Abnormal
human relationships always bring about problems. Thus, if it is not understood
clearly or if it is not prevented, you might either be involved in incidents
that you didn't want to be involved with or be damaged due to this
relationship. These cases happen in relationships with specific purposes such
as fraud, blind passion, adultery & infidelity, unfair business and work
involving two parties who are not in the same position, etc.
The
potential is very high for serious problems to occur since one perceives his or
her counterparty as a close person, but the counterparty perceives their
relationship as that with a specific purpose. If one expresses his or her
emotions through speech, actions, and facial expressions by habits of the
unconscious to his or her counterparty because the counterparty is a close
person, the counterparty will accept the expressed emotions through thoughts of
the conscious. Then, the counterparty will make speech, actions, and facial
expressions that the one wants; through this, one's thoughts and memory can be
recognized by his or her counterparty. So, the one perceives the counterparty's
speech, actions, and facial expressions as if they were true. At this point,
one does not recognize the counterparty's expression is made intentionally for
a specific purpose but perceives only that the relationship with the
counterparty has become intimate.
When
looking into the abnormal human relationship, habits of the unconscious operate
when one expresses his or her emotions because he or she thinks that he or she
is close to or loves his or her counterparty. whereas the counterparty uses the
conscious to express and perceive the expressed emotions. In this case, the
person with habits operating is damaged by his or her counterparty who uses the
conscious; this makes the counterparty become a perpetrator. Thus, in an
abnormal relationship, one uses his or her unconscious when expressing his or
her feelings and thoughts whereas the counterparty uses us his or her conscious
when expressing his or her thoughts.
These
abnormal relationships are intended for a particular purpose, such as criminal
relationships, fraud-related relationships, and the relationship between the
perpetrator and the victim.
This
kind of abnormal relationship occurs very often, especially in intimate
relationships and in relationships with people who have known for a long time.
This does not operate in the conscious human relationship. Even though one
person in the relationship feels intimacy and thinks the relationship has
become closer, it is useless if the counterparty has a specific purpose to keep
the relationship.
As mentioned several times, abnormal
human relationships occur when relationships are considered to be intimate and
when the relationship has been kept for a long time. People are swindled mostly
by others who have kept intimate relationships with them. It is rare to be
swindled by a stranger. So, although the conscious operates in the beginning
when meeting a stranger, expression starts being made unconsciously by habits
once one starts feeling intimacy in the newly formed relationship. The
conscious keeps operating in the counterparty. In other words, the counterparty
is taking advantage of this person. As the counterparty starts thinking
consciously with specific purposes, an abnormal human relationship has been
formed. This person does not recognize this.
There are some people trying to come between others by
making them misunderstand and distrust each other. This is possible because the
victims are close to the person who tries to come between them; this also makes
them continue this abnormal relationship with the perpetrator who holds a
specific purpose. When there is someone trying to play both sides in the middle,
it means that the person has a specific purpose. Like this, those with specific
purposes in human relationships express psychology intentionally.
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