Men and women's communions are the combination of men's passion and fun and women's love and conversations by sexual relations. When having communions at this point, motivations and practices are required. These two play very important roles when techniques of communions are combined. Of course, the order doesn't really matter, but it is better to be progressed following the flow in order for communions to last longer.
Motivation hear means leading the counterparty; practice means conducting in reality. In communions of sexual relations motivations and practices are very important.
There are two methods in the communions of sexual relations. One is the techniques of temptation, which are the method of communions of xes psychology; the other is the techniques of pleasure, which are the techniques of xes actions.
So far, the methods of exchanging xes psychology are what women have wanted; the techniques of pleasure of enjoying sex are what men have wanted. I am not saying that these two are wrong or bad. However, when it comes to communions, these must be operated in the opposite way. That is to say that, men must know the methods of exchanging xes psychology whereas women must know the techniques of pleasure of enjoying sex. this way, the communions between men and women can last longer.
First of all, emotions need to be excluded when pursuing and imagining fun and interest through conversations. it is exchanging opinions without letting emotions control the situations when having conversations. Especially, talking about sex allows the mind to be more comfortable. Then women can treat their wounds through the conversations; men's passion becomes strengthened due to the operations of xes psychology.
If men's passion becomes strengthened, various ideas of sex will be generated as they get through lots of imaginations; women get to choose and decide one of these many ideas. Emotions must be excluded up to this point. If emotions are included, negative emotions through expressions like saying 'pervert,' 'I don't like that,' etc. are going to be included. Therefore, talking about sex with emotions being excluded is the process of making communions of the conscious.
The right order is that men suggest ideas through conversations first and let women choose and decide one of the ideas. This is motivation. Women must lead. Then men make what women have chosen practices. Love and passion make communions this way.
For instance, when choosing what to eat for a meal, that a woman saying "I want to eat that' is the lead (motivation). Then, all of that the man chooses the menu she has decided, enjoying the meal, and paying the bill are the process of practices.
When these happen, passion and the desire for achievement will be generated for the man. As for the woman, she will be thankful for the man for accepting her opinions and will be able to form love and happiness as her wounds in the mind get treated as well. This way men's passion and women's love form communions.
For reference, the method of exchanging xes psychology the men must learn is the method of moving the counterparty's mind such as how to have conversations considering factors like circumstances, atmosphere, and environment, how to decide (lead) atmosphere, the method of how men's and women's psychology operate, how to have the same mind, etc.
Moreover, the techniques of pleasures that women need to learn are the methods of expressing xes psychology. These are the techniques of making expressions about sex and expressing emotions. There are various methods of sexual techniques such as fashion, exposure, jacking off, sex positions, sounds, insertion, etc. 'The method of exchanging xes psychology of men' and 'the techniques of pleasure (techniques of sex) of women' can be learned in Xes Therapy.
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