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Many women choose to get a divorce upon discovering husband infidelity. They would not sacrifice themselves to maintain marriage relationship. They would choose to give up on marriage and family instead of suffering from pain of husband infidelity. They cannot think about their family and children in such a painful situation.
In addition, there are many so called experts who encourage lawsuits and divorce. They say that the husband and the adulteress in infidelity must be punished through lawsuits and divorce and the victimized spouse must become happy as an individual. Then, the wives do not even make efforts to restore family and marriage, and go straight to filing lawsuits and getting a divorce destroying family and marriage in their own hands.
Many people suffer from stress and wounds from difficult relationships and choose to sever relationships and only pursue happiness as an individual. They choose to avoid and stay in comfort instead of overcoming stress and wounds and pursuing being happy together in relationships. However, humans are social beings by nature and it is hard for anyone to live without forming relationships with other people.
It is imperative that wives who suffer from husband infidelity must treat post traumatic stress before anything and restore happiness ability. We may be able to live in comfort but we cannot live in happiness without sharing happiness with other people. When you destroy human relationships, you will naturally live a destructive life then on.
It is understandable that wives who suffer from post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity cannot think with reason since the pain is simply excruciating and choose to get a divorce since they cannot stand the situation. Many of them regret getting a divorce hurriedly after they find that their life and their children's life were irrecoverably damaged. Then, they necessarily develop self-blame, other-blame, or dependency. The most dangerous of them is developing dependency. People who develop dependency avoid and discard all their right and responsibility. They give up on their own right for happiness.
Whether a wife who suffers from post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity will live happily or unhappily is decided by whether she makes a right kind of effort or not for restoring happiness. It is not to say that wives in pain and suffering should suppress themselves and sacrifice themselves. It is rather to say that they should restore happiness in a true sense. The treatment program at KIP guides you to find the right path to happiness on your own.
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