Wounds and Happiness

 

Although stress is negative moods, it is related to women's wounds and happiness and to men's passion. So, for women, accumulated stress become negative emotions of wounds; by treating the wounds, they form love and happiness. Also, men generate passion when the power of enjoying the stress is at work. Thus, both women's love and men's passion are generated from stress. If stress is remembered, it becomes wounds. Because of this, women's love remembers the negative emotions of wounds; the emotion of love is generated when positive psychology is formed as changing these emotions to the void of emotion by treating them. When this emotion of love is formed, women can feel present happiness. Wounds can be the driving force to make present happiness. Treating trauma and forming love is because acceptance defense mechanism operates in women's mind. 

Men generate passion when they overcome the negative moods of stress and get fun. That is to say, for them, passion is the power of enjoying stress. If the power of enjoying stress is formed, positive psychology is created, allowing them to pursue future happiness along with the energy of passion. In the end, men's driving force pursuing future happiness is decided by whether they reject stress by perceiving only as negative mood, or they get the passion that changes the stress to positive psychology as they enjoy negative moods. Therefore, men's future happiness is decided by the processing ability of present stress. 

Like this, passion is men's power of enjoying stress; love is women's power of treating wounds. According to this, women's wounds create love; men's stress becomes the source of creating passion. 

For example, let's think about coal. Coal itself is dirty but becomes the source of strong energy as it is burnt. Things like coal are very similar to stress or wounds. 

Some say they feel happy from being comfortable, but being comfortable is, in fact, not happiness. Being comfortable is the state of not having wounds and stress; that is to say, it is the state where there is no passion and so love. The state without happiness is comfortable because there are no emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure. Thus, being comfortable means there's nothing. 

Depending on whether to take others' advice as stress or accept it positively, it can be changed to either love or passion. It can be understood that good or bad is not formed outside but decided by one's own psychology. 

Also, about any negative phenomena from outside, whether they become one's wounds or stress or become one's love or energy of passion depends on how one accepts them. Not naggings, anger, advice, etc. from counterparty but how one accepts them is important.

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