Homosexuality itself is not a psychological
disorder or problem, but the causes of a person developing a homosexual
orientation can be problematic. The causes of men becoming homosexual are
slightly different from the causes of women becoming homosexual. If a person's
sexual orientation is formed as part of their natural psychological
development, it's not so problematic. They can live their lives in the same
healthy way as someone who loves the opposite sex.
For men, the pursuit of more stimulating
sexual pleasures can lead to homosexuality. Since men are relatively much more
liberal than women when it comes to sexual behavior, sex between men is often much
more explicit and liberating than other types of sex, and men who become
homosexuals this way lead a highly sexually-oriented life. This is usually the
case for men who are voluntarily coming out, are active in the gay community,
and are openly looking for partners. Male homosexuals who did not become homosexual
as a result of seeking sexual pleasure tend to avoid revealing their
homosexuality.
Many female homosexuals, on the other hand,
are driven to homosexuality by a trauma that they are unable to deal with. For
example, if you were sexually abused by a man as a child, the mere sight of a
man can be suffocating, and the only relationship you can breathe in is with
women. Or if you were neglected by your parents and bullied as a child at the
same time, the scars are enormous.
When no one else cares about your wounds,
you may find yourself falling in love with someone of the same sex who can
easily empathize and comfort you. These are the types of female homosexuals we
see most often. Women who don't have wounds and just happened to become
homosexual in the process of their psychological development are the ones we
don't see around as much because they don't easily expose their sexual
orientation.
In the case of a man who becomes homosexual
as a result of pleasure-seeking, all of his relationships and value pursuits
become nothing more than a means for having sex. He has a tremendous desire for
sex, which in turn leads to a tremendous amount of stress, which he is not good
at handling.
A female homosexual who is driven to
homosexuality by many and deep wounds naturally has to live with a tremendous number
of wounds. When wounds affect women, they cause symptoms such as anxiety,
obsession, irritability, depression, and dependency, so female homosexuals who
have become homosexuals due to severe wounds almost certainly have these
symptoms, making their lives and lives of people around them difficult.
In these cases, both male and female
homosexuals become very narrow-minded because the biggest factor in their lives
is sexual pleasure or psychological wounds. This leads us to think that
homosexuals have problems, but it's not the homosexuality itself that's the
problem, but it's the abnormal sex drive, the pursuit of sexual pleasure, and
the overwhelming wounds. This can also apply to heterosexuals, but the
distortions of homosexuality seem to be more pronounced since homosexuals are viewed
with prejudice in society more than other people.
On the other hand, there are people who
naturally become homosexual without excessive sexual pleasure-seeking or
excessive wounds. These people usually live their lives without revealing their
sexual orientation to the outside world, and if they happen to fall in love
with someone of the same sex, they can be just as healthy and happy as their
heterosexual counterparts.
It's not the homosexuality that needs to be
addressed, it's the excessive pursuit of sexual pleasure and the effect of
excessive wounds, which also applies to heterosexuals as it does for
homosexuals. Once their psychological conditions are restored, anyone can live
a healthy and happy life. Also, it is possible to change from homosexuality to
heterosexuality if that is what the person wants. There are many heterosexuals
who have problems mentioned above. The bottom line is that there is no need to
be prejudiced against homosexuals or to have unreasonable rejection of them.
https://youtu.be/vFzUdXIdDs0?si=2fF9moYblAm0EwJi
No comments:
Post a Comment