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[Infidelity Therapy] The difference between religious activities and proper treatment when suffering from spouse infidelity
Some people get confused between religious activities and proper treatment. For example, they would ask, “If shouldn't develop dependency on religion, can't I go to church, read the Bible, or pray while I am taking the treatment program?”
Of course you can do all of them. However, you must not use religion to avoid pain and find temporary comfort justifying yourself. Then, you are more likely to aggravate post traumatic stress instead of properly treating it.
Developing dependency on religion is not living a healthy life of faith. You cannot and should not cover up your problems of habits of psychology with religion. As you treat post traumatic stress properly, you will be able to consolidate your religious beliefs. Then, your religious activities can be beneficial for your health and happiness in a true sense. However, when you go to church to meet people and share wounds with them forming personal relationships, you can be put in danger of destroying yourself and others. In that case, you are going to church not for the life of faith but for getting attention and consolation from people.
Religion can be distorted when humans perceive and operate it in a distorted way. The idea that any type of adoption of religion is legitimate and divine is dangerous. Human mind has the mechanism of its operation, and problems necessarily develop in habits of psychology when it is operated in distorted ways. You can restore healthy psychology only when you accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, and make efforts accordingly.
You may think that you can overcome post traumatic stress only with your devotion to religion since your pain and suffering go beyond human capabilities. Indeed, the pain and suffering of post traumatic stress is excruciating enough to make you experience hell on earth. However, depending on religion without proper treatment leads you to seek only comfort with self-justification.
When treat your condition in a proper way, you can perceive everything and pursue religion in the right way. Restoring your psychology will help you consolidate you religious belief pursuing health and happiness in a true sense. Then, you can also lead a healthy and happy life of faith.
It is recommended that you go to church, read the Bible, and pray with a true heart of faith without developing dependency on relationships with people. It can actually expedite your treatment process. They are considered as healthy religious activities that positively affect you without depending on relationships with people, and they will expedite the process of recovery from post traumatic stress.
Only praying day and night without making efforts for treatment in the right way, it is likened to asking your god to take care of everything and you doing nothing. It is not your god but you yourself who must make efforts to restore happiness ability. Of course, praying everyday for courage and power along with making efforts and gathering up your will to treat post traumatic stress will help you go in the right direction and at a faster rate.
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