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People who suffer from spouse infidelity want to know about the mind and psychology of the spouse in infidelity. It is because they have to make decisions on whether they can live with the spouse in infidelity. Also, the spouse in infidelity may want to know about the mind and psychology of the adulterer or the adulteress to be able to judge whether they have to keep the inappropriate relationship.
Infidelity is not caused by problems of marriage, sex, love, or emotions. The spouse in infidelity has developed relationship addiction, which is an advanced condition of psychological disorder. They commit infidelity when they find women who respond to men's attention or men who give women attention. The cause of infidelity is relationship addiction, which is response addiction for men and attention addiction for women.
The spouse in infidelity has developed relationship addiction and it progresses into intermittent explosive disorder, hysteria, or psychosis when it deteriorates to relationship addiction that involves sexual actions.
1. The operation of mind of peole in infidelity
Human mind generates emotions and operates it as psychology of perception, memory, and expression. The result of psychological operation and the resulting emotions are recognized in the conscious. The spouse in infidelity and the adulterer or the adulteress have developed psychological disorders in two components of psychology. In case of men, they develop perception disorder and expression disorder simultaneously. Perception disorder can be referred to as neurotic disorder and expression disorder as addiction. The husband in infidelity or the adulterer recognizes the most intense stress upon getting the slightest trigger of stress since perception disorder is activated. They display intense negative expressions to avoid or eliminate stress.
When men in infidelity perceive stress, they experience unbearable anxiety and nervousness and form obsession with the response of the adulteress. They can relieve stress and experience the most pleasurable sensations when they get responses from the adulteress. All these psychological phenomena are expressed through their speech and actions.
In this case, their psychology of memory operates in a normal way, so they would do anything not to get caught cheating by their spouse, children and friends. They feel comfortable and composed when they are not caught. However, when they are exposed to stress, they make speech and actions to avoid and eliminate the source of stress and they distort their memory and make self-justification.
In case of women, they have developed disorders of memory of emotions and expression disorder simultaneously. The disorder of memory of emotions can be referred to as depression and expression disorder as addiction. The wife in infidelity or the adulteress perceives even the smallest wounds in mimind, the disorder of memory of emotions is activated and the experience the most excruciating pain. Then, they make intense expressions in an attempt to treat wounds. Also, they experience anxiety and nervousness and develop obsession with the adulterer's attention. They feel relieved with intense sense of pleasure when they get attention from the adulterer.
2. The operation of psychology of people in infidelity
1) Men
The psychology of memory of men in infidelity operates in a normal way, so they would do anything not to get caught cheating by their spouse, children and friends. They feel comfortable and composed when they are not caught. However, when they are exposed to stress, they make speech and actions to avoid and eliminate the source of stress and they distort their memory and make self-justification. They may become violent or use violent language to eliminate stress, and destroy their memory and make self-justification. Men's relationship addiction progresses as they keep avoiding and eliminating stress.
The more men are attacked for their infidelity, the more their relationship addiction progresses. When men's relationship addiction progresses into relationship addiction that involves sexual actions, they may develop intermittent explosive disorder or psychosis.
2) Women
In case of women, they have developed disorders of memory of emotions and expression disorder simultaneously. The disorder of memory of emotions can be referred to as depression and expression disorder as addiction. The wife in infidelity or the adulteress perceives even the smallest wounds in mimind, the disorder of memory of emotions is activated and the experience the most excruciating pain. Then, they make intense expressions in an attempt to treat wounds. Also, they experience anxiety and nervousness and develop obsession with the adulterer's attention. They feel relieved with intense sense of pleasure when they get attention from the adulterer. All these psychological phenomena are expressed as speech and actions.
In this case, women's psychology of memory and perception operate in normal ways. They would do their best not to get caught cheating by their husband, children, and friends. They can stay comfortable and composed when they are not caught. However, they distort their memory and make self-justification when they retrieve wounds in memory and make speech and actions to treat wounds in mimind. Then, their relationship addiction progresses further. The more they are attacked for their infidelity, the more they display anger and want the adulterer's attention. This also aggravates women's relationship addiction. Moreover, when their relationship addiction advances into relationship addiction that involves sexual actions, they may develop hysteria or psychosis.
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