3/15/2023

[Infidelity Therapy] The psychology of people who discover husband infidelity


     There are some cases when husband infidelity is discovered by people around the couple. It can be discovered by people due to the husband's mistake or the revelation by the victimized wife. When family members discover husband infidelity, the husband remains as the one who inflicted great psychological damage unless he is properly treated and restores healthy relationships. Then, the husband stays as a stranger to other family members. 

     It is important to analyze the psychology of people who discover the husband infidelity. The husband has already developed relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder. He ends up destroying all human relationships and his own life by developing a serious condition of response addiction or intermittent explosive disorder. People who stay close to the husband are also considered to have developed psychological disorders. People who have normal psychology become to sever the relationship with the husband since they are perceived as stress by the husband. 

     People who are close to the victimized wife aggravate their psychology as they share the pain of the wife's post traumatic stress. They try to make the wife feel comfortable and have fun expediting the progress of her condition. Men who stay close to the wife even when they know about the husband infidelity are the ones who are also in relationship addiction. They may try to perceive the wife's expressions as sexual responses. They may try to take advantage of the wife and her family members. They think that it is OK to take advantage the wife and children since the husband has already deserted them. 

     They may develop the sense of superiority over the husband in infidelity and even think that they can take care of the wife better than the husband in infidelity. They may try to make the wife become an adulteress. They may also try to stay close to the husband thinking that they may have a chance for infidelity or some financial gain.

     Women who stay close to the husband in infidelity knowing that he is in infidelity may be having an affair themselves or ready to commit infidelity. They think that the victimized wife is stupid and they can become a better partner than the wife. They also think that they can make profit by staying close to the husband and even try to commit infidelity themselves. They may develop the sense of superiority over the wife. 

     Women who empathize with the victimized wife may get vicarious satisfaction. They may tell everyone about the husband infidelity feeling fun and satisfaction. They may feel sorry for the wife and believe that they will never live like her. 

     People who discover about the husband infidelity can become dangerous people to be around. The husband in infidelity and the victimized wife do not realize that those people are dangerous. The husband must treat relationship addiction and restore healthy relationships. The victimized wife must treat post traumatic stress and protect herself and children. They must take KIP Treatment to adequately address the issue. 

     First and foremost, the wife and the husband must not let anyone know about the husband infidelity. When the wife talks to people about the husband infidelity to feel better and get advice, they cannot but sever the relationship with them after she treats her condition.

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