10/20/2021

The cause of infidelity is relationship addiction.

 

The cause of infidelity is relationship addiction. Many people including even so-called experts misunderstand that infidelity is caused by problems of love, sex, or marriage. The idea that infidelity is caused by problems of love, sex, and marriage is used to justify the act of infidelity and leads you to adopt incorrect solutions to the problem. 

It is important to understand that the root cause of infidelity is a psychological disorder, which is relationship addiction, and the symptoms and the surface phenomena are presented as being problems of sex, love, and marriage. When people develop relationship addiction, men are addicted to the adulteress's response and women to the adulterer's attention and consolation. No one would intend to develop relationship addiction consciously. You may develop the condition acutely in some stressful situation in spite of themselves.

When spouse infidelity is discovered by the victimized spouse, he or she develops post traumatic stress. Post traumatic stress keeps being aggravated unless it is treated properly. The spouse with post traumatic stress experiences the most excruciating psychological pain no one can imagine including the spouse in infidelity. Attempts to solve the problem of post traumatic stress by taking practical measures or by suppression or diversion will only aggravate the condition leading to a complete collapse in the end.

In relationship addiction, men develop perception disorder and expression disorder simultaneously, and women develop the disorder of memory of emotion and expression disorder simultaneously. People in relationship addiction also have the consciousness disorder that makes them think in distorted ways, so they perceive normal behaviors of normal people as stress and wounds. As the condition of relationship addiction progresses, they may develop intermittent explosive disorder or hysteria. They would simply explode upon the smallest trigger of stress and wounds. Both the spouse in relationship addiction and the spouse in post traumatic stress need to treat their condition before anything to restore healthy psychology and happy life.

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