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Many people ask if a spouse who is committing infidelity also develops post traumatic stress upon the discovery of spouse infidelity. A man who is committing infidelity will not develop post traumatic stress when he discovers that his wife is also committing infidelity. The same applies to a woman who is committing infidelity.
People who are committing infidelity have developed relationship addiction, which is an advanced condition of psychological disorder. Their psychological condition deteriorates at a fast rate when the discover their spouse is also committing infidelity, but they do not develop post traumatic stress. They also get stressed and wounded by spouse infidelity, which aggravates their psychological disorder. Still, they don't develop post traumatic stress since their condition has already deteriorated enough.
People who have post traumatic stress turn everything they perceive, remember, and express into fake wounds. They recognize excruciating pain at first, and then, they feel more and more comfortable developing confidence and seeking pleasure. They develop problems in habits of psychology, with which fake wounds continue to be activated.
Recognizing excruciating pain indicates that problems of habits of psychology have not developed yet, and you still have an opportunity to treat your psychological condition. Post traumatic stress develops only when a person who has normal psychology discovers spouse infidelity. All the experiences in life turn into wounds and you feel that the whole life is denied.
On the other hand, people who are already committing infidelity and have relationship addiction do not develop post traumatic stress. They may feel stressed and wounded when their partner of infidelity sees other partners since they cannot get the attention and response they need. They may develop anxiety since they don't have the object for relieving their obsession or stress and wounds, but they just need to find another partner of infidelity. Their psychological condition deteriorates at a fast rate, but they never develop post traumatic stress.
People in infidelity already have their psychology operate in abnormal ways, so they don't develop post traumatic stress, with which all life experiences turn into stress and wounds at one blow. However, their condition deteriorates at a fast rate due to the intense stress and severe wounds that suddenly struck them.
They are likely to think that it is a good opportunity to end the marriage relationship without recognizing much pain. Some people even perceive the spouse's behaviors as sexual responses and take advantage of the spouse for sexual pleasure. These people cannot but destroy all human relationships as if they spread a contagious disease. Please, keep in mind that relationship addiction and post traumatic stress can destroy all aspects of human life with dire consequences when they are neglected and not properly treated.
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