When
meeting someone for the first time, when doing things related to work, or when
talking about specific incidents, psychology operates based on the conscious
human relationship. In this case, habits of the unconscious are suppressed;
psychology operates only by thoughts and memories of the conscious.
When
one's thoughts and memories (the recognized part of memory) are expressed to
his or her counterparty, the counterparty perceives these through thoughts and
memories (the recognized part of memory). At this point, when expressing one's
own thoughts and memories to the counterparty, the remaining speech, actions,
and facial expressions except for the part that is being recognized are
expressed by habits of the unconscious. The counterparty perceives the
expressed psychology by thoughts and memories and then expresses his or her
thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized), which makes one
perceives them to thoughts and memories (the part being recognized) as well.
When the counterparty expresses his or her thoughts and memories, at this
point, the remaining speech, actions, and facial expressions except for the
part that is being recognized are expressed by habits of the unconscious as
well.
Like
this, the relationship where one and the counterparty perceives and expresses
through thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized) is called the
conscious human relationship. Here, expressing through the part of thoughts and
memory that are being recognized is important, but it would be much more
helpful for human relationships if expression made by habits can be sharply
paid attention.
The
conscious human relationship is at work in uncomfortable relationships when
meeting strangers for the first time, relationships formed by things related to
work, etc. In intimate human relationships, speech and actions are made by
habits, which is the unconscious; however, in the conscious human
relationships, expression is made by thoughts, which is the conscious, so many
thoughts are made to operate stress and cause tiredness.
The
conscious is always at work in expression and perception of psychology in the
conscious human relationships; thus, it causes tiredness a lot. The operation
of the conscious generate thoughts; thoughts induce stress. This is why people
who work hard at workplaces want to take rests comfortably when they are back
home. If they cannot relieve stress at home, they try to relieve stress before
they get back home. Having some alcohol, going somewhere for fun or hanging out
with close friends before going back home is the operation of psychology trying
to relieve stress. There's also a case that some people forget going back home
because they enjoy and are deeply engaged in their work.
The
conscious human relationship generates lots of stress like this. If the
conscious that requires reasonable and decisive judgment keeps operating, it
will cause compulsion and suppression. In other words, as stress becomes
stronger, more tiredness is caused; when you work very hard, you may feel quite
tired after the work is finished.
If
one is back home without his or her stress relieved, the stress will be
relieved by habits unconsciously when the person is with his or her close
friends or people he or she loves. A lot of people doing work that are very
important and difficult, works that require highly advanced and professional
skills, work for which strict hierarchy is required, etc. tend to become
violent (using abusive words or physical violence) to relieve their stress when
they are at home where they have intimate human relationships although their
job performances are excellent due to the operation of rational controls and
thoughts. This occurs when they are back home without relieving their stress.
There
was a TV program that showed measuring the stress of a husband when he's at
work and when he is at home. His blood pressure was between 80 and 90 when he
was at home whereas it was measured to be between 130 and 140 when he was at
work. The blood pressure went down to 80-90 when he came back home.
Habits
of the unconscious operate when one is in intimate human relationships at home
whereas the conscious operates when that person is at work, and the operation
of the conscious constantly causes stress that makes the blood pressure stay
high. The types of psychological operations, whether the conscious or the
unconscious, have a great influence on one's psychology.
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