[Sex & Xes] The distinction between sex and xes

 

     Most people tend to relate sexual actions when they think about human sexuality, but the core concept of human sexuality is related with the energy that makes human beings think and act by activating their mind from inside at the fundamental level, thus referred to as xes energy. Xes energy is activated every time human mind is activated, and sexual action is only one of many outward manifestations of our emotions and thoughts all combined including sexual desire. 

     Xes energy is being activated all the time inside us. All of our inward or outward expressions may stem from the operation of xes energy, which can be referred to as xes expressions. When xes expressions are not connected with emotions and conscious thoughts including sexual desire, they are just pure xes expressions, but when xes energy is connected with emotions and conscious thoughts in mind, they function as sexual expressions with selfish purposes in human relationships usually with negative and destructive effects.

     For example, women's expressions of wounds are the result of xes energy being activated combined with negative emotions in mimind. Then, they function as sexual expressions in human relationships. Women's expressions of wounds are intended to activate xes energy more by getting attention and consolation from some external sources, thereby treating wounds and restoring happiness. Surprisingly but naturally, this same mechanism applies to the process of women developing sexual desire. 

     Positive xes expression is defined as xes energy being manifested positively without being combined with emotions and conscious thoughts including sexual desire and selfish purposes. Negative xes expression is defined as xes energy being manifested combined with emotions and conscious thoughts including sexual desire and selfish purposes. Maximized negative xes expressions present themselves as sexual actions.

     For example, when a mother scolds her son based on her negative emotions, it functions as negative xes expressions. Of course, she may not think relating her scolding with any sexual action, but she is in the condition where she is trying to get attention and consolation from any external source to recover from her wounds in mind. Then, her condition will affect her son in negative ways making him feel extremely stressed by his mother's behaviors and avoid the situation, become rebellious, or suppress his emotions. 

     Interestingly, men who operate xes energy in negative ways and have sexual desire activate sexual desire toward women's expressions of wounds in spite of themselves. They may willingly give such women attention and consolation and feel pleasure themselves. Women may not realize that their expressions of wounds function as sexual expressions, but the same mechanism is in operation as when women develop sexual desire. 

     Men who activate xes energy in negative ways in extremity may recognize their own selfish purpose of giving consolation to women and getting response from women. Women who activate xes energy in negative ways in extremity may also recognize their own selfish purpose of getting consolation from men and giving response to men in return. Then, they can be considered to be exchanging sexual expressions through empathizing with each other without direct sexual actions. 

     People who activate xes energy in positive ways do not connect xes energy with their emotions and thoughts including sexual desire and selfish purposes. They make xes expressions in pure forms. On the other hand, people who activate xes energy in connection with their emotions and thoughts including sexual desire and selfish purposes and make expressions based on negative manifestation of xes energy are living their life with the purpose of getting consolation and attention in women's case or getting their own pleasure in men's case. 

      Activating xes energy in positive ways leads to generating positive energy for your body and mind. Activating xes energy in negative ways leads to generating negative energy for your body and mind and destroying self and others. 

     Not many people know about the existence of xes energy, which operates human mind and body at the underlying level. Not many people understand that connecting emotions and thoughts with xes energy results in the same process that develops sexual desire, which, in turn leads to sexual actions. 

     Xes energy can be used to make people healthy and happy when activated in positive ways, but it can also be used to destroy self and others when activated in negative ways. It is important to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and sexuality at the fundamental level to use xes energy to promote happiness of self and others. 

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