Today, we're
going to look at the underlying causes of the phenomenon in which some women
like sex and others don't like sex. First of all, whether you like sex or don't
like sex is an emotion - it's how your mind feels about the sexual information
that comes in through your sensory organs.
Before we get
into that, it's important to note that liking sex doesn't necessarily mean that
you have a high sex drive. A woman with a high sex drive will have constant
thoughts of sex and a desire to have sex, but liking sex means that even if you
don't normally have thoughts of sex and don't have a desire, you don't think
negatively about sex, and you feel positive about the sensations and feelings
when you have sex.
Women who like
sex are considered to have a highly developed sensory systems. This means that
they have sensitive sensory systems that come into play when they have sex. But
these sensory systems are not selectively enhanced only when they have sex. They
are actually sensitive across the board. Their sight, hearing, touch, smell,
and taste all take in more information in a more subtle way than the average
woman.
But what happens
when this perceived information makes them feel uncomfortable? That means
you're more stressed and overwhelmed than the average woman. So if you're a
sex-loving woman, it's important to keep your senses as positive as possible,
even outside of sex. You need to make an effort to see and hear nice things,
and eat good foods whenever possible.
Now, does this
mean that women who dislike sex have dull sensory systems and poor sexual
functioning? No. If they had dull sensory systems and poor sexual functioning,
they would not either like or dislike sex. Then, why do some women dislike sex?
It's because the perception of sex in their sensory organs is connected to psychological
wounds. Actually, it's more likely that they have developed sensory systems
like women who like sex, but the information of sex that they receive so
sensitively is connected to psychological wounds, and they feel displeased
instead of pleased.
Women who are
overly averse to sex, for whatever reason, have deep wounds at play, and a
strong desire to repair it, so they have a strong desire to avoid the
perception of sexual information in their sensory organs, and to entertain
their sensory organs with something else. For example, overly indulging in going
to restaurants, listening to ASMR, shopping, traveling, or working hard to
improve appearance are all that come from the desire to please the senses. And
the root cause is deep psychological wounds that are operating in the
unconscious. In cases like this, along with healing the wounds, they need to
practice transforming their ideas and values about sex.
Women who like
sex and women who don’t are the most different in how their minds work. It's
worth noting that sexual desire is not a matter of the sensory systems
themselves, so we shouldn't associate liking or disliking sex with sexual
desire.
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