When a woman saying that she has received love from a man means that she feels the woman's happiness in the romantic relationship as the man's passion and the woman's love commune with each other. Also, since having the wife's happiness is having happiness by giving love to her husband as a wife, in the end, it is the same as having communions within the conjugal relationship. In other words, whether it is a romantic relationship, or it is conjugal relationship, it means that passion and love have made communion having sex as the medium.
However, between a husband and his wife, people tend to consider their conjugal relationship more important than their romantic relationship. It is because they perceive the romantic relationship as if it is not the conjugal relationship. Strictly saying, sex is the communion of love and passion not in a conjugal relationship but in a romantic relationship. In the romantic relationship, the love and passion commune with each other using sex as the medium whereas, in conjugal relationship, psychological communion is made. Thus, the conjugal relationship can be happy only when it is based on a romantic relationship.
In conjugal relationship, the husband will form communion that generates happiness if he joys and feels fun when the love is given to him; in the parent-child relationship, the children will form communion that generates happiness if they joy and feel fun when the love is given to them. This is how the woman feels present happiness.
But the men's future happiness is a thing that is pursued based on passion and the desire for achievement and is not related to women's happiness. However, they can make communions only through people whom they love unconsciously or people whom they consider as themselves. This is the phenomenon of being formed in the unconscious unknowingly.
When a woman gets present happiness, the man also gets present happiness as he makes communions psychologically with the woman. Due to this, the man's psychology becomes stabilized and comfortable, making his passion and desire for achievement much stronger. The man feels psychologically comfortable if his passion and desire for achievement become stronger and activated. These passion and desire for achievement go towards the woman, his counterparty.
Men always say, 'why do you think I go out for work? don't you ever think that I work hard for you and children? We need money to live well!' whereas women flatly reject men's saying by saying that 'you are doing it because you want it.' All of these are caused because the men and the women do not know their psychology.
Numberless communions are being made as a woman receives love from a man, as a wife gives love to her husband, and as a mother gives love to her children. If a woman becomes happy this way, man's passion and desire for achievement become activated as he has the communion of the unconscious that makes him treat his woman as if she is himself. Then, he gives the activated passion and desire for achievement in the form of love to the woman as he communes with her. Having this structure of the right function is the communions for the happiness of conjugal relationship, which is the man-woman relationship.
Women must know and understand this if they want to be happy. Communions that men feel are invisible since they appear in forms of the love of the unconscious, but they really exist. However, women do not know; due to this, it is impossible for men to give passion and desire for achievement to women. Men cannot give their passion and desire for achievement even though they want to give. Why? It is because women forget that they are women as they live as wives.
As this circulation structure is broken, communions for conjugal happiness is also cut off as the husband and the wife live. If communions cannot be made, men's passion and women's love will disappear. Ultimately, a man gets passion generated to make communions with his counterparty when he perceives her as a woman. So, it must be understood that men's habits are formed by women. Women can help men Women can help men to change to be better.
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