If you're a woman who's ever experienced excess
sexual desire, you know what it's like: you're thinking about sex all day long,
your body feels sexually aroused all day long, and you can't get enough relief even
after you have sex. You're so overwhelmed by sexual desire that it's hard to maintain
a normal life. Some people equate excess sexual desire with paraphilia or
psychosis. This is because they've never actually experienced it and do not
accurately understand how human mind and sexuality work. The tragic result is
that many people misunderstand excess sexual desire as something perverted and
obscene.
Let's start by looking at why excess sexual
desire occurs. When the human mind experiences wounds and stress, it develops a
desire to repair itself, and its energy is activated to do so. For ordinary
wounds and stresses, the mind can handle this sufficiently, but when the wounds
become too deep and powerful, xesmind begins to be activated strongly to repair
it. Xesmind creates the energy to make the mind work.
We disperse our xes energy evenly to work,
raise children, and live with love and passion, but we experience excess sexual
desire when all this dispersed energy is focused on sex to heal a big wound.
It's an overwhelming sexual desire, which is essentially an intense desire to
heal wounds and restore healthy mind.
What would happen when you accurately
understand the concept of excess sexual desire and create the ability to
control your energy? You could channel all that energy toward happiness, not
sex. In order to do so, you must first heal your wounds and return to a neutral
state of mind instead of a negative state, so that you can direct the energy of
your xesmind to where you want it to go. If the wound is not healed first, then
you will go straight to some kind of addiction with powerful energy of
immersion. If you love with a lot of wounds in mimind, it becomes an obsession,
not love. Normal love is about feeling additional feelings of happiness on top
of a neutral state of emotion, but obsession is about constantly craving love
from the other person in order to recover from a negative state of emotion.
What happens if you raise a child in a
state of excess sexual desire? You'll either become a helicopter mom or you'll
abuse your child. When you pour all the energy you can’t even handle into your
child, how could the child bear it?
Men's excess sexual desire is a little different from women's. By women's standards, all normal men are in a state of excess sexual desire. They always have a certain degree of sexual desire and use it as energy of passion to pursue values of life. However, there are times when a man's sexual desire is just too much even by men’s standards. This happens when a cause they are passionate about and immersed in stops working, when a business fails, when there's a major crisis at home, or in extreme situations such as wife infidelity. All of these may cause in men an over-activation of xesmind in order to get back on track and pursue happiness normally.
Excess sexual desire can occur in young men
too, usually when they lose enthusiasm about their studies, their career, or
their future. They're at an age where they're supposed to be very enthusiastic
about the future, but when that's not happening, all their energy may go into
their sex drive. If these men are able to channel their passion for pursuing
values smoothly, their excess sexual desire will disappear. People who don't
know the mechanism of mimind and xesmind call it a mental illness, and some
people advise them to exhaust their body by working out, but the problem is
that exhausting your physical strength has nothing to do with sexual desire
because desire is a thought.
Please, remember that even if you are
struggling with energy that you can't handle at the moment, you can learn to use
imcomparably great energy for your happiness by understanding the mechanism of
human mind and sexuality and by building the ability to control it.
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