4/24/2021

An Abnormal Human Relationship

 


           Abnormal human relationships always bring about problems. Thus, if it is not understood clearly or if it is not prevented, you might either be involved in incidents that you didn't want to be involved with or be damaged due to this relationship. These cases happen in relationships with specific purposes such as fraud, blind passion, adultery & infidelity, unfair business and work involving two parties who are not in the same position, etc.

           The potential is very high for serious problems to occur since one perceives his or her counterparty as a close person, but the counterparty perceives their relationship as that with a specific purpose. If one expresses his or her emotions through speech, actions, and facial expressions by habits of the unconscious to his or her counterparty because the counterparty is a close person, the counterparty will accept the expressed emotions through thoughts of the conscious. Then, the counterparty will make speech, actions, and facial expressions that the one wants; through this, one's thoughts and memory can be recognized by his or her counterparty. So, the one perceives the counterparty's speech, actions, and facial expressions as if they were true. At this point, one does not recognize the counterparty's expression is made intentionally for a specific purpose but perceives only that the relationship with the counterparty has become intimate.

           When looking into the abnormal human relationship, habits of the unconscious operate when one expresses his or her emotions because he or she thinks that he or she is close to or loves his or her counterparty. whereas the counterparty uses the conscious to express and perceive the expressed emotions. In this case, the person with habits operating is damaged by his or her counterparty who uses the conscious; this makes the counterparty become a perpetrator. Thus, in an abnormal relationship, one uses his or her unconscious when expressing his or her feelings and thoughts whereas the counterparty uses us his or her conscious when expressing his or her thoughts.

           These abnormal relationships are intended for a particular purpose, such as criminal relationships, fraud-related relationships, and the relationship between the perpetrator and the victim.

           This kind of abnormal relationship occurs very often, especially in intimate relationships and in relationships with people who have known for a long time. This does not operate in the conscious human relationship. Even though one person in the relationship feels intimacy and thinks the relationship has become closer, it is useless if the counterparty has a specific purpose to keep the relationship.

           As mentioned several times, abnormal human relationships occur when relationships are considered to be intimate and when the relationship has been kept for a long time. People are swindled mostly by others who have kept intimate relationships with them. It is rare to be swindled by a stranger. So, although the conscious operates in the beginning when meeting a stranger, expression starts being made unconsciously by habits once one starts feeling intimacy in the newly formed relationship. The conscious keeps operating in the counterparty. In other words, the counterparty is taking advantage of this person. As the counterparty starts thinking consciously with specific purposes, an abnormal human relationship has been formed. This person does not recognize this.

There are some people trying to come between others by making them misunderstand and distrust each other. This is possible because the victims are close to the person who tries to come between them; this also makes them continue this abnormal relationship with the perpetrator who holds a specific purpose. When there is someone trying to play both sides in the middle, it means that the person has a specific purpose. Like this, those with specific purposes in human relationships express psychology intentionally.


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