[Mother Therapy] Parents' psychological problems are passed down to children.

 

     Children who are neglected or abused by parents are necessarily to develop psychological problems. However, parents may not realize that their children have developed psychological problems due to parents' problems since they are busy dealing with their own psychological problems. They only focus on their pain and difficulties and sometimes even blame children for their problems. They may say, "Only if you hadn't done such a thing….", "It is your own fault, not mine. This problem is your own making.", "You really give me a hard time."

     Children have the right to be protected by parents and learn how to adapt to relationships and form their own standards of happiness. Parents have the responsibility to protect children. When parents cannot solve their own psychological problems, they negatively affect children neglecting or abusing children. 

     Children's psychological problems may not have surfaced yet. They may look like they are doing fine, going to school and not getting into troubles. Sometimes, children do not show any visible signs of problems at all even when parents have serious psychological problems. It only indicates that children have really serious psychological problems but it has not surfaced yet. They will be displayed in diverse ways sooner or later. They may also have difficulties or get involved in accidents or crimes when they become adults and pursue self-actualization. 

     Parents should never neglect or abuse children even if they are going through difficult times psychologically. Parents' psychological problems may be passed down to children since children are necessarily affected by parents' psychological condition. It is recommended that parents try to solve their own psychological problems and treat their condition to be able to provide a good environment for children to develop healthy psychology. Otherwise, both parents and children may have to live unhappily in spite of themselves. 

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