4/24/2021

A Conscious Human Relationship

 


           When meeting someone for the first time, when doing things related to work, or when talking about specific incidents, psychology operates based on the conscious human relationship. In this case, habits of the unconscious are suppressed; psychology operates only by thoughts and memories of the conscious.

           When one's thoughts and memories (the recognized part of memory) are expressed to his or her counterparty, the counterparty perceives these through thoughts and memories (the recognized part of memory). At this point, when expressing one's own thoughts and memories to the counterparty, the remaining speech, actions, and facial expressions except for the part that is being recognized are expressed by habits of the unconscious. The counterparty perceives the expressed psychology by thoughts and memories and then expresses his or her thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized), which makes one perceives them to thoughts and memories (the part being recognized) as well. When the counterparty expresses his or her thoughts and memories, at this point, the remaining speech, actions, and facial expressions except for the part that is being recognized are expressed by habits of the unconscious as well.

           Like this, the relationship where one and the counterparty perceives and expresses through thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized) is called the conscious human relationship. Here, expressing through the part of thoughts and memory that are being recognized is important, but it would be much more helpful for human relationships if expression made by habits can be sharply paid attention.

           The conscious human relationship is at work in uncomfortable relationships when meeting strangers for the first time, relationships formed by things related to work, etc. In intimate human relationships, speech and actions are made by habits, which is the unconscious; however, in the conscious human relationships, expression is made by thoughts, which is the conscious, so many thoughts are made to operate stress and cause tiredness.

           The conscious is always at work in expression and perception of psychology in the conscious human relationships; thus, it causes tiredness a lot. The operation of the conscious generate thoughts; thoughts induce stress. This is why people who work hard at workplaces want to take rests comfortably when they are back home. If they cannot relieve stress at home, they try to relieve stress before they get back home. Having some alcohol, going somewhere for fun or hanging out with close friends before going back home is the operation of psychology trying to relieve stress. There's also a case that some people forget going back home because they enjoy and are deeply engaged in their work.

           The conscious human relationship generates lots of stress like this. If the conscious that requires reasonable and decisive judgment keeps operating, it will cause compulsion and suppression. In other words, as stress becomes stronger, more tiredness is caused; when you work very hard, you may feel quite tired after the work is finished.

           If one is back home without his or her stress relieved, the stress will be relieved by habits unconsciously when the person is with his or her close friends or people he or she loves. A lot of people doing work that are very important and difficult, works that require highly advanced and professional skills, work for which strict hierarchy is required, etc. tend to become violent (using abusive words or physical violence) to relieve their stress when they are at home where they have intimate human relationships although their job performances are excellent due to the operation of rational controls and thoughts. This occurs when they are back home without relieving their stress.

           There was a TV program that showed measuring the stress of a husband when he's at work and when he is at home. His blood pressure was between 80 and 90 when he was at home whereas it was measured to be between 130 and 140 when he was at work. The blood pressure went down to 80-90 when he came back home.

           Habits of the unconscious operate when one is in intimate human relationships at home whereas the conscious operates when that person is at work, and the operation of the conscious constantly causes stress that makes the blood pressure stay high. The types of psychological operations, whether the conscious or the unconscious, have a great influence on one's psychology.


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