[Mother Therapy] Rights and responsibilities of children and teenagers

 

Childhood and adolescence are periods of psychological development during which children and adolescents are kept healthy and safe, and form psychological habits that enable them to pursue self-actualization as adults. While adults have the right to self-actualization and the pursuit of happiness, and must take responsibility for their own self-actualization, children and adolescents have only the right to be healthy, safe, and protected, and to form psychological habits for self-actualization in their future. In this process, the responsibility that comes with rights must be taken by parents, schools, society, and the state, and responsibility should not be placed on children and adolescents alone.

       In particular, children and adolescents go through a lot of trial and error in their psychological development and the formation of psychological habits. Parents and caregivers are primarily responsible for the problems that arise during this trial and error process. Parents and caregivers need to know how to parent and how to solve problems so that they can help their children and teens solve problems. If parents and guardians don't take responsibility, then schools and teachers, or society and the state, must take responsibility. Most importantly, parents and guardians, schools and teachers, and society and the state must have accurate knowledge about human bodies, minds, sexuality, relationships, and the pursuit of meaning and value in life.

      When parents and guardians, schools and teachers, society and the state do not know this, they may take away children’s and teenagers’ rights for adults’ selfish  purposes and make children and teenagers be responsible for problems. Holding children and young people responsible for their mistakes, they may tell children and teenagers that they should be able to do it themselves because adults have already taught them, telling children they did the best they could, or telling them that adults are not responsible. In the end, children and teenagers are harmed, and they grow up feeling victimized, competitive, resentful, and angry, and develop distorted psychological habits in mimind about responsibilities and rights. When these children and teens grow up and become adults, they carry these distorted psychological habits with them for the rest of their lives.

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