I : I don’t know what to do. My husband has cheated on me!!!
Friend 1 : What? You can’t stand it. Just sue him!
Friend 2 : Right. It’s really easy these days!
I : I can’t think anything. It’s so painful...
He says he loves her more than me. He even asked me if love is sin.
Friend 3 : And you didn’t do anything? You’re not a saint.
Friend 4 : Right. How can you stand it? I would have divorced him on the spot!
Friend 1 : Cheating such a perfect wife like you?
You should live your own life from now on.
Friend 2 : Humans cannot be repaired for the better.
These days, it is a common practice that people focus more on practical issues over the root cause upon the discovery of spouse infidelity, which leads to immediate lawsuits and divorce. The cause of infidelity is not problems of marriage or love, or issues of sexuality or emotions, but is relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder. Many people have wrong conviction on the root cause and take practical measures such as counseling, coaching, lawsuits, and divorce. They may make you feel better temporarily, but actually aggravate your psychological condition and lead to the destruction of all relationships.
Upon the discovery of spouse infidelity, you must first treat post traumatic stress and the spouse’s relationship addiction. Then, you can address practical issues related with infidelity, and you can live a happy life with your loved ones regardless of your marital status.
Psychological disorders including post traumatic stress and relationship addiction can be treated by adjusting the operation of mind, not of psychology, based on the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind.
Many people doubt and distrust the fact that psychology treatment is proceeded without counseling and coaching. However, you will be surprised that you can achieve restoration of healthy psychology and feelings of happiness through KIP treatment program regardless of your practical situation. This is only a natural result when the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind is applied to adjust the operation of mind in your unconscious. This method is not well known to even psychology experts let alone lay people, so there are some degree of hesitancy before people start the program, but its high efficacy shocks most participants.
Please, keep in mind that all your family members are in a life crisis situation now due to infidelity issues. Treatment must precede taking any practical measure. It is because you cannot judge or make decisions in the right way when you are in excruciating psychological pain or in psychological disorders. Only when you treat yourself and restore happiness inside yourself, can you see through all the situations with the right perspective and adopt right solutions.
Accurate treatment for restoring healthy psychology and happiness cannot but take time, effort, and expense. Please, think about how much time, effort, and expense happiness of yourself and your children is worth. Happy life cannot be converted into any value with concrete matter. Almost all the participants of KIP treatment program say that it was worth all their time, effort, and expense after they finish the course. Please, reflect upon the right direction of your life path upon facing pain and suffering due to infidelity issues.
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