What is the purpose of sex? For men, it
should be for the happiness of the woman they love, and for women it should be solely
for the happiness of their own mind. This is the easiest and fastest way to
restore the essence of sex, which has been distorted for quite a long time in
the history of mankind. Of course, the moment you hear this, you may think it's
nonsense, because your conventional wisdom and common sense will never allow
you to understand what it means.
"A man should have sex for the
happiness of the woman he loves, and a woman should have sex solely for her own
happiness." This statement is a condensation of the Theory of Mimind and
the Theory of Xesmind into a single phrase, and it actually requires an
accurate understanding of the Theory of Mimind and the theory of Xesmind in
order to understand what it means. But you don't need to know these theories in
detail to apply the concept in your life.
There is an element in the above quote
that applies to both men and women. It is "women's happiness." and this has
nothing to do with feminism at all. And another thing, when I say
"happiness," I'm not referring to sexual happiness, such as orgasm or
sexual satisfaction. I'm talking about the pure happiness of the mind that is
created after sex with a loved one, using sex to energize the mind. Having sex
is just an act that serves as a vehicle for mimind and xesmind to work.
When a man has sex to make the woman's
life happy, not for his own pleasure and enjoyment or to see her sexual
response, his own life becomes energized. When a man has sex with no thought
other than the woman's happiness, he will never experience sexual dysfunction,
no matter how old he gets. Sexual dysfunction is not an aging issue.
Women should not have sex for pleasure and
fun, for sexual attention, or to please a man, but solely to create the energy
of happiness in their own lives. When this is possible, the woman’s mind becomes
impervious to wounds of mimind and can have tremendous self-healing power. When
a woman is able to make herself happy, her partner is also able to make himself
happy and live a life of lasting passion.
Animals mate only based on the instinct to
reproduce, but humans activate sexuality to pursue self-actualization, searching
for meaning and value in life. Having sex is just one of the means with which
we generate energy to fulfill self-actualization, but these days, people rarely
think of having sex as separate from pleasure or love. Human sexuality is
supposed to work in accordance with the operation of human mind. The most
important thing to keep in mind when having sex is that for men, it should be
with the intention of making the woman they love and protect happy, and for
women, it should be with the intention of making themselves happy.
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