A news of Page Six on December 18th in 2020 reported that the “Real Wives of Beverly Hills” star Erika Jayne's husband Tom Girardi allegedly had multiple cases of infidelity during their 21 years of marriage. Jayne still wanted to save their marriage and tried hard, but she realized that her husband did not put her on priority any more, so she decided on getting a divorce.
The cause of infidelity is relationship addiction and it causes post traumatic stress in the victimized spouse. This basic mechanism applies to everyone regardless of individual's circumstances affecting everyone including people of fame, wealth, and power. Since the problems come from the identical mechanism of human mind and psychology, the identical mechanism of treatment can be applied to solve problems of infidelity and to restore happiness of married couples. Unfortunately, most people including experts of psychology misunderstand about the issue of infidelity thinking that it is the problem of sex, love, and emotions. Such misinterpretations about the issue of infidelity lead to negligence and aggravation of people's psychological conditions instead of restoration and happiness.
Korea Institute of Psycho-education have been trying to guide people to accurately understand the true nature of infidelity along with its causes and the seriousness of the damage caused by it. These days, we see so many people suffering from pain and damage of infidelity and problems associated with it. We are trying to show that anyone can transform a crisis into an opportunity and regain success and happiness in a true sense through accurate understanding and treatment of relationship addiction and post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity.
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