If you're a couple who wants to explore different
types of sex, such as threesomes, swapping, and group sex, but are
inexperienced, this video is for you. Sharing and enjoying sex with other
people is a risky endeavor, and there's a lot to be careful about and consider,
so it's actually best to consult with a sexologist to find the right path for
you.
If you just want to share sex with others simply to
satisfy your curiosity and desire for greater pleasure, you need to keep in
mind that it only takes one try to shatter your marriage and couple relationship
because while sex is not the only thing a couple lives for, it is the
cornerstone of how you build your relationship.
When you don't know how to use sex as a tool for your
happiness, and you make the mistake of taking away your own cornerstone and
giving it to someone else, you're tearing your relationship apart.
Unfortunately, most people end up destroying themselves and their homes when
they try threesomes, swapping, group sex, etc. without knowing how and why.
If you don't fit the description of what I'm about to
tell you, you should leave sex with a variety of people only as a sexual
fantasy, and focus on sex with your own partner. Usually, when our minds are
tilted in the direction of pleasure-seeking, we easily rationalize that
"I'll never get in trouble" or "we're all so ready for that,"
but there's no way back once you've lost everything, so you need to take a good
look at your condition to the last minute before the decision.
First, when a couple wants to have sex with someone
else, it's usually the husband who convinces his wife to do so, often
rationalizing that "it would be good for her to have sex with someone else
too" in order to pursue his own sexual fantasies, but the truth is that
wives feel the happiest and the most fulfilled in intimate sex with their
husbands rather than with someone else.
When considering sex with others, the husband needs
to completely put aside his own sex fantasies, his own sexual pleasure, his own
sexual performance, etc. and focus solely on what makes his wife happy. He
should only look out for and protect his wife before, during, and after sex,
and never forget that all sexual actions are being done for her happiness, not
his.
And the wife shouldn't think of the other people
she's having sex with as human beings - they're just aids to help her and her
husband have sex, which means she shouldn't feel any human-to-human feelings
for them.
And one thing that should precede all of this is,
without a doubt, safety. You need to be physically and psychologically safe,
and even if you and your partner are safe people, there's a very good chance
that the other people you're having sex with are not. People who participate for
the sake of pleasure are either already being sexually taken advantage of, or
they're taking advantage of others, and they have no one else in mind but their
own pleasure.
This absolute standard is a necessary component for
having multi-party sex, and the vast majority of husbands and wives will not
meet it. If you think it's easy, you're likely to be doing a lot of arbitrary
interpretation to achieve your own sexual pleasure.
If you're ready for all of this, then there are a
couple of things you need to keep in mind when it comes to practice. First, if
you think of the people you're having sex with as human beings, and if you meet
the other people without your partner, your relationship with your partner is
over, so you should always meet together, have sex together, and go home
together. Second, it is very important to have climax with your partner.
Third, couples should always check their condition
and be careful not to develop problems. The effect of the sexual act is so
powerful that even a small ember of vague concern can turn into a firestorm in
an instant. Couples should always make it clear that they can stop whenever
they feel something is getting out of line, and of course, the other partner
should embrace it and work toward recovery. If things aren't working out, it's
important to consult a sex therapist as soon as possible, rather than dragging
your feet and trying to recover on your own.
In addition, there should be very specific and strict
rules for couples to enjoy sex with others. This is because sex with others is
a blank slate and risks becoming an affair, and their happiness can be completely
skewed without them even realizing they have a problem. And then, you get the
idea that you can have sex with anyone who isn't your spouse in the future, and
then with anyone who isn't part of that group, and then with anyone in the
world, and you go through life thinking nothing is wrong with that idea. Of
course, your relationship with your spouse has long been destroyed.
Unless you accurately understand the true nature and
mechanism of sexuality, your good intention to get involved in having sex with
others is in vain because sexuality is not something that can be controlled by
consciousness. So, before you even consider multi-party sex, your first
priority should be to make sex between just the two of you the most passionate,
pleasurable, and blissful it can be. If you just know how, you can realize most
of your sex fantasies with just the two of you and enjoy sexual happiness like
never before. Also, please, remember that not taking responsibility for the sex
you choose is a sex crime.
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