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Many people think that it would not be too late to treat post traumatic stress of the victimized spouse after they solve practical problems of spouse infidelity such as lawsuits and divorce. They may feel that it is urgent to solve the practical problems of infidelity, and think that their psychological condition will be fine even when they are going trough post traumatic stress.
However, post traumatic stress only deteriorates as time passes without proper treatment. Especially, as you continue to be exposed to infidelity while trying to solve the practical problems of infidelity. Many people neglect their condition for too long and try to treat it only when everything has collapsed. Then, it may be too late to treat post traumatic stress.
When you treat post traumatic stress before trying to solve the problem of spouse infidelity, you can easily address all practical problems related with infidelity protecting yourself and children with happiness ability. In this case, all the practical measures such as lawsuits and divorce contribute to consolidating your happiness.
People who try to solve practical problems of infidelity first are doing their best to restore happiness in their own ways. However, it results in aggravating post traumatic stress and destroying yourself and children. When post traumatic stress advances to intermittent explosive disorder or hysteria, it is very hard to treat the condition. You may be able to prevent the aggravation through medication, but it is impossible to cure the condition and restore normalcy.
When spouse infidelity occurs, the most important thing is not to address the practical problems of infidelity, but to treat post traumatic stress of the victimized spouse. Your conscious thought and emotions are completely different depending on whether you have treated post traumatic stress or not. You must treat your post traumatic stress before anything and then, you can give your spouse an opportunity to treat his or her condition of relationship addiction.
When relationship addiction progresses to intermittent explosive disorder or hysteria, the victimized spouse is recommended to get a divorce and then treat post traumatic stress to be able to protect him or herself and children. Of course, it is not easy to treat post traumatic stress and restore happiness. On the other hand, it is very easy to avoid the situation, display rage, and collapse. It is up to you to decide on whatever you do with your life, but it should be kept in mind that taking practical measures to solve problems of infidelity before treating post traumatic stress only leads to collapse.
You experience pain and suffering at the early stage of post traumatic stress but you feel comfortable as the condition progresses further, which means that your mind is being destroyed and other people begin to suffer in the relationship with you. As your condition deteriorates, all your relationships with people are affected negatively. You must put priority on restoring healthy psychology and take the opportunity to treat post traumatic stress when you can.
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