a distorted notion of sexuality to ensure that they are not harmful to
ourselves and others, and that they can be used to pursue happiness with a
healthy mind and body.
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