[Infidelity Therapy] The danger of arbitrary interpretation and self-conviction on infidelity

 

People who have relationship addiction and post traumatic stress make arbitrary interpretations thinking that their ideas and behaviors are right when they are exposed to diverse information on infidelity. People who make arbitrary interpretations tend to think and act as they please to feel comfortable. They think that they know everything about the issue and justify themselves. They are actually aggravating their condition of relationship addiction and post traumatic stress. Then, they may develop the disorder of the conscious being convinced that what is wrong is what is right. 

The spouse in infidelity has developed the psychological disorder that destroys all human relationships. Everything that obstructs their infidelity is perceived as stress and they avoid or sever all relationships that gives them stress. Then, they usually lose the opportunity to treat their condition. Also, people who suffer from post traumatic stress may develop the disorder of the conscious when they are convinced that they are fine when they actually have aggravated the condition and feel comfortable without proper treatment. They justify themselves believing that they are fine. 

You must avoid interacting with people who make arbitrary interpretations after they develop relationship addiction or post traumatic stress. They will attack you in many ways when they find that others' ideas and behaviors do not accord with them since they have such strong conviction that their ideas and behaviors are absolutely right. They are good at justifying themselves with the idea that what they know to be right represents all the truth there exists. They never realize that they are in a serious psychological condition. 

For this reason, it is recommended that people who have taken KIP Treatment should never talk about or suggest the program with other people. It is only to be used for your own treatment and happiness and not for anyone else. You may actually fall for arbitrary interpretations yourself and destroy yourself and other people when you try to teach the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and therapeutic tasks that you learned at KIP Treatment Program.

All your expressions and behaviors as you aggravate post traumatic stress may destroy everyone including yourself, your spouse, children, family, friends, and acquaintances. It is dangerous to look for information on infidelity and make arbitrary interpretations and develop self-conviction. Most practical measures suggested for solving the issue of infidelity are likely to only aggravate the condition of relationship addiction and post traumatic stress. 

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