Women's turning points in life in the pursuit of happiness

There are three turning points in women's life in the pursuit of happiness. The first is when they get married, the second is when they develop post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity, and the third is when they get a divorce or are bereaved of the husband. When they get remarried, they simply go back to when they were married instead of encountering a turning point of life. 

When women get married, they gain the object of love and when women get a divorce or are bereaved of the husband, they lose the object of love. In between marriage and divorce or bereavement, women may encounter post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity. When women experience post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity, they still have the object of love in reality but have lost the object of love in their mind. This condition puts women in the most excruciating psychological pain turning all her life experiences into psychological wounds and leaving no hope whatsoever for the future. 

However, women can take post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity as an opportunity to reflect upon her life. Then, they can decide whether they will stay in marriage or get a divorce. Whichever they choose between the two, they must first restore healthy psychology since they cannot become happy without treating post traumatic stress whether they stay in marriage or get a divorce. 

Without treating post traumatic stress, women may destroy their life and the lives of loves ones including their children regardless of marital status.       Post traumatic stress activates the unconscious to operate psychology in a distorted way and makes you think and act in the way that destroys yourself and people around you. When you adequately treat post traumatic stress and build the ability for happiness, you can become much happier than when you thought you had a perfect life before you experienced post traumatic stress. You can turn the biggest crisis into the biggest opportunity by treating post traumatic stress and building happiness ability. 

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